The relationship between men and women is usually wonderful and wonderful. It is completely different from family and friendship.
Usually, men and women will have a natural favor after getting along for a long time. As long as they don’t hate each other, there will always be more ambiguous elements when they come into contact with each other than the same sex. Sometimes it is difficult to have a clear boundary for
, so when men and women get along, they often invisibly enter an ambiguous circle. Many times, men and women usually fall in love with this feeling and cannot extricate themselves in this situation.
Ambiguousness is often intoxicating. Most people become addicted invisibly and have no sense of resistance at all. Instead, they are attacked by this feeling and slowly become obsessed with the interaction with the other person.
Because they didn't think about becoming boyfriend and girlfriend at the beginning, they naturally didn't think about taking the other party responsible. Because ambiguity happens naturally, it does not require any medium or intentionality.
Men and women will be invisibly, and this way of getting along with each other is the default.
But after a long time of ambiguousness, the relationship will sooner or later cross the boundaries, and there is no doubt about this. But for having a partner, it is undoubtedly a kind of harm.
Even if a single man and a woman are in a state of ambiguous for a long time, it is not a good thing. Once the ambiguous relationship goes beyond the end, it is never possible to reach the point where a boyfriend and girlfriend, and they are not used to the relationship between each other being boyfriend and girlfriend. Because only without constraints is the true meaning of ambiguity.
So, what behaviors do the opposite sexes have to be ambiguous?
01 Chat anytime, anywhere
The opposite sex gets along, and after a little familiarity, they can chat with each other. They will chat frequently, and over time, a magnetic field will form to attract each other.
No matter whether the other party has a partner or not, at this time they will ignore the other party’s feelings and immerse themselves in an ambiguous relationship and cannot extricate themselves.
Usually, they do not find this abnormality, only those around them can find that they are different from the past. Whenever I have time, I will chat, chat in various ways, and I can't help but not chatting with the other person.
02 Do not avoid physical contact
When men and women get along, they will inevitably come into contact, especially among colleagues, where there are many opportunities for contact. At the beginning, everyone was polite and humble.
But after two people have been in contact for a long time, they will make some jokes, and the relationship will naturally become intimate.
Over time, the relationship naturally becomes ambiguous. At this time, when you are in contact, you won’t pay so much attention to details.
touches each other and no longer avoids being shy. I even like this feeling and I will deliberately contact the other person.
Sometimes when you deliberately help the other party, you create opportunities for intimate contact and will not refuse.
03 Don’t miss the opportunity to contact privately
Ambiguousness can be regarded as a kind of stealing in a sense. Therefore, the two people also like to do some sneaky things, and take advantage of this opportunity to have private contact to do some ulterior motives.
The two people in the ambiguous period will deliberately create some caution to flirt with each other, so that the other party will be happy, and then enjoy the process. Because they are irresponsible, they get along more unscrupulously.
Especially men, they will be obsessed with this method.
They deliberately find the right time to give each other some small surprises when they contact each other privately, or give gifts when the other party cannot refuse. After all, many people are present and they are making too big, which is not good.
Often men spend this little thoughts just want to be ambiguous and never think about becoming a regular person.
04 Communicate with each other through eyes
Eyes are the window of a person's soul, and eyes can best reflect a person's true thoughts in his heart. Therefore, no matter how well a person wants to do, it cannot be concealed.
. Most people who are good at ambiguous will communicate through their eyes. And only those who communicate with each other understand what is hinted through their eyes.
This may be the charm of ambiguousness. Giving people hope and infinite imagination is undoubtedly the most beautiful way of expression when everything is not fixed and when everything is possible.
Therefore, ambiguous people will definitely express their feelings through eye contact to achieve the purpose of stirring each other.
In life, the phenomenon of ambiguousness between men and women is everywhere, especially middle-aged men and women. They are happy about it and have become the driving force for boring life. Just kidding, ambiguousness can make people motivate, and it seems that there are infinite possibilities for life. This is a beautiful illusion.
People who are immersed in ambiguity and cannot extricate themselves are usually troubled by ambiguity. Whether married or unmarried, long-term ambiguous relationship with the opposite sex will make themselves lose their original direction of life, immersed in the false beauty, and cannot extricate themselves.
thus forgetting what reality is and what virtuality is. When one day I woke up from my dream, I realized that these are all fake and do not exist.
Then the whole person will fall into a collapse and cannot extricate himself.
Ambiguousness is undoubtedly a harm to others and oneself. Therefore, don’t let yourself fall into a vicious circle of ambiguousness. Live in a normal group. When you should fall in love, fall in love, and get married, keep the marriage well. Don’t think you can get a lot of advantage in ambiguousness.
It will make your heart no longer calm and fall into no leisure. When the dream is broken, everything can be delusional. When the fantasy is broken by reality, everything will become cruel and realistic. Take this as a warning.
