The real heartbreak is not hysterical crying; the real disappointment is not the endless quarrels.
In fact, when a relationship comes to an end, it may not necessarily be because someone betrayed whom, or it may not break up due to endless quarrels. To kill a relationship, only two simple words are enough: neglect.
Every relationship begins with initiative and ends with indifference.
Once upon a time, I felt that the other person and I could be together forever. Both of us were full of enthusiasm and wanted to give each other everything we could, and wanted to be by each other's side all the time. But as time goes by and the years change, the connection becomes weaker and weaker, and the care becomes more and more rare.
messages went from replying in seconds to taking a long time to reply, then occasionally replying, and then not replying often; each other went from caring about things to being indifferent to being perfunctory and impatient; you were indifferent to my affairs; you My heart is filled with despair.
Leaves don't turn yellow in a day, and people's hearts don't turn cold in a day.
The scary thing is not that the feelings are as dull as water, but the endless silence. Only when a person cares about you too much will he chatter endlessly. Only when he is disappointed to the end will he become calm, because this means that she no longer has any expectations for this relationship.
In fact, the secret to a long-lasting relationship is to talk well.
When two people are together, they chat about interesting things around them, talk about each other's inner thoughts, talk to each other, accompany each other, share interesting things with each other when they see them, and talk to each other about bad troubles when they encounter them. The warmth of emotion is based on such bits and pieces of communication.
There is a saying: People who love you will find it interesting even if you say nonsense. To a person who doesn't love you, every word you say will seem redundant to him.
Life is short, and meeting someone who understands you and responds to you in everything is the best blessing.
May every effort you make receive an affectionate response, and may everything you gain be filled with joy.
