It seems that I have forgotten the initial pain of breaking up, and I can only cry for no reason and then pretend to wipe it out indifferently. These repeated actions clearly tell me that I still haven't gotten out of the sequelae of breaking up.

From two years, break up for 3 months, and live step by step every day. It seems that I have forgotten the initial pain of breaking up, and I can only cry for no reason and then pretend to wipe it out indifferently. These repeated actions clearly tell me that I still haven't gotten out of the sequelae of breaking up. I saw an article online saying, does the girl who came out soon after the breakup really exist? The messages are all "This kind of girl is so cool" and "I hope to be such a girl"... I found that the love standard in the current era is without trace. We always say that love should take its time, so shouldn't the passing of love be proportional and gradually fade? It is not necessarily cool to come out quickly, it is not necessarily cool to come out completely after being slow.

The first month after breaking up, when you open your eyes, you will think of our acquaintance, ambiguity, confession, passionate love, conflict, and separation.

It is true that it is unwilling to accept that someone who clearly loves you and likes you so much is suddenly no longer sticking to you all the time.

Before I fell in love, I only felt pretentious when I saw others breaking up, but after I fell in love, I fell into the same mood.

will recall how much he cared about my every move at the beginning, so occasionally he would add his WeChat tentatively to test whether he would be like me after the breakup.

Some people say that not all likes can go to the end.

When I first read it, I really felt outrageous and nonsense. I didn’t go to the end and just didn’t love it anymore? Until now, I realized how much regret and reality lies in this sentence.

It is really hard for people who have fallen in love to completely separate themselves from life.

When I saw the seat I had sat with him in class, I would think of the scene where he accompanied me to class. When I dozed off, I rested my head on his left hand and he would help me take notes. But now, I dare not be sleepy in class .

When passing by the milk tea shop, I will think of what he often says, "Drink less milk tea with ice, drink more hot water , serious", and then I will definitely joke with him and say, "You are a straight man."

Later, he gave me a thermos, a couple's model. I developed the habit of drinking three large cups of hot water every day. Even if I had broken up and didn't need his supervision, I would keep the thermos with me.

The greatest power of liking a person is to keep reminding yourself in your heart that you are already a thing of the past, but your body still has a muscle memory and a sense of familiarity with each other.

The planning and expectations for study and life between him and me are getting more and more different. He loves to play games, and I have repeatedly quarreled with him for this reason. In addition to the pressure of internships and studies, we have never talked about it to be relatively speechless, which has only been two years.

I don’t want to stay in the library all day long. I have to be so tired of studying and have to distract myself from dealing with his temper. I don’t want to force him to study with me on the books of heaven, and I don’t want to study and work part-time during holidays. I also have to plan to set aside a large portion of my time to go out for fun with him.

When the focus of life is adjusted from the state of love, I suddenly realized how unsuitable I am to fall in love, or in other words, the purity and simplicity of love is, I no longer deserve to have it, and I should not consume him.

In the world of adults, even if hesitates about feelings, he can only end here.

2 people with different frequencies will eventually reach the fork of life, and breaking up is just based on the fact that life is no longer synchronized.

In the early morning of the second day after the breakup, he called, afraid of disturbing his roommate's rest. I got out of bed in fear and wore headphones and listened to the other party expressing his depression in chaos.

He was drunk and used the stimulation of alcohol to amplify reluctance and self-blame. My tears couldn't stop flowing, and I responded to the other party with sobs, so serious that I breathed in my mouth and told him not to be sad.

pretended to be indifferent tone. When we heard the other person's voice, the entangled relationship made a comeback. In the end, we could only persuade the other person from the perspective of our ex, "Get a good rest and don't think so much."

After breaking up, the most taboo thing is to meet and contact again. We completely treat each other as strangers in school as if we had agreed.

Although some classes were taken together, the seats were submerged in the pile of classmates across two walkways. Although they still met unexpectedly, they pretended not to see each other before facing each other.

Forgetting the ex I like requires hard work, and restraining yourself from separating everything in life from the other person requires time and patience.

Lovers teach us to love someone enthusiastically, and also teach us to bravely reach out and catch the love given by others.

Can you get out after breaking up? How long does it take to get out is not to be superficial and completely indifferent when you see him.

allows yourself to be sad and sad without pretending to be good.

Really came out to accept the actual situation that we are really inappropriate, and understand that he and I treat each other sincerely, and gradually let go of this relationship in the future, without any reluctance or nostalgia, and no longer inertially think of his existence and care.

Someone said that the one who has not yet come out after breaking up is that he still has fantasies about him.

is not like this. Humans are not robots. If a relationship is really attentive, then after breaking up, you will inevitably be trapped in a state of "reluctance" or "unadaptation" or "unadaptation" and cannot get out.

I remember when I was packing up things related to him in the doll in the doll, we watched the dolls he picked up for me, medals for events, photos of traveling together, and souvenirs that we saved money to buy together, and occasionally the urge to stop trying.

But in the end I still retreated because I clearly realized that the relationship between us, even if we reunited, there was still a lack of unrepair.

Whether it is a boy or a girl, you need an adaptation period to tolerate your dependence and reluctance that you don’t have time to put it away, and even regrets.

regret how did we get to the point where we need to be separated? I regret that life is so long and that we have been together so short. I regret that we didn’t say goodbye well, so I hurriedly said we were separated.

Regrets do not have to be restored, because we both understand each other, and the extra retention cannot change the two people who are gradually drifting away.

How sweet was it when we first got together? Behind the calmness after breaking up is the retention of leaving.

How long does it take to completely come out after breaking up? There is no absolute time limit, and it has no full-score answer.

If you are sad, then you will be more grateful to yourself for a few days. If you have already let go, then continue to have a better life.

Please firmly believe that you have the value of being loved and do not deny yourself who is serious about breaking up.

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