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"Your annual salary is 500,000? Well, for the sake of your honesty, I will talk to you."
Guo Ying’s arrogant attitude made Liu Baijun reluctant in an instant. Her annual salary of 500,000 was just a "general" in her mouth, and she had also read her personal information. Although the resume was good, it was still drifting. She is beautiful and bright and has a good job. However, Guo Ying is 36 years old after all. Why is she arrogant and immediately retorted: "You are 36 years old, and you have such a high demand? My annual income is 500,000. It’s just going to be here, you can’t really recognize yourself."
Guo Ying was also angry with one sentence: "What’s wrong with 36 years old, I’m in good condition and I am beautiful, so why can’t I mention it? Requirement." Liu Baijun smiled after hearing this: "I have seen a lot of beautiful women, and this is the first time I have seen you like you. Then I ask you, can you still have children?"
When Liu Baijun said the last sentence, he obviously increased his tone, and even turned people around on the same blind date to look at them. This made Guo Ying very embarrassed and very aggrieved. He held back tears for a long time, but after all Not a word was said.
Guo Ying is 36 years old this year, graduated from 985 school, and works in a state-owned enterprise. He earns about 20,000 yuan a month and looks very beautiful even after dressing. One type.It is precisely because she has so many advantages, so the requirements for the other half are also very high, and even threatened that 's own object must have an annual income of more than one million.
In fact, Guo Ying did not always have such high demands when she was young. She had been with two boyfriends before the age of 25. However, the poor family of the first boyfriend made them have to break up, but the second was because she looked down on Her family background made Guo Ying the one who had to break up. Since then, Guo Ying has been eager to be strong, spending most of her energy at work, and finally has a lot of achievements, but the age has also risen. NS.
25 to 36 years old, for a full 8 years, Guo Ying did not want to find a partner during the period, but never found a partner that satisfies him, so that later became more and more uncomfortable, in fact, after 30 years old, Guo Ying every year There are not less than dozens of blind dates, and now there are more than hundreds, but there is still no progress. This has a lot to do with her marriage requirements. Guo Ying relies on her appearance and ability to find quality men.
However, there are always few high-quality men on blind dates. After all, how can really high-quality men lack girlfriends? Therefore, the matchmaker is also persuading Guo Ying to appropriately lower the requirements, especially in terms of annual income, but Guo Ying has not done it. In her thinking, income represents a person’s ability, thought, and the amount of responsibility that can be undertaken. Therefore, it is better not to overrun, and never compromise. Therefore, the number of blind dates at the age of 36 is as many as 100 times. Such a large number still has not met the one who satisfies Guo Ying.
Not long ago, Guo Ying met a business man named Liu Baijun on a blind date. He is 37 years old this year. His personal feelings have been delayed because of his busy work. Guo Ying is very satisfied with his appearance and personality. It can also be seen from Liu Baijun’s attitude. Guo Ying was also interested, so the two started talking. Soon after, Guo Ying asked Liu Baijun about his personal income. Liu Baijun said honestly: "I earn 500,000 yuan a year."
This is often very high during blind dates. However, Guo Ying replied with "less than 1 million. For the sake of your honest character, you are willing to have a look with you." Liu Baijun is not a young boy. He has read the information about his own income and Guo Ying's income. He is more than twice that of the other party, but in her mouth he has become a general, so he can't choose In other words: "Are you too self-righteous, you are a woman of this age, can you still give birth? Who will marry you!"
Ying touched her nose and was very angry at the same time. She felt that Liu Baijun was simply unreasonable. He couldn't give birth at the age of 36. If he didn't have the conditions to marry a daughter-in-law, don't be sour and demanding. And from this time on, Guo Ying instantly reduced her desire for blind dates. On the one hand, she was always reluctant to get married, and on the other hand, she always felt that the current man was not worthy of her, and she didn’t want to listen to things like Liu Baijun. Kind of hurtful words said by the "scum man".
I once said that: Marriage is a transaction that everyone needs. There is a need for material, some need a spiritual partner, some need to conceal their life, and some need to pass on from generation to generation. Some need 24 hours. The babysitters are all understandable, and their personal goals are different.
However, I don’t agree with this kind of “teleological”. Feelings are always sacred and beautiful. They are the motivation and goal for all people to pursue and live. They are not just animal instincts. Otherwise, social development is needed. What do higher spiritual pursuits do?
As the old saying goes, "food and sex, sex too", but in feelings,In addition to having children and meeting needs, what is needed is respect, understanding, and companionship. This high-level spiritual pursuit is the foundation of feelings and the meaning of life.
In fact, it is understandable for Guo Ying to ask her to earn one million each year. It is nothing more than to have a better life. But her problem is that she has too much self-esteem. In fact, whether she is 36 or 25 years old, when she asks others to have one million When making an annual salary, first ask yourself: Am I really worthy? Why do you ask the other party to have it if you don't have this income? Is it just because you are a woman?
And here comes Liu Baijun’s rhetorical question to "Can you still have children at your age?" To be honest, I don’t think this sentence is an insulting language, but rather than a woman asking for a man’s annual salary of one million. I have made the same request to women. If some people think that Liu Baijun’s problem is excessive, it just means that these people are feminists who shout when they are good for them, but when they are bad for themselves. All kinds of complaints, completely the image of the weak.
Love and marriage are inseparable from money, but they must not be equal. Money is only part of love and marriage, and not the most important part, mutual respect and communication. The most important thing is the harmony and care of each other, so that the balance between love and being loved is the most important thing. Only this kind of relationship and marriage are harmonious and happy, and only then can they lead to happiness. Daughters are easy to get, but true love is hard to find!
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