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Men with mature hearts will become more wise after reaching a certain age. They can not only keep their families harmonious, but also know how to manage their lives well.
But in real life, many people play a good deck of cards so badly. A man who is too arrogant, even if he is old, is still very childish and lives a very pedantic life.
After retirement, they still cannot live a peaceful life and have to make trouble.
The elderly who have been doing these things for half their lives often indicate that the rest of their lives will be very hard, and I hope you can avoid it.
01: Don’t cherish the efforts of my wife, betray the marriage
Lao Peng retired last year. He used to be a doctor and his income has always been stable.
I am very busy every day when I go to work, and my rest time is very regular, so I don’t have the energy to enjoy some leisure activities.
He and his wife have been married for thirty-five years. Although they do not have so-called love, they have long been used to each other when they live together for so long.
Although Lao Peng has a strong personality, he is still good to his wife and is particularly generous to her.
Lao Peng is also a very qualified father and has never let his daughter suffer.
However, after retirement, his temperament suddenly changed drastically. In order to enjoy the time, Lao Peng participated in various activities in various communities. He usually danced square dances and played chess and fished with his friends.
Later, he met more friends of the opposite sex because of this. Lao Peng received a monthly pension of 6,000 yuan, and he also had a car, a house, and a deposit.
There are some single women who will be very proactive. The most important thing is that they are much younger than Lao Peng.
Gradually, Lao Peng's heart was not at home, and he even began to dislike his wife for taking care of him too much.
As expected, after retirement, he went astray, no longer cherished his wife's efforts and love, and betrayed his family.
Not long after, my wife knew all this, and all the happy days came to an abrupt end.
A man, in the second half of his life, does not even cherish his marriage, and his future life is destined to be miserable.
The wife and daughter no longer trust him, and the warm scenes of the family in the past can no longer go back.
02: Starting to learn to gambling, it is easy to destroy your home with your own hands
My colleague's father had a lot of savings on his body before he retired, and his children were very filial. As long as he is well, he should live a happy life in his later years.
But he met a group of new friends who love gambling. They have not worked seriously for more than ten years and are idle every day and only know how to gambling.
The father of a colleague still thinks that after retirement, he can have another way out and wait until he becomes richer and become more powerful in front of his relatives.
At the beginning, he joined his friends and did win some money. After getting the sweetness, his colleague's father became even more fascinated.
No matter how his family persuaded him, he felt that he was not wrong and he would definitely make a lot of money.
But not long after, he lost everything, not only sold his car for 300,000 yuan, but also owed others a lot of debts.
In the end, his wife wanted to divorce him, and his colleague no longer wanted to say something to his father.
At this moment, my colleague's father realized his wrong behavior and felt extremely regretful.
But no matter how sad it is, it is too late. You have to bear the hardships of the days ahead.
03: Start to over-request from your children, just want to enjoy
Parents are old, and as children, they should be kind to them and have to assume the obligation to support their elderly care.
But there are some elderly people in life who, after retirement, seem to have nothing to do. No matter what requests they make, their children should give them.
A man, relying on his age, starts to over-require from his children and is uncontrollable. Such behavior often indicates that he will live a miserable life in his later years.
Old Chen from his neighbor's house is a typical and particularly selfish father.
Especially after retirement, he became even more harsh on his family. He loves comparison and becomes jealous when he sees the people around him live a very casual life.
Old Chen asked his son-in-law to buy him a car, and he had to ask his children to get money for what he usually needed.
Both the son-in-law and the son are very filial, but they also have their own pressure, and some things are really unsatisfied.
But Lao Chen never understood how to understand. As long as his children couldn't do it, he started to make trouble.
After a few years of tossing, my daughter was tired and decided not to care about Lao Chen anymore.
Now he is almost seventy years old. During the holidays, neither his daughter nor his son are willing to go home to accompany him. His life is lonely and miserable.
If you want to live freely and happily in your later years, remember not to do these three things above, especially after retirement, you must be more sober.
The older you are, the more you need to manage your life, otherwise you will not only lose everything, but no one will pity you.
