Keywords: time illusion; judgment; fact
Illusion of time
All excellent people, given time, will shine. This time frame may be longer than you think, and it may not match their own expectations, but gold always shines.
In my opinion, the point of what the author said is not that "gold always shines", but that "this time limit may be longer than you think."
The fundamental reason for giving up halfway is that after persisting for a period of time, no results can be seen. Then you will start to doubt yourself and the choices you make are not suitable for you, which will eventually lead to giving up.
We usually think that we have done something for a long time, but in fact, the accumulation is far from enough.
And if you keep counting time, your patience will be exhausted before success actually comes.
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Judgment
My definition of wisdom is "knowing the long-term consequences of one's actions." Wisdom used to solve external problems is actually judgment.
Wisdom is actually the ability to take a long-term view. The further and more accurately you can see, the higher your wisdom will be.
Why can’t Zhou Yu beat Zhuge Liang ? The reason is that Zhuge Liang can always look a few steps ahead of Zhou Yu.
Therefore, it is important to train your own judgment. So, how do you train your judgment?
Teacher Li Xiaolai once said: To judge whether a person is smart is to see whether he has enough clear, accurate and necessary concepts in his mind.
Real knowledge is intrinsically related, like a chain, interlocking from the basic level to the application level.
As the concepts in our minds gradually increase, these concepts will be related and form several clear logical lines. Slowly you will become a smart person.
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Facts
The desire for a better reality has blinded the understanding of the real world. The so-called pain is the inability to continue to ignore the facts.
The author's definition of pain is very precise. Pain comes from the unavoidable fact.
We will always ignore or even distort the facts because of personal desires, but the facts are the facts, and they will not change because of someone's reluctance or lack of attention. One day, the facts will be placed in front of everyone. Those who choose to escape at that time, It will be more painful.
