The so-called: Marry a virtuous wife. When you meet the right woman, cherish it. Find a suitable partner. It is more important than anything. Having a good wife is a blessing in this life and you should cherish it.
I have never seen such a materialistic woman. I prepared her birthday, gave her 520, and bought her a bag. As a result, she disliked me, scolded me angrily, scolded me, and told me to break up.
I can't believe my ears. This is what my girlfriend said, and I thought she was joking.
As a result, she said she was serious and really wanted to break up with me.
When I asked her the reason, she said directly that she thought it was too little for her birthday, and that it was too cold to buy a bag for her. She also said that her best friend's boyfriend started with a bag starting from 5,000, and said that I was embarrassing to her.
I collapsed. She embarrassed me in public and even despised me for not falling in love if I had no money.
I angrily retorted to her: Once upon a time, you said you wanted me to open a store so that you could make a lot of money to give her a good life in the future.
I endured it. For you, I paid all my savings and opened a store. Now the store has just opened and there is not much savings, so I save a little.
But 520 is not bad, why do you still dislike it so much?
...If you don’t have sincerity, let’s break up!
Breakup made me feel helpless and collapsed.
She actually dumped 520 in public and criticized me in public.
At that time, I looked at her with tears in my eyes, thinking she would look back, thinking she was just joking, but she turned around and left without looking back.
This material woman only has money in her eyes. How could he fall in love with her at the beginning?
From then on, I will no longer contact her.
still remembers what she yelled at me, which made me very sad.
She said cruelly: Don’t blame me for being too materialistic. I have understood it thoroughly with you for so long. It’s not that I don’t love you, nor that you don’t love me enough. It’s just that I don’t want to have a quarrel with you for the sake of food, rice, oil and salt after marriage, and the argument was red. I don’t want my life to be nothing more, so we break up, and it’s all about you and me, and the road is facing the sky and each side. That's true for
, I broke up with her decisively.
Go home sadly alone, but unexpectedly meet a down-and-out girl on the road.
The girl looks delicate, but she is in a poor and outdated manner. Her disheveled look makes me feel distressed, as if I saw my girlfriend for the first time.
Maybe she is not wrong, and I am not wrong, just lost to reality.
I threw my girlfriend to me 520 and gave it to the girl and left without looking back.
However, the girl saw it and she was very grateful and followed me crying and begged me to help her.
I was surprised. I gave you money, why do you still have to follow me?
The girl cried and asked me to take her in and give her a stable residence. I didn't want to interfere. After all, I gave her a residence, who could give me a home?
is in a bad mood, but she looks so pitiful. In the end, I was kind-hearted and took in this down-and-out girl.
After all, love is gone, and life still needs to continue. Besides, my newly opened store needs a loyal and reliable employee to help, so I left the girl in front of me.
At night, after the girl dressed up simply, I was surprised. Xiaobude was still very beautiful.
The girl was stunned when she saw me and covered her mouth and smiled: My name is Yu Xiaolin, I am 23 years old this year. Where are you?
me! Li Yize, you will be my employee in the future, so you must work hard!
Well... Thank you, boss.
Soon she started working and became my employee. Xiaolin was grateful to me and was very diligent in my store, taking care of both hygiene and affairs in my store in an orderly manner.
made me unable to help but praise her, and she gradually got along well with me. After
, I fell in love with each other day and eventually became my girlfriend.
Because she is gentle and kind, diligent and understanding, but I just need such a girlfriend, not the material woman she used to be.
She is 23 years old this year, and she is exactly five years younger than me. In fact, I didn't think I would fall in love with her so soon, after all, she is much younger than her.
But that night, she said that she found the warmth of home here, and because I took good care of him, she admired me and confessed to me.
In fact, I had long recognized her in my heart, otherwise I would not have always cared for her and helped her, and I also forgot my former material girlfriend.
people! We should live in the present, not be sad about the regrets we had before, so I agreed to Xiaolin without hesitation and became a couple with her.
If there is no one with you in this lonely world, then how painful it will be.
After being together, although I was very happy at the beginning and had her carefulness and tenderness, I unexpectedly discovered a secret of her. I was surprised. I never knew why she was like this?
girlfriend Xiaolin was always very humble. She always thought about my hobbies and favorite things, and was a pleasing personality.
But such a girl always gives her no money every month, and even asks me for money.
I didn't understand at the time, and until that night I found that she was always nightmares, I began to wonder if she was worried.
We never lived together before, so we didn't know much about it.
later lived together, and then found that it was always the case.
I was surprised and began to comfort her. Seeing her sad and crying, I felt particularly distressed and asked her what was wrong? She didn't say anything.
had no choice but to speak out after my repeated questions.
It turned out that her parents divorced earlier. In my dream, I always remember the memories of my parents since I was a child, but they never see each other again, so I feel depressed and sad. My girlfriend never told me about the reason
before.
Only now know that I feel very sorry for her, a miserable child.
Later she leaned against me and said to me: I am now boarding at my uncle and aunt's house. Although they raised me and treated her as family, they always urged me to make money and send it home when they grew up, and always hoped to give them all the money they earned, which also made me feel like they were.
No wonder! Now I know why your monthly salary is not enough. So that's it. I misunderstood you and thought it was caused by your spending money.
Humph~How do you think of mine? Sad...
I was wrong.
Why is my girlfriend Xiaolin still penniless after working for so many years? This is why I feel particularly sorry for her and my girlfriend.
I said to her: Don’t be sad, giving them money can be considered a repayment. It will be enough for me to take care of you in the future.
My girlfriend just replied, "Happiness is just because of you, it's so good."
Although we temporarily opened each other's hearts, she still kept a distance from me, helpless! Maybe because of her personality!
This is related to the environment she was when she was a child. She does not expect her to become cheerful and lively. As long as she can be in love with me and stay with me for the rest of her life.
After all, it is difficult to find someone that can make me happy and can make me want to protect.
About half a year later, her girlfriend unexpectedly became pregnant. She was a little scared and a little scared.
Reasonablely, a pregnant girl should be very happy to talk about this to me, but then she was trembling.
I don’t understand why she is like this?
However, as I took good care of her, because after I became pregnant, she felt warm. Gradually, she opened her heart and told me about her worries.
She said, I used to be a little worried that you would treat me badly after you were with me. Now that I know that you have always been so good to me, I feel relieved and I am not so worried.
Why? What do you think so?
Because I once met a man who was defeated by me. I was tired of it and dumped me.
Then I realized that she was worried that I would abandon her, and that after she had no job at home, I would feel that she had lost her value and said to her to break up.
eh... This girlfriend really makes me happy.
In the past, her uncle and aunt treated her like this, so she had a psychological shadow.
However, I said: No, because I love you, like your kindness and sincerity, and will always be consistent with you.
Because you were willing to conceive my child before you married me, you will be nice to you in your life.
As soon as I finished speaking, my girlfriend was moved and said, "In my miserable life, I am so happy to meet a man who treats me sincerely. It's because of you. In this life, I only want to marry you.
I widened my eyes at this moment, amazed at the moment that my girlfriend said such deep words, which moved me.
I am the same. In this way, we hugged each other happily.
From this moment, we embraced each other, which created a strong feeling, which destined that our love will never be separated in this life.
Later we got married. After marriage, my mother took care of her, but she humbly spent less than a month in confinement and took care of my parents carefully. This surprised and moved me very much.
I quickly asked her to stop because she still had to pay more attention to her health during this confinement period. She was stunned after hearing this.
For a month, I did not let Xiaolin walk around. I and my mother took care of her carefully.
My mother is also a good mother-in-law who cares about my daughter-in-law. She said, a love son I will also love her more than my son, so that she will be kind to my son. Love is mutual. Only in this way can the relationship between husband and wife stay together until they are old.
I was very excited in the end, and my girlfriend also understood this truth.
Afterwards, she was very grateful to my mother and said to me at night that it was so happy to marry you in this life. You and your mother-in-law are so nice to me, and I am so moved.
It should be, this is what a good husband should have.
It seems that I have really not chosen the wrong person. From working hard with you in the past to now, As you decide my humble life, it seems that my vision has always been very accurate.
I joked: Yes, rather than saying that you have a good vision, it is better to say that my vision is wonderful. Marrying a virtuous and beautiful girl like you is the greatest blessing in my life.
Take good care of your body, and you don’t have to work at that time. Just serve our father, our mother and your parents, and raise your children to adulthood.
Life is actually that simple.
She smiled and nodded, yes! Life is only a few decades, and you are content.
Although our business was still the same afterwards, there was no big fire and no big hit, I was already content with such a good wife.
I only have one small wish, I just hope that with my own efforts, I can increase my income a little, and then have more financial strength to support the woman I love the most, and protect her safety and health for the rest of my life.
Because I am not rich, she can still endure hardships with me. So in the face of my wife's unyielding relationship, I think I should also work hard to change my life and make myself stronger.
Although money is not the most important thing, it is absolutely impossible to have no money. Money is also the foundation that supports the family. Do you agree with it?
Conclusion: What is love? Love is holding a pair of loved ones, walking through the blossoms of flowers, watching happiness and distant places together, and accompanying someone you want to accompany, no matter how poor or rich you are, you are willing to accompany each other.
Even if we are lonely and bored, as long as we have love in our hearts, we will protect happiness, because happiness is between us, and we will not forget the love of our original intention.
