Introduction : The pressure of life is too great, and the elderly will inevitably feel empty and lonely. Many elderly people choose to live together. This is also simple and trouble-free. Getting married is really troublesome. Not only do you have to take care of each other's feelings, but you also have to pay for living expenses.
Many old people feel very happy after joining a couple. However, there are also some elderly people who are not suitable for joining a group and break up after half a month. This is the case for 72-year-old Uncle Lin and 68-year-old Aunt Yang.
Uncle Lin thinks that there is nothing wrong with being intimate between husband and wife, but Aunt Yang thinks that Uncle Jin is acting like a hooligan and does not know how to respect him. What exactly happened? Let's hear what they have to say.
72-year-old Uncle Lin’s self-report
My name is Lin Mo and I am 72 years old. My parents were both in business and left me three houses after their death. I live in one apartment myself and rent out the other two apartments. The monthly rent plus pension is more than 8,000 yuan. I feel that my life is very relaxing and moisturizing. At that time, I was full of fantasies about retirement life. I always feel that after retirement I can just be happy with my wife.
Unexpectedly, natural and man-made disasters ruined everything. My wife was diagnosed with stomach cancer , and died after the rescue failed. After losing my wife, my whole life fell apart. I don’t know what to do, I always miss my wife very much. My children are doing business in other places, so they give me some living expenses every month. They really don't have the time or energy to spend with me.
I am a grown man who can neither cook nor do housework. And I feel lonely every day, lacking care and companionship. So I found a wife to live with. She was introduced by a matchmaker and is 68 years old. She was a Chinese teacher when she was young, and now she is retired and receives a pension of 3,000 yuan a month. I actually don't care much about money, I just want someone to accompany me and take care of me. Soon we lived together and agreed not to get married. 3
She also helped me cook and wash clothes diligently. I find this life very comfortable. Her cooking is as delicious as my late husband’s. As for living expenses, I bear more. Occasionally I would help her with cooking and housework. She also praised me as a good man. Every night after dinner, I would hold hands with her and go for a walk outside. The two of us were talking and laughing, and we felt very happy looking at the scenery outside.
When night falls, we will eat melon seeds and watch the TV series " My Fair Princess ". Having someone by your side makes life much more interesting. It’s just that we have always slept in separate rooms. This makes me a little dissatisfied. I think our relationship is getting better and better, and it doesn't matter if we sleep in the same room. She is very nice to me and massages my legs. I feel very happy. One time I couldn't help kissing her and I said she was so beautiful. She was a little angry and asked me to stop doing this. But all I could think about was wanting to have her, so I just hugged her.
I said I love her! But she gave me a slap in the face. She said I didn't respect her and acted like a hooligan. I felt aggrieved and felt that I had done nothing wrong. I explained: "We have been together for so long and are so close. Isn't it normal for me to behave like this?" But she loudly told me to get out, saying that we were just living together and not a couple, so there was no need to be so close. I also kept apologizing, but I didn't expect that she would not forgive me. She quickly packed up and moved away.
Only now do I realize that living in a partnership is just about living together and facing shared pressures. As for couples, they are absolutely not allowed to live in the same room. I particularly regret that I didn't understand this earlier, which led to this result.
After she moved away, I lived alone. I feel like my days are very empty and boring. I could never find a wife as good as her. There was really no other way, so I spent 4,000 yuan a month on a live-in nanny to take care of my daily life.
Dear netizens, do you think it is possible to live together in the same room? Did Uncle Lin do anything wrong?
