The mind of a person without education, knowledge, or practice is like a piece of farmland. Even if the farmland is naturally fertile and rich, if it is not sown and cultivated carefully, it will naturally not bear fruit. But a truly educated and accomplished person will be refle

The soul of a person without education, knowledge, or practice is like a piece of farmland.

Even if this farmland is naturally fertile and rich, if it is not sown and cultivated carefully, it will naturally not bear fruit.

A truly educated and accomplished person will be reflected in every detail.

Moreover, upbringing also comes from the gentleness of the heart, and is a kind of etiquette way to behave in the world..

01. The literacy of “eating”

Last night, I made an appointment with my college roommate whom I hadn’t seen for a long time to have a buffet together.

Because I ordered a seafood buffet for two people, scallop shells and crab shells were unavoidable on the table....

But there were only two plates in front of my friend, one was the staple food or seafood he wanted to eat, and the other was There is one for shells, bones, and some used paper towels.

Seeing him eating so politely and politely, I couldn't help but joke: "What, we can't let go when eating??"

He smiled slightly and said: "No, I'm just used to it, and Putting the garbage on a plate will make it easier for the restaurant staff to clean up later. "

These two simple sentences made me think for a moment: We are used to the messy buffet scene, but when we encountered it, It’s really refreshing and amazing to see a friend’s “official” way of eating it.

Of course, this does not mean that you have to be polite when eating at a buffet, but In a situation where you have no scruples, it is really not easy for you to still maintain your own qualities and think about others without sacrificing yourself.

In addition, this friend of mine is also very friendly, and is very humble when receiving compliments. He always says thank you when he comes to dine...

In the final analysis, this kind of person is well-educated. , high quality, and being friends with them will benefit you for life.

02. The upbringing of a family

I was hanging out in the playground with my friends on the weekend. I accidentally saw a little girl crying in front of me....

Out of curiosity, we walked over. It turned out to be a girl of about eight years old. A nine-year-old boy beat a little girl until she cried.

At this time, the adults also arrived in a hurry. It turned out that the little girl was building a house with building blocks. The little boy came to make trouble and trampled on the house she had just built. He also said: "Build such an ugly house." Who should show it ? "

Then, the little girl argued with the boy, but was pushed to the ground. Seeing the "castle" she had worked hard to build and herself being bullied, the little girl collapsed on the ground and cried. .

In fact, it is normal for children of this age to fight and fight. I thought that the boy would be scolded, but this was not the case.

His mother looked nonchalant: "Yes! My son is just a little naughty. Why cry? Just start a new relationship."

The little girl's mother saw him and did not blame her son. , turned around and said to the boy: "This behavior of yours is wrong. You should let your parents teach you."

The boy's mother said with an impatient look on her face: " He is just a child, what about you? ? "

Then, he took his child and disappeared angrily into the crowd...

This may seem like a simple and trivial matter, but because of the different ways parents handle it, it will affect the future direction of their children's lives. .

Such a family upbringing, which only knows how to protect its own children and does not know how to take responsibility for its own wrong behavior, will only make him fall deeper and deeper into the road of growth, and even embark on a path of no return.

03. Details, Fang Xian’s education

When it comes to details, I can’t help but think of a classmate in my former dormitory.

Once, he accidentally broke the thermos bottle. Normally, I would just throw it into the trash can.

However, he found a cardboard box specifically for this purpose, wrapped the broken glass pieces in garbage bags, and then put a box outside. The most careful thing was that he wrote four big characters in red pen on the outside - " Beware of the glass".

His behavior really taught me a lesson. It may seem like an inconspicuous thing, but the details reflect full kindness.

We often say: When handing scissors, you should point the tip of the knife toward yourself, when you speak, you should leave room for others, and when you eat, you should not smack your mouth...

These small things are also manifestations of a person's growth and maturity, and they also reflect A person's upbringing.

In fact, any quality is reflected fairly in everyone.

If you are well educated, you will get to know more high-quality people, and the circle will become cleaner and simpler.

Everything you do now will be reflected on you at some point in the future. Whether it is good or bad, it is closely related to your own temperament and cultivation.

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