The basic needs of marriage are material interests. Which one is more important to love or bread?
In this material society with material desires, more and more people lose themselves for economic benefits, immerse themselves in material life and abandon their original aspirations and missions.
Especially in marriage, for small profits, a considerable number of greedy people will turn their backs on the moral bottom line of marriage and do wrong things.
Money destroys many families, and money also makes many families.
Just like the case we are going to share next, the wife complained that her husband had nothing to do at the age of 42 and had no future, and was only willing to stay in his classmate's company as a security guard.
Every month, you can just wait to die with a salary of 5,500 yuan. Only when you are blind will you fall in love with such a man!
Honest and honest man
To say that in the 1990s Dongguan , security guards are a decent and good job, and security guards are usually done by retired soldiers.
However, with the continuous development of modern society, the social status of the position of security guard is getting lower and lower, and the entry threshold for security guards has also declined. The modern society where salary levels are developing rapidly at the price level is even more worth mentioning.
Therefore, in the eyes of most women, marrying a security guard is a shameful marriage.
We advocate career equality, but we do not recognize the view of career equality from the bottom of our hearts, and even involuntarily despise those professions with low social status.
The fundamental point is that the security guard's salary is low.
In the historical development process, we abandoned the ancient class concept of scholars, peasants, industry and commerce, and instead became infected with the bad habit of putting money first in capitalist society, and contempt for the poor.
So young girls are unwilling to marry security guards, thinking that this job is undecent and has no future.
However, it is reasonable to exist. In the process of human society, there are always people who want to be security guards. Just like this 42-year-old man, he holds a security position in his classmate's company.
Working under the hands of classmates can naturally be taken care of. Unlike other security guards, men have good salary and can get a salary of 5,500 a month, far exceeding other security guards.
However, the man's wife was not happy. The wife felt that a monthly salary of 5,500 yuan was not enough in big cities, and it was difficult to support herself, let alone support her family?
The wife feels that her husband is 42 years old, but she is still immersed in this stable and ordinary life. She is not enterprising and unwilling to strive for progress. It is simply disappointing!
Wife’s complaints
Wife is not satisfied with the current peaceful and stable life. When she reaches middle age, she has struggled for most of her life. She doesn’t like those who die evenly. Life should be hard-working, and a bright future is in her own hands.
After seeing her husband's comfortable posture of not being enterprising, the wife was very angry and complained: "Why did I fall blind and fell in love with such an uninspiring man?"
From the picture, the husband was wearing a security uniform and sat in the security room, pinching his phone and swiping the video, with a comfortable expression on his face.
This is not like working, it is clearly here to enjoy life!
Thinking of the two having been married for decades, my wife felt wronged! The couple's life has been tight for decades, and the wife has no time to dress up.
I thought that a 42-year-old husband would not be easy to work hard outside, but seeing the other person enjoying him, his wife's anger was suddenly ignited!
The hard work I have worked hard for decades seems to have been wasted. Her husband is just a cowardly man who is not enterprising and unwilling to fight. He can't take care of him no matter how hard he takes care of him.
The two had a good relationship at the beginning, especially when they first got married, the relationship was like mixing oil in honey.
can't stand the blow and tempering of the swords of the years. Although the couple will not make a big fuss, occasional friction is inevitable.
Under the pressure of food, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and the continuous suppression of life, the relationship between the two has long evolved into a kind of mutual appreciation and dependence.
is willing to live on because my wife is thinking about the relationship she has had for so many years and the two sides still have children so that they will not make a fuss too ugly. But the husband's attitude still makes the wife unable to help it. How could there be such a man who is unpromising and has no future!
My wife covered her mouth and cried, sighing at the unfairness of her destiny!
Love is important, and bread is equally important.
Almost most of the emotional conflicts and disputes in marriage revolve around economic interests. If there were no conflicts of interest and the conflict of ideas, how could the two two people who once had a mutual understanding and mutual understanding have had a great cause to the point where they would never interact with each other?
I hope men will never make a promise for life easily. At least they should remain silent until they have enough ability and financial strength.
