"Dad, Mom, I'm divorced." "It's not a big deal."

｜Mai Mai

1

In the third year of junior high school, my 9-year-old brother was diagnosed with achondroplasia, which is dwarfism .

This news broke the peace of our home like a bolt from the blue. After confirming this result, 's father locked himself in the room all day, and 's mother said nothing. The atmosphere at home was so depressing that I didn't dare to let it out, and I didn't know how to go to to comfort them.

A few days later, my parents went out to buy vegetables together, and when they came back, they started talking and laughing, and the atmosphere at home was restored. Their relieved look made me secretly happy, but I didn't dare to ask more.

Since then, I have become cautious, for fear that one accident will hurt my parents again.

I tried my best to be excellent, thinking that this would make my parents feel more comforted and make others look at our family a little less. Unexpectedly, three years later, I failed the college entrance examination.

On that occasion, I stayed out all day and night by myself, and didn't go home until the next morning.

When I got home, I found that 's eyes were puffy and 's mother was waiting for me at home alone. Dad went out to look for me and didn't come back all night. He stayed out for as long as I left home. When Dad came back, he fell ill, cold plus gout.

I feel extremely guilty , looking at my father sick looks like lost my voice painful.

My mother comforted me and said, "I don't care what others think of you, I just hope that you and your siblings are happy." There was no disappointment in the words, only full of concern.

Every year after that, when I go home from vacation, I see my mother go out with a smile to greet me.

The most frequently heard words on the phone are: "You have to pay attention to your body, don't be too tired." "We don't want you to shine, just hope you are well." "Don't put too much pressure on yourself."

Dad Mom calmly accepts all the gifts that fate brings to them, they love me who is not outstanding, and my brother who is different from ordinary people.

2

I had a sloppy marriage.

The person I met had no sense of family responsibility and it broke my heart. The lifeless days overwhelmed me, and the marriage ended in less than a year.

On the first day after the divorce, I dared not go home or tell my parents.

I don't know where to live, so I can only hide in the hotel . Later, I couldn't bear the high cost, so I still went home.

After I got home, I didn't know how to open my mouth. I used to cry since I was a child. I hid in the room and shed tears for a while. After my emotions stabilized, I explained the reasons for my divorce to my parents.

I still remember my mother's first reaction. She didn't sigh like I imagined, but made a lame joke: " goodbye goodbye, the next one is better!"

My father also He only said one sentence: "No matter when you are wronged, feel free to go home."Because of our differences in personalities, we rarely communicated, but that day he knocked on my room door and asked me, "Sister, can I have a word with you?"

I didn't answer him, he walked in and sat next to me , patted me on the back: "Sister, in fact, many people in school look down on me, but I don't rely on them to live, so I'm not sad at all."

"Sister, you have always had a home, one less Home is nothing, we all care about you."

After listening to this, I held back my tears, and my brother cried after he left the room.

My brother taught me a lesson: People have too many misfortunes in their lives, so we must learn not to take misfortunes seriously.

Even if you have a miserable life, your family will not feel that you are embarrassed. This power is stronger than misfortune.

3

After I got home, my parents often took me to go sightseeing, and even two elderly people over 50 years old dragged me to watch 3D movies.

They do all this, not for anything else, but to share their happiness with me.

After playing with my parents for a while, I left home and went to another province to find a job. Maybe it's because of the change in mentality, I especially like the current living environment. Although there is no promotion or salary increase, everything around me makes me feel cute and amiable.

people can be sad, but not pessimistic . Some things, you may never change, but your attitude can be changed. When life is tough, look back at the people behind you who love you, and maybe you will have the strength to keep going.

Many times, people's "pessimism" is actually similar. When encountering setbacks, many people want to give up, but as long as you calm down, even in the dark, you can still see the light in life.

I also became pessimistic because of the misfortunes brought by life, but my family made me understand: It is useless to be sentimental. Only by working hard to embrace reality and reconcile with difficult situations can life continue.

If you read this article, you may think that I have had a harder time than you, or that I have not had as much pain as you, but the impermanence of fate is the same. Only when a person has the ability to accept misfortune can he meet all the challenges of life invulnerable.

I believe that in this world, there are many people who work harder than us, still holding on to the hope that will run forward. As long as they don't give up life, life won't give up on them, neither do you or I.

The acceptance of life is the best talisman on the road of life.

May you still have hope and light in your eyes after the trials of life.