01. When people reach middle age, they will find that life is completely different from their imagination.
When I was young, I thought I could always maintain a state, and as long as I kept it, it would be very stable.
After 40 years old, I found that my health is not as good as before. Even if you are determined to do something, your energy is very limited. Facing the relationship after middle age, I was a little at a loss.
As early as when I was young, I fell in love, and my edges and corners were almost flattened by life. It is difficult to find the passionate moments of the past.
The life that cannot be changed will sooner or later be lost and cannot find the direction. At this time, you must learn to face it calmly, so that you can achieve peace and happiness between yourself and your family.
age cannot disturb a person's life. , it can only be said that life will be affected by age. At different stages, we should have different attitudes to life to reduce the troubles caused by age and improve our quality of life.
2. Learn to create fun for love
The unchanging life is boring. After middle age, life will gradually become smooth, but you can add some fun to yourself.
Xiaomiao is a person who knows how to live. He has been with his wife for more than ten years and has always had a good relationship. Although I cannot fully enjoy the two-person world with children, I still pay great attention to the mood and increase the fun of life.
Every wedding anniversary, Miaomiao will prepare in advance; hide the gift in your wife's coat, under the quilt, or even in a folder to surprise your wife.
will also order a restaurant on the same day and leave the children to parents. I went out on a date with my wife alone to commemorate the important day of the two getting married.
and his wife and children's birthdays, Xiao Miao always prepares carefully to make his wife and children very happy. What Miaomiao does is very simple and everyone can do it. The key is whether he does it with his heart.
only takes a little time to give the other person a little surprise and let the other person feel that he cares about the other person, and life is full of hope and beauty.
is not afraid of the passage of time, he is getting older and his passion is getting less and less. I am afraid that I will become lazy and do not want to add fun to my life in ordinary days.
Use snacks, and life can also be kept sweet.
3. Let love slowly turn into family affection.
The best love is not static, but has different patterns with different stages of life.
Love in youth even needs a partner, and it seems that the two of them have conquered the whole world together. After a mature love, what you need is company and warm the other person when they need it most. Entering middle age is actually a qualitative period for human beings.
Personality and lifestyle have formed an inherent pattern, and it is difficult to make any major changes.
At this time, love and career are opposite. Career will gradually stabilize and show an upward trend, but love is prone to conflicts and gradually become dull.
How to balance the relationship between the two is the biggest homework you need to do after the age of 40. Smart people will guide love to gradually transform into stronger family affection.
Two people have been together for a long time and no longer always emphasize you and me, but us, our family. From two people to becoming a whole, love has not only been sublimated, but also has a reliable backing.
is like having a spring. In the hot summer, there will always be a constant stream of spring coming towards you.
4. Only by knowing how to be grateful can you go further.
In life, everyone's appearance has special meaning. Some people teach us to read and understand the outside world; some people teach us a lesson in life to let us know how to cherish.
people come and go, in a hurry. As long as you have interactions with us, you will always leave traces of others and affect all aspects of us. Meeting is fate, you must know how to cherish and be grateful for all these encounters.
When it comes to " The Legend of Zhen Huan ", you always think of Ada Choi who plays the queen. Her role is very wonderful and unforgettable.
What is more exciting than the drama is her life. Her husband, , Zhang Jin, , is also an actor. When they first got together, Zhang Jin was not as famous as Ada Choi.
So many people are not optimistic about them. Ada Choi never cared about this. In her eyes, Zhang Jin was very outstanding and full of talent.
After years of hard work, Zhang Jin won the Academy Award for Best Actor for the movie " Grandmaster ".
In his speech, Zhang Jin was full of affection and choked and said: What I am most grateful for is my wife Ada Choi, and Ada Choi in the audience couldn't help but shed tears.
Their marriage life is very happy, which is envied by many people and has a lot to do with their gratitude. Two people have a very difficult journey from getting to know each other and then to being with each other.
Recently gratefulness not only makes the other person feel recognized, but also shows your affectionate side, allowing both of them to have more expectations for the future. 
