Introduction
What I’m telling you today is that a 70-year-old man confided: “A new way of finding a wife is much better than partnering or remarrying, and this kind of mood can also allow you to spend your old age with peace of mind.” What exactly is it? What kind of new way to find a wife? Let’s take a look at this old man’s story.
Uncle Diao
I am 70 years old this year. My surname is Diao. I am a widowed old man. Now my wife has passed away for 15 years. After my wife passed away, I became an old man living alone. At that time, I was very sad because I didn’t know anything about it. I don’t want to spend my old age alone, but life is a cycle of old age, illness, and death, and no matter whether two people are in love, one of them will leave first when they reach a certain age, so I have to accept this fact.
In order to live a good life in my later years, I have no choice but to do some things that I like every day, because only through these things can I pass the time and will not remind me of those sad things.
Later, when I reached the age of 60, I also chose to retire. After retirement, I also moved to my son’s house because I didn’t want to live alone. I felt that I didn’t feel safe living alone, so I had to move to my son’s house. In this way, I You don’t have to worry about no one waiting for you, and you don’t have to worry about no one knowing when something unexpected happens.
What I didn’t expect was that after living in my son’s house for two years, my daughter-in-law had a very strong opinion of me. Because of my arrival, he often quarreled with my son and always said that I was a burden or that I was a professional. Add trouble to them.
To be honest, I really haven’t bothered them. In order to reduce their pressure, I often help them with housework. They also have ready-made meals after work every day. I also pick up and drop off my grandchildren, so They don't have to do anything.
But my daughter-in-law doesn't like me no matter what. She always thinks that I come here to eat and drink, and says that I have seriously affected their lives.
I felt very sad when I heard my daughter-in-law say this. I obviously didn’t do anything, but I became a sinner. Later, I couldn’t stand it anymore, so I moved out of my son’s house because I really didn’t want to see my daughter-in-law’s face anymore. , and I don’t want to be criticized by my daughter-in-law all day long.
After this experience, I also understood that people must stay away from their children in their old age and never live with them, otherwise I will really regret it, so I decided that I will never go to my son’s house again, even when I am old. , I can no longer take care of myself, and I will not rely on them, because once I go to their house, I will feel sad once, so it is better not to go.
After returning to my hometown, I was not so sad anymore, so staying away from my son and daughter-in-law was the most correct choice I ever made.
As time went by, I got older and older. In order to spend my later years with peace of mind, I also had the idea of remarrying.
After having this idea, I soon found a wife who is very suitable for me. Her name is Xiao Lin. Xiao Lin is only 50 years old. She is very beautiful, has a good figure, and is good at dressing up.
I thought that after being with her, I would be able to spend my old age in peace, but who would have thought that when I married an ancestor, she not only made me wait on her all day long, but also forcibly took away my pension card and spent money every day. It's like running water, it's very powerful, and it doesn't consider my feelings at all. Although I have a pension of 6,000 yuan, my money is not spent.
But she is my wife, and I can’t say anything to her, so I can only indulge her. But the more I indulge her, the more she gets more and more, and she spends more and more money. It doesn’t take long after the pension is paid out. , she spent it all. After spending it, I had to give her my savings. If I didn’t give it to her, she would be angry, so she was like an ancestor.
She is not only angry, but also very difficult to take care of. Whenever I do something that doesn’t go her way, she will lose her temper. No matter how much I coax her, it’s useless. Unless I buy her brand-name things, she won’t be able to pay them back.
But at the time, I thought she was just with me to live a good life, but I later discovered that her real purpose of being with me was not only to live a good life, but also to get my money. Pay off the car loan and house loan for her children.
Once she secretly took the money in my bankbook and gave it to her children. After I found out, I became furious because she took 100,000 yuan at a time. When I asked her why she did this, she was still confident. He said: "If you marry me, my son will be your son, so you will be responsible for repaying the car loan and house loan in the future."
At that time, I directly scolded: "You are not worthy yet."
After finishing speaking, She was very angry, and then she started to lose her temper and said that she would run away from home. At that time, I responded with disappointment: "Then you go, I don't care about you anymore. Anyway, I am not happy with you, and I can't get anything." Because of your efforts, I just decided to get divorced so that I wouldn’t have to suffer this kind of injustice anymore.”
When she heard that I wanted a divorce, she panicked immediately, because if she got divorced, she would have no money to use, so she didn’t want to. Divorce, but I insisted on divorce, and in the end she had no choice but to agree.
After I got divorced, no one would covet my money, and I wouldn’t have to endure grievances, so I think people really shouldn’t remarry in their later years, as they will really regret it if they do. Later, half a year after my divorce, I thought of a good way to provide for my elderly.
This method is also very popular recently. Many people call it a new way of caring for the elderly. As long as you use this method, you can spend your old age with peace of mind.
Later, I also chose to use this method. This method is to find a wife and fall in love with me. Although getting along with each other in the following way is not very reliable, I think it is much more reliable than setting up a relationship or remarrying, because it is more reliable to get along with a partner. If you remarry, others will covet your property, but using this method will not only prevent others from coveting your property, but you will also live comfortably.
The woman who is partnering with me is called Xiaomei. Xiaomei is a very reasonable woman. When I proposed this way of living, she agreed without hesitation.
Although we have become a couple, we do not live together because we don’t want to cause trouble to each other and we don’t want to be guarded by each other, so we think this method is good.
Whenever we go out for consumption, each of us pays half of the money. We never take advantage of the other party or ask the other party for money.
and Xiaomei are also very easy to talk to. Whenever I am sick, she will take the initiative to take care of me. Of course, when he is sick, I will also take the initiative to take care of her, so the two of us are mutual, just because we are two We have achieved mutual understanding and tolerance, so the two of us live a very happy life. This way also makes me feel at ease.
Here I hope that all the elderly can take care of themselves in this new way of caring for the elderly, so that they don’t have to worry about problems in their old age. Although it may seem selfish to care for them in this way, after it is implemented, it will be fair to each other, so I think this A good way.
Conclusion
This way of love is indeed much better than remarriage or partnering up. If you remarry and partner up, you will not only be wronged, but also be greedy for property by others, but this way will not. Not only can you live comfortably, but you can also make people feel this way. What a wonderful way of life it is.
