accidentally browsed a TikTok and saw an incredible thing. A woman was persuaded by her best friend to divorce.
The world is so big and full of wonders. It really refreshes the three views and is unheard of. The result is really dumbfounding.
Speaking of weird people, I can really complain a lot. I always thought that these weird people would only appear in funny jokes, but I never expected that they can also be seen in real life!
In Henan, a video of a woman getting divorced after being persuaded by her best friend became popular on the Internet, attracting attention and heated discussion among netizens.
The whole story of this incident is very simple. The woman was not satisfied with her husband. She often quarreled over trivial family matters, and there was no common language between husband and wife.
We often say that every family has its own sutras that are difficult to recite. In fact, everyone has their own difficulties, and others may not necessarily see your good deeds.
In life, I believe everyone has heard of many examples of couples becoming enemies due to family members. often encounter family affairs. From the moment I entered the house, I kept a straight face:
My wife has carefully done this for you. I gave a dish to my husband, but after he took a bite, he shouted loudly: "What kind of dish are you cooking? There is so much oil in it, are you going to get bored to death?"
can't do anything well! The wife was very angry after hearing this, and the two started to quarrel.
A harmonious family and a happy life are the hopes that everyone has.
If you had a partner like this at home, and if the smallest thing didn't go your way, he would get angry with you and scold you, how would you feel? Are you feeling angry? How could you meet such a bad-tempered person? It makes peopleâs lives uncomfortable every day! I really want to leave him!
Is it really because your partner who quarrels with you whenever you disagree is because he has a bad temper and lacks patience?
Actually, this is just a superficial phenomenon, the real reason is here. After watching this video,
said it was right. Some netizens also said that divorce is right, but it is very difficult to implement it.
In fact, this is indeed the case. The ideal is very full, the reality is very skinny, and life is always a mess.
Many people give up a lot of things that should not be given up and waste a lot of time that should not be wasted in pursuit of a perfect marriage, but in the end it is still not perfect.
But for the sake of the children, all the efforts of the parents are just to give the children more choices in the future, so that the children will be more calm when faced with opportunities!
The matter between husband and wife is the only thing that cannot be told to outsiders, because it is also the only secret between husband and wife.
When couples get along, they must treat the affairs between husband and wife as a secret that cannot be told to outsiders.
In life, when people get along with each other, you can't criticize others, but you can't criticize your own family members either. If someone takes advantage of you, it will be difficult for your family to be happy.
This woman is a nagging person. She always likes to tell her best friends about her family affairs, so as to calm her inner dissatisfaction and complaints.
Forget about nagging her best friend, she told others everything. For example, she also told others about her husband's shortcomings without hesitation.
So this woman made the mistake that many women make, sharing the things between husband and wife with her best friends.
Because she often had conflicts with her husband, she would argue and argue with her husband every day. Every time, she would complain to her best friend. As time went by, her best friend got tired and said, "What's the use of a man who doesn't love his wife? It's better to divorce him." "!"
Perhaps the woman complained too much and her best friend persuaded her too much. After a quarrel with her husband, she actually listened to her best friend's advice and divorced her husband.
This woman heard her best friendâs righteous âjudgmentâ and felt that it was what she wanted. So after another quarrel with her husband, and with the encouragement of her best friend, she decided to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to divorce her husband.
However, what she never expected was that her best friend who had just divorced disappeared, the same best friend who had advised her to divorce countless times.
For the woman, this was like a bolt from the blue. A sense of deception filled her heart, and her anger suddenly burst out, so she took this extreme revenge on the car owner. .
For her, at that moment, she not only lost her marriage, her husband, her love, but also her best friend, and even more, her friendship.
were once the two most important people in her life, but they betrayed her together. She was very sad, sad, and regretful.
As someone who has been there and as your best friend, I would like to give you three suggestions:
First, regarding choice, life is a journey of choice. We are free to read, work and fall in love.
Getting to the point of getting married is followed by a series of long journeys such as having children, buying a house, raising children in the future, caring for the elderly, etc. These are all life themes that we, as ordinary people, must go through.
Secondly, regarding relationships, life is composed of countless relationships, such as husband-wife relationships, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships, family relationships, friend relationships, social relationships...
All of these can become interpersonal relationships, and the famous psychologist Ah Dele said that most of human troubles come from interpersonal relationships.
Third, regarding being yourself, when women have families and children, it becomes easier and easier to lose themselves without knowing it, so I will remind you that marriage does not take us to a besieged city, but allows us to live in a small area. Manage yourself well.
The premise is that you must have yourself, so what does it mean to be yourself? I think there are three points. First, you have your own hobbies; second, you have your own three or two close friends; third, you have your own small treasury.
However, as the saying goes, poor people must be hateful.
Don't say that your life is miserable, just blame yourself for your lack of brains.
The failed marriage was all her own fault. If she had not believed her best friend, this situation would not have happened!
Regarding this, the majority of netizens also have the same opinion. She is pitiful, but she does not deserve sympathy. She made friends carelessly and trusted others, so she suffered it herself.
Because the only people in this world who are sincere to you and tolerate you unconditionally are your own family members.
When you are truly strong, you will no longer care about the painful past.
Then you can only swallow the tears of grievance; those places that have been injured also have hard scars, protecting you like armor.
Pay attention to my words and enter your heart.
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