both say that the opposite sex attracts each other. Two men and women who have a good impression of each other will try to date and test each other whether the other person likes them the same way. After confirming their feelings, they will establish a romantic relationship.
Some women can meet good men, be spoiled as princesses who are not touched by their fingers, fall in love, get married and have children, and their lives are envious like cheating.
Some women complain that they can’t meet a good man. Either the man changes his mind, or the man doesn’t cherish him when he gets it, and feels that he is not lucky and always meets bad men.
Putting aside some men are really bad, some women do not pay attention to the degree of relationship between men and women in relationships, and they will not like men when crossing the line, and will also make men choose to separate.
In dating, there are these 3 kinds of little thoughts that make men unable to love .
1, I don’t want anything clearly, I love to let men guess what they think.
Many women always want to find a man who understands them. They have a close understanding of each other. Men can guess what they think at once, thinking that this is a manifestation of a man's love for him.
When in love, men will patiently guess what women think in order to please women, but if women keep asking men to guess, they will feel that it will be very tiring to get along like this.
Men have straight thinking, easy to accept concise expressions, and are happy to meet the needs of women, saving them time to guess, and they feel less "trouble". When they are in a good mood, they will naturally get along more happily and their relationship will be better.
If a man always faces a woman who makes him guess, especially if he guesses wrongly and quarrels, he will become more and more resistant to dealing with women.
There is a woman who lets men guess their minds. In fact, they are both deceiving and standing, thinking that it is meaningless and depreciating. Men should guess what they want to be true love. To be honest, I want the best, but I don’t say it, you should be able to guess and do it.
But a man is not the roundworm in your belly . Even if he is willing to guess, the chance of guessing is still very high. If he is wrong, you will define it as not loving you. If you quarrel, you will seem to lose your price.
So, don’t let men guess what you think all the time. When he asks you, you can express it clearly directly, which is far more pleasing than letting men guess.
2, I have ambiguous relationship with other opposite sex, wanting men to nervous themselves.
In dating, some women feel that men are neglected and don’t care about themselves, so they find ways to make men focus on themselves.
The most common method is to have an ambiguous relationship with other opposite sex, so as to show that you are very popular and charming. You want to hit a man and make him better to him, otherwise you will be abducted by other men and want to enhance the man's sense of crisis.
Women with such careful thoughts must have watched too many romance TV series to touch the bottom line of men.
Tagore once said: "A sense of proportion is a sign of mature love."
Men care about the woman they like most. If you play ambiguous relationship with others and make friends in an ambiguous way, don't say that you are unintentional. It is obviously relying on the man's like to hurt the person who loves you want. No one will like someone who hurts himself.
Under the guise of ambiguousness and doing behaviors that go beyond the boundaries does not mean that you have a good relationship with the opposite sex. It only means that you have no awe for this relationship, and naturally it is impossible for you to truly love the other person.
Men are most disdainful of a woman without a sense of restraint. In the eyes of men, this kind of ambiguity is betrayal. It is enough to be fatal to each other. It would be strange if he can fall in love.
So, don’t use ambiguous methods to stimulate men with other opposite sex. You should consider the price you have to pay for what you do. Don’t blur the social boundaries with the opposite sex. Be responsible for yourself and have a clear understanding of yourself and this relationship, which will increase your charm.
3, never care about men, just think about asking for it.
In dating, some women may not have the ability to love their loved ones and do not know how to care for the person they love. After all, they should not like it that much, but just enjoy the man's efforts and care.
A man makes unilaterally in this relationship. Without seeing positive feedback, he will be unsure. Once he believes that he has no hope and cannot win your favor no matter how much he gives, he will not give again.
Even if it is what you need and a man is willing to give it, it is time-sensitive or unstable. As long as he cannot get what he wants, he may take it back at any time.
Men also need love and the emotional value provided by women. They can spoil you and love you, provided that you are worth it.
If you are in a relationship, never care about a man and just want to ask for what you want from him, then he cannot give or satisfy you.
No one is willing to be a sucker all the time, and no one can support the life that another person wants. When a man finds out that you don’t care about him, he will believe that you don’t love him, and he will not have the need to nostalgia for you.
After all, any relationship is mutual. You must have the ability to give others so that others are willing to give you what you want.
When two people nourish each other and give each other, it is a pleasant relationship and the right person will be determined to be the right person.
I really like someone, don’t be careful, just treat each other sincerely, communicate honestly, everything has a way to solve, what I fear most is to use the wrong method.
Writer Cai Jianjian said:
"Marriage is two intersecting circles. Beyond intersecting, you can follow your inner thoughts; within intersecting, that is the overlapping part of your life. Every time you think you don't care about crossing the boundary, you are pricking the other person's body." The same is true for dating
. If you fall in love, you must respect each other, accept each other's differences, do not crossing the boundary, and do not hurt the other person.
Only by exchanging sincerity with sincerity can we be polite, close and alienated, and know the standards and severity of interactions, and handle and manage this relationship well!
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