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People are always constantly having and losing in this life.
If you want to live a good life, you must not only learn to pursue but also stick to it.
No matter how hard or tiring life is, you cannot lose the following 4 things.
01
Health
Schopenhauer said: "The biggest mistake that humans can make is to exchange health for other external things."
◎ Eat and sleep well
Eat and sleep well
Eat and sleep seem to be a little bit of detail, but it occupies most of life.
Eat well, the body absorbs enough nutrition, and only with health can there be hope;
sleeps well, the body gets enough rest, and only with spirit can there be strength.
Eating well and sleeping well is a basic respect for life and the greatest protection for yourself.
One porridge, one meal, one sleeper and one lie down is a person’s lifelong practice.
◎ Learn to let go of your worries
The ancients said that anger hurts the liver, joy hurts the heart, sorrow hurts the lungs, thinking hurts the spleen, and may hurt the kidneys.
Long life journey, not panic is a kind of confidence, and not rush is a kind of confidence.
People who live a clear life have long learned to stop showing off, no longer be stubborn, no longer bewildering others, and no more wronged themselves.
Let go of what you should be let go of what you should be let go.
Just look at everything and your mindset will be better, and people will naturally become healthy and happy.
02
bone Qi
"Mencius Teng Wengong II" says: Wealth and honor cannot be lust, poverty and humbleness cannot be moved, and power and force cannot be betrayed. This is called a real man.
The world of adults is full of difficult things, but no matter how difficult it is, you must have your own dignity.
Song Dynasty Zhao Mingcheng When the Jin army attacked, he abandoned the city and fled. As his wife, Li Qingzhao was furious and wrote "I still think of Xiang Yu , refuses to cross the Jiangdong " to scold her husband for his miserableness and weakness. The poem
has also become a footnote to Li Qingzhao's men's beauty.
Dignity does not mean blind confidence, but knows how to raise your head, live with confidence and character, firmly believe in your own beauty, do not be wronged and please, and do not belittle yourself.
Zeng Guofan said: "Support a spring meaning and support two poor bones."
As a human being, only by having backbone can one be respected; only by defending dignity can one be recognized.
Even if you encounter setbacks, you must maintain principles. Only in this way can you not be afraid of wind and rain, ups and downs, and maintain the motivation to move forward forever.
03
liangxin
everyone says that people should have a conscience. What exactly is conscience?
Conscience is the bottom line of dealing with people, the duty of being a person and doing things, the foundation for survival, and the ditche that cannot be crossed.
People live a lifetime, and they live a heart, and peace of mind is the best destination.
Those who have helped you, keep it in mind; those who have accompanied you, be grateful.
Record the benefits of people, and most of what you get are benefits; understand others' difficulties, and most of what you get are understanding.
People with conscience have good character and kindness, and are respected wherever they go.
Because such people do not know how to calculate, deceive, flatter, or adulterate. They feel relaxed and feel relieved when they get along.
So, on the road of life, don’t lose anything and your conscience.
Only when you have a conscience can you live openly and live without any conscience.
04
trustworthiness
people but have no trust, don’t know what it can be.
Reputation is the bridge of communication between people and the bond that maintains each other's feelings.
It is like a piece of paper. Once there are wrinkles, it is difficult to return to the previous one even if it is smoothed with force.
There is a story like this:
A certain army held a cross-country race, and there was a soldier who was not good at long-distance running and was far behind in the competition.
On the way, the soldier saw a fork in the road with one road saying "Officer's exclusive passage" and the other was the soldiers' runway.
The soldier hesitated for a moment and finally ran towards the soldier's runway.
Surprisingly, half an hour later, the soldier arrived at the finish line and ranked first.
A few hours later, the rest of the soldiers came over panting and felt very confused when they saw him win. The officer hosted by
said: "This result comes from your choice at the fork in the road."
Everyone suddenly realized.
Trust only once, it cannot withstand temptation or harm.
On the road of life, we will all face similar choices.
A truly wise people understand: A good reputation is the greatest capital to achieve success.
I hope that in the future, we will manage our reputation as an unlost wealth, treat people with sincerity and establish ourselves with faith, so that the road of life will grow wider and wider.
Source: People's Forum Network Comprehensive Philosophy Life Network, Bee and Fly, Classic Quotes; Pictures from the Internet
