"I feel that being a woman is really hard. After getting married, not only do you have to face difficulties from your mother-in-law, but you also have to guard against betrayal from your relatives. I really don’t know what to do now!"
What happened to the student Ms. He (pseudonym)?
After preliminary communication, I learned about Ms. He’s situation. Since her marriage, in order to get the title of a good wife, she has been dedicating herself to her family, being filial to her parents-in-law and taking care of her sister-in-law.
But her efforts were not valued. Her husband still cheated on her, and she found out that the third party was introduced to him by her sister-in-law, and the reason was also very ridiculous.
All this happened like a drama, making Ms. He dizzy.
What has she experienced?
"I have been married to a man for 7 years. We met when we were traveling after college. I didn't dare to communicate with him deeply. I thought that China is such a big country and we would never see each other again after we left. As a result, I moved around. After we got on the bus home, he was the one sitting next to me.
At this time, we realized that not only did we live in the same county, but we also lived very close to each other. We cherish this God-given fate, so we took a look. We got together right after we got the car, and then we found jobs in our hometowns respectively. He started a small company with his friends and became successful.
I then joined a relative's company and became a financial officer. After meeting my parents, we started discussing the idea of getting married. My parents were very satisfied with the man. Although his family background was not very good, I also had many minor problems, which men could handle. I was patient and very enterprising.
So my parents prepared the wedding house and the wedding car after we got married. They also gave me the bride price and dowry to support our family.
Our life after the marriage. I'm living a good life. Although I have a bad temper, I have a sweet mouth, so I get along very well with my parents-in-law. Especially after I got pregnant, our relationship became even more harmonious. . In order to take care of me, my mother-in-law moved into my house and took care of me. .
The only thing I am dissatisfied with is my sister-in-law, because my husband bought another house and it is temporarily vacant. My sister-in-law had a boyfriend with a poor family background. They discussed getting married not long after they got together, but the husband did not. House.
But my sister-in-law was pregnant and had to get married, so I agreed with the man to help them pay part of the down payment, and let them settle the rest by themselves. As a result, my sister-in-law was very dissatisfied and said that she was a little poor now, but in the future Not necessarily, so I wanted to live in the empty house.
I reluctantly agreed. However, when my sister-in-law’s children were 3 years old and they had savings, they were unwilling to move out of the house, and so did I. I won’t go into details, anyway, it ended up being very embarrassing.
The man has always been relatively neutral during this period and didn’t help anyone. I also understand him. One is his wife and the other is his sister. There is nothing he can do. After my sister-in-law moved out, I didn't say much.
It's just that my sister-in-law was obviously resentful of me. She didn't think it was her brother's intention at all. She frowned at me every time, because I was a relative. For my own sake, I didn’t pay much attention to her.
I didn’t know that my sister-in-law had such a big problem with me until I found out that the third party the man cheated on was her best friend.
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Let’s first analyze the situation:
01, the man and The third party was together because his sister-in-law asked him to go out to chat. When he went out, he was drunk and locked in a room with the third party.
He has a very good relationship with Ms. Liu and has no thoughts of cheating. However, he has no reason to refuse such a woman who comes to his door, so he has been in a stalemate here.
Men don’t want to, and it’s impossible to divorce for a third party.
02. Although the third party has a good impression of the man and is a little bit ready to make a move, she has no such idea of taking action rashly. She was also suddenly designed by Ms. Liu's sister-in-law, so she took advantage of the situation, and after knowing that the man was obviously After she didn't want to get divorced, she also retreated a little.
03. Although the man really cheated, he was still a little dissatisfied with his sister's behavior. This was also a breakthrough for Ms. Liu to solve the extramarital affair.
Secondly, we set up plans and implementation plans based on these analyses:
In the first step, under the guidance of Su Yue, Ms. Liu directly filed for divorce with the man, and then used the words prepared by Su Yue to negotiate with the man. , meaning that as long as the man breaks up with the third party now, then she can ignore the past grudges. If the man can't do it, then just divorce.
This step is based on the personal circumstances of Ms. Liu and the man. It is best not for the first wives to imitate easily.
The man agreed. Naturally, the third party was still a little dissatisfied, so the two of them had an unpleasant quarrel. Although they broke up successfully in the end, the situation was embarrassing, and the third party complained even more to the sister-in-law.
The second step is to increase the third party’s dissatisfaction with the sister-in-law.
At this time, we used a third party to let the third party know that the reason why the sister-in-law matched her up with the man was not at all like "My brother and sister-in-law have a bad relationship, and they will get divorced sooner or later!" In this situation, she Being pushed out was purely used as a gun.
The third party directly started fighting with my sister-in-law, and they also started fighting.
In the third step, Ms. Liu continued to insist on divorce, saying that she knew why the man cheated on her, and it was because of her sister-in-law that she did not dare to continue the marriage.
At this time, the man and his sister-in-law naturally started to quarrel. With the help of Su Yue, the matter was instigated by Ms. Liu and became more and more serious. All relatives and friends knew about it.
thought that her sister-in-law was very vicious, and her parents-in-law almost broke off the relationship with her in anger. Her sister-in-law's marriage was also affected. At this time, after she learned her lesson, Ms. Liu relaxed.
Finally, Su Yue wants to say that the recovery does not end here.
Later, the man was likely to cheat again, so Ms. Liu, with the help of Su Yue, fought with the man for a long time to ensure that the man would not cheat again, and signed a guarantee letter and handed in his salary card.
The matter was completely resolved.
Su Yue wants to say, if you have also encountered such a bizarre extramarital affair and don’t know how to solve it, you can directly follow Su Yue and explain your situation, and I will help you solve it.
I am Su Yue, I am here to help you through your marital crisis!
