If you feel that your relationship has always been pretty good, but suddenly one day, your partner says he doesn’t love him and wants to leave, then there are usually several possibilities. For example:
1, because you have committed a principled problem.
If two people have been together for a while, they usually have a certain emotional foundation between each other, and such emotional foundation can make each other stable and long-lasting relationships and will not be broken by some small quarrels.
But if the conflict between them is not a small quarrel, but a matter of principle, such as cheating, family violence, deception, concealment, etc., then the original emotional foundation may be cleared at one time, and the other party will also change from love to not love you.
2, his love for you has been exhausted in daily life.
This reminds me of a female friend who is very good-looking, so when her partner first started pursuing her, she was very kind to her, including after the two of them decided to have a relationship, the man was still very kind to the woman. Even if the woman lacks a sense of security, she willful, suspicious and unreasonable, the man is still very tolerant and gives the woman a lot of warmth.
But suddenly one day, the man said to the woman, "I don't love you anymore, I'm leaving." The woman was very disappointed and couldn't accept it. She asked the man why, but the man just responded to "I'm tired."
What the woman couldn't understand was: Why wasn't she tired before, but now she suddenly got tired? Why does a person suddenly stop loving him?
In fact, a person’s love usually does not disappear in an instant. From love to not love, there is usually a process. The woman's willfulness and suspicion are never something that a man likes, but because the man loves the woman very much, he will tolerate and accept it again and again.
Just such tolerance is not unconditional. This is at the cost of consuming the man's love for the woman. When the man's love is consumed, the man cannot continue to tolerate and wants to leave.
So, on the surface, it seems that the man suddenly doesn't love him, but in fact, the man's love is constantly exhausted during the process of getting along.
3, I have never loved it.
If the other party has never loved you, he has approached you with false intentions from the beginning, in order to get money or sex, then after getting it, he may leave without looking back.
4, the reality is too big.
Maybe the other party still loves you, but if there are big real problems between you, such as remote places, parents disagree, financial problems, etc., then his love for you may not be able to overcome the obstacles of reality.
Since this relationship cannot be continued, it is meaningless to continue saying that you still love. Why not say that you don’t love it anymore?
Happy~
