"Acknowledge the existence of difficulties"
When difficulties occur, we sometimes escape difficulties and dare not face reality. Not only will we not make the situation better, but will develop towards a worse side.
Facing difficulties, we can only better solve the difficulties by accepting them calmly. Blindly escaping difficulties cannot solve the problems.
I remember when I first faced the credit card overdue, I was very reluctant to accept reality. I always fantasized that this thing did not happen, and I was afraid that my parents would know that they would live in fear all the time. The situation of credit card overdue has not been solved at all, but my interests became very bad.
Later I accepted this reality. It is not terrible to owe a credit card. I don’t want to pay back the debt, but I just can’t pay it back for the time being. After my own efforts, I will definitely pay it back as soon as possible. My mood has eased a lot and I am full of hope for the future.
So, when difficulties occur, we accept it calmly and allow everything to happen, and our mood will naturally be much calmer.
"Analyze difficulties and take action"
Anything happens is not for no reason, and will find the reason that causes things to happen.
We need to write down everything and analyze one by one where the problem is, and what is the crux of it? Just like "scraping the bone to heal the wound", you can fundamentally solve the problem so that you can avoid making the same mistakes again.
Don’t be afraid, life is always about making mistakes and improving constantly to make yourself grow; don’t regard every difficulty as a crisis, but as a turning point in your life, and the process of growing and practicing again and again.
After analyzing the reasons, we must take action, be brave enough to correct our shortcomings and continue to develop our strengths. I believe that after a period of time, when we look back, we will definitely find that we have grown a lot.
"Encourage and move forward bravely"
When we think about encouraging and cheering, we often hope for our parents or a friend, which sometimes backfires and we can't get what we want.
It is better to cheer yourself up and encourage yourself to overcome difficulties. If you seek anything outside, you will often not get the results you want; it is better to seek it inward, and you will get good results and it is easy to achieve.
