"Lies" are just telling you alone! But you always treat it as a lie

"Lies" are just telling you alone! But you always take it as a lie! How many people regard other people's duplicity as a lie, but in fact, he just loves you too much.

If the truth is not necessarily true, then the lie must not be all false, because there is another kind of words called duplicity.

is like the phrase "I don't like to eat, you eat more" of parents; like the phrase "I don't like you anymore" when arguing; Worry, not hard".

There are some things I can't say, dare not say, don't need to say, can only cover up with a white lie.

So to listen to someone talk, the important thing is not to listen to what he said, but what he didn't say.

I

When watching "Passing Through Your World", I was moved by the pig's feelings for the swallow.

, ​​this naive and fat man, did his best to treat the swallows well. Z2z

Swallow was wrongly stolen money when she was in college. No one in the school believed in Swallow, only Dutou believed him. He worked hard as a tutor to save money to help her clarify. Regardless of the doubts of others, he always tried his best to protect her;

graduated from university, and Swallow went abroad to study . He worked hard, drove black cars, opened restaurants, taught children to dance ballet, even let people punch them for ten dollars, and then sent all the money to Yanzi.

He said, "Swallows, help me keep them", but he was actually afraid that the swallows would be struggling outside. Z2z

Swallow returned to China. He planned a wedding carefully and invited all his classmates to testify. The whole person jumped up and down with joy.

But the swallow came but called him aside and said: "Let's break up."

In an instant, there was a tsunami in his heart, but his face was only slightly startled, except for a smirk, he didn't say a word to stay. Z2z

Yanzi said: "The money you send me, I will pay you back."

He waved his hand hurriedly: "I have money, no need to pay it back. Swallow, fortunately you broke up with me, otherwise I will delay you. Swallow , You want to be happy after you leave, you know?" Z2z

Zhutou thought he could always pretend that nothing happened until Swallow got in the car and left. He finally burst into tears and chased after the car hardly: "Swallow, take me away without you How can I live."

All the careless and smiling faces are just a white lie.

Even if he has given everything for Yanzi, even if Yanzi has let him down, he is still unwilling to hurt Yanzi a little bit.

A few lies, for her peace of mind, whether it is pain or sadness, it is worth it to the pig.

But the lie is told to others after all, deceiving everyone, but not self.

Life has been so difficult, there is no need to expose lies. Lies to protect the beloved are probably the most distressing language in the world.

II

The farthest distance in the world is not between life and death, but when I stand in front of you, but you don't know that I love you.

But the saddest distance in the world is not that you don't know that I love you, but that you obviously love each other, but never together.

is like "The Later Us", Jianqing and Xiaoxiao missed it.

When the two people first got together, they squeezed into a room of several square meters to eat instant noodles. The sundries were piled up high and the lights were damp and dim.

Their most precious furniture is an old sofa that they picked up, which was thrown away by others. But on the day when she picked up the sofa, Xiao Xiao was so happy that she had the whole world.

At that time, all the audience thought they would have a good life and would love and stay with each other forever. It's easy, but difficult.

saw that her job was lost, she was beaten up by clients, and she was ridiculed by her classmates when she returned to her hometown. She suddenly became self-defeating, misunderstanding Xiao Xiao's concern and even cold and violent towards her.

One day, Xiaoxiao finished the instant noodles and tentatively said to the player who was playing a game: "I'm leaving."

didn't look back, "Yeah."

Xiaoxiao looked disappointed, stood up slowly, took the suitcase and left.

ran to the subway station after seeing the clear reaction, saw Xiaoxiao, but did nothing.

many years later he asked Xiaoxiao: "If I were on the subway with you, what would happen to you?"

Xiaoxiao said: "I will follow you all my life."

later found out that he had married a wife and had children, two people. It was missed after all.

Most of the misses in life stem from duplicity.

obviously wanted, but pretended not to care; obviously wronged, but said "I'm fine"; obviously didn't want to be separated, but said "you go". What

says is all lies, all he gets is harm, without malicious intent, but hurts others and himself. There is a big misunderstanding in

's relationship, that is, two people think that each other will understand what they are expressing. In fact, no one in this world will fully empathize with another person. What

is most afraid of is that two people are lying, one pretends to leave, the other pretends not to stay. In the end, it could only be as Xiao Xiao said, and then there was everything but each other was gone.

If two people want to be together for a long time, they don't have to guess everything. Only by truly understanding what the other person thinks can we avoid misunderstandings and stay with each other for a long time.

III

When I was young, I was determined to be an honest child. When I grew up, I realized that adults have things that they can’t tell others.

This matter has nothing to do with good or evil, just to not be worried, not to be ridiculed, in order to maintain that little self-esteem that cannot be trampled on, I have to lie to cover up.

It turns out that there are not only truths and lies in the world, nor do people only have good and bad. To judge things not only with eyes and ears, but also with heart.

Mizuki-kun said that

is a joke, and hides the truth.

If you don't have to lie, whether you love or hate, and you can express it bravely, don't deceive yourself.

I hope you should say what you should say in time, and the people you should love should love each other well and live up to .