Once love comes, some secular factors cannot become stumbling blocks that hinder love, such as age, identity, status, etc. As long as we appreciate and love each other, some seemingly huge differences can also produce an enviable love story. Only love is the most critical factor.
However, love is based on the emotions generated by both parties. If the fallen flowers are intentional and the flowing water is ruthless, it cannot produce true love, because after all, people are people living in the real world and will inevitably be affected by secular vision. So if love really dies due to secular factors, it can only mean that the fate is not over, and the road to seeking love still needs to be persisted.
A 31-year-old unmarried single man had met an 18-year-old female netizen on the Internet before. The two chatted with each other online and soon established an online dating relationship.
Although the online dating is invisible and intangible, it can comfort each other emotionally. The man himself never thought that the two could appear. After all, the two are not only 13 years apart, but also thousands of miles apart in time and space.
But the development of things far exceeded the man's imagination. When the two were in an online relationship for more than a month, a female netizen took the initiative to propose that she wanted to show up offline and see if she could determine the relationship between a formal lover in reality. She didn't want to feel illusory in her heart every day.
The female netizen's initiative and enthusiasm exceeded the man's imagination. The man agreed to meet him with a try-out attitude. He thought that the other party might not really like him. After all, he is 13 years older than the other party. The pressure of reality will make the girl give up.
However, what I didn't expect again was that after a female netizen took the high-speed rail from thousands of miles away to meet, the man found that the real person was much more beautiful than the photo. He was a little excited and moved, but the 13-year-old gap always made him feel resentful.
After a brief contact, the female netizen admitted that she was willing to develop a lover relationship with the man. She didn't care about the so-called 13-year-old age. She felt that the man was mature and steady, with extraordinary temperament, which met her requirements for her partner to choose a spouse.
The statement of the female netizen actually made the man fall into a tangle. After some struggle and thinking, he decided to separate his relationship. He really couldn't get over the entangle caused by the age of 13.
After all, being so small means that the other party may be very naive and immature enough, or the other party is just a moment of impulse and is willing to fall in love with him. When the passion fades away, in the real world, female netizens may leave him again in the future. These are potential hidden dangers and problems.
When the man told his female netizen his decision and concerns at the first time, the other party remained silent. She didn't expect that she would come from thousands of miles away and she didn't dislike him for 13 years older than her. A big man was so indecisive.
Perhaps the female netizen really fell in love with the man. Although the man had expressed his attitude, she was still unwilling to leave. In desperation, the man admitted to the female netizen that as a man, his conscience and reason told him that he could not do anything to harm the other party. He must send him back to his hometown immediately, otherwise he would feel uneasy.
could not tell the other party that the man forced him to take him to the high-speed rail station. Because he was worried that the female netizen would not have enough money on the way home, the man forced him to give him two thousand yuan, saying bluntly that as long as he could get home safely, he would be relieved. Although the two could not become lovers, they could still be friends.
The woman sat in the car without saying a word throughout the whole time, with her expression pale. This ending was not what she wanted. Perhaps in the woman's heart, "for your good" in is actually equivalent to extinguishing her passion and fantasy for love in her heart. This time she ran to the scene made her feel very disappointed.
Netizens praised the man for being a responsible and responsible man. His rejection seems cruel, but in fact he is extremely responsible to female netizens. Love is not just about being moved by the heart. As a man, you need to know how to take responsibility. The man is obviously a good man with a sense of responsibility and responsibility.
Just take a step back, age is not the only element that determines love. Many couples or couples have a huge age difference, but they are still as loving as before. mainly lies in the fact that as long as both parties have similar interests, their values are consistent, and their personalities are similar, age is never a roadblock that hinders love.
Online love affair is based on the premise that both parties are voluntary. Both parties believe that they should have some understanding of the other party’s basic information. Both parties should know in advance that the 13-year-old age is apart. Under this background, if the man agrees to show up but refuses to show up to the party on the grounds of being aged, then does this show up seem too hasty?
Therefore, love should not start easily. Since you decide to start, both parties should consider it carefully. For some information that can be objectively perceived, both parties should make predictions in advance, and do not waste each other's time and feelings because of their emotional fluctuations.
Of course, love cannot be forced. Although it has not produced a good story, we should still send it the most beautiful blessings. I believe that after experiencing this, men can better understand what kind of woman they need, and women are more aware of what love is, and both parties will definitely find their own happy belongings.
How do you think of a man who forcibly sends a female netizen home because he cannot accept the age of 13? Everyone is welcome to leave a message to discuss, thank you!
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