On July 6, the People's Court of Haidian District, Beijing held a trial in accordance with the law in the case of the defendant Mou Moumou suspected of criminal abuse and incidental civil litigation. Because the case involves personal privacy, the hearing will be held in private. The court will announce its verdict at a later date.
People who know about this case are sighing and can't help but ask: What happened to the two proud men of Peking University How can they deal with marriage and love issues so badly? Whether you love a man or not, you will pull him down if you don’t love him. Why do you want to torture a girl repeatedly? Why are women so low-minded, why do they love someone who is not worthy of love so humbly, and choose to commit suicide in pain and torture?
I have a headache from thinking too much. There are many cases online, so I won’t mention the mother-in-law here. After thinking about it, I feel that the biggest thing in a person’s life is the issue of marriage and love. What kind of views on marriage and love you hold is really important. Therefore, the suggestions are as follows:
First of all, Be careful when establishing a romantic relationship . Shakespeare once said: " All love that is not for the purpose of marriage is hooliganism. " Chairman Mao also used this sentence to educate the majority of young men and women. Falling in love is by no means a matter of one person, but is related to the lives of two people, so it must be treated with caution and seriously. When deciding on a love relationship, we all must have a highly responsible attitude toward society, others, and ourselves, and comprehensively consider all factors. Once we step into the threshold of love, we must be cautious not only in courting others, but also when facing courtship. Don't fall in love easily when you don't know the other person well enough.
Secondly, we must adhere to civilized love behavior. There are many ways to express love, but a general principle is that courtship should pay attention to the occasion and propriety, not only in line with social customs and moral traditions, but also in line with one's own identity. In the process of falling in love, you should behave politely, elegantly, dignified and elegant, enthusiastic but not indulgent, lively but not frivolous and frivolous. If you are in love, you will show off your dog food everywhere. If you are not in love, you will be worse than death. Could it be that the earth would not turn around if someone is missing? , life is over?
Third, we must be rational and maintain passion for love . Some people fall in love but are not married, and even have the intimate act of eating "forbidden fruit" within a few days of knowing each other. Some people think: "This kind of relationship is a matter of time." In fact, this understanding is one-sided. It is also irresponsible, because once love crosses this "red line", the responsibility will inevitably increase by ten to a hundred. If both parties fail to achieve positive results, they will inevitably be exhausted physically and mentally, and the city will be full of wind and rain, and the ground will be full of chickens and feathers, and even happen. Regarding illegal and criminal matters, you must be very cautious about this issue.
Fourth, we must learn to tolerate each other's shortcomings. Love is the love of mutual respect and equality, the love of mutual trust and mutual understanding, the love of sharing joys and sorrows. If there is no mutual respect between both parties, there will be no love and there will be no happy married life. Mutual respect is the basic factor to maintain a happy marriage. There is no distinction between superiority and inferiority between the two parties. What is needed is equality, mutual respect, mutual love, mutual consideration, and mutual care. If you love someone, you must learn to think about the other person. You must learn to tolerate the other person's past and future. If you can't tolerate it, learn to let go, and don't turn love into hate. If you don't get what you want, you have to learn to let go and don't be humble to love someone, it's not worth it!
Fifth, we must shoulder our due obligations and responsibilities.. Love is companionship and growth over time. Both parties should share the joys and sorrows and help each other. Instead of asking for something from the other party, such as the satisfaction of physical sexual desire, possession of money, fame and fortune, etc. At the beginning of a relationship, it is the responsibility of both parties to care for and help each other. Once you get married, you still have the responsibility of supporting the elderly of both parties and raising their joint children. People often say: The most valuable thing about being a woman is "not to bully young people into poverty"; and the most valuable thing about being a man is "not to be too ugly when old". Only when women know how to stay together and men know how to be grateful can they stay together for a lifetime.
"Guan Guan Jujiu, in the River Island.My fair lady, a gentleman loves to marry..." The issue of love and marriage is a major event in life, an important matter for the family and the country, and it is also easy to get into trouble. I hope every friend can grasp this important matter, love sincerely, hold the hand of your son, and grow old together with your son.
