Nowadays, there are always people who will say, if your mother and girlfriend fall into the water at the same time, who do you save first? There is no doubt that you must save your mother first. It is your legal obligation to save your mother, and it is your moral obligation to save your girlfriend. When a mother and wife fall into the water at the same time, and only one can be saved, who should be saved? According to the legal provisions, it seems that we can save anyone, and this is already within the scope of moral tolerance. You will find that we face many choices in life, and understand that there is not only opposition between good and evil in the world, but also a duel between good and good. There are many good things that conflict with each other. How should we choose?
We often doubt our choices and whether there is any meaning in studying; we doubt what the work we do can bring to us; now we even doubt whether falling in love or getting married is meaningful. The purpose of doubting oneself is just to be sure of one's choice, and to correct, change and become a better self in the process of doubting.
Zengzi said, "I have to examine myself three times every day: Have I been unfaithful in my plans for others? Have I not believed in my friends? Have I not learned to pass them on?" I think this is a purpose with suspicion. It is to reflect on one's own past. It does not mean that Complete abandonment and abandonment. All doubts and reflections are to lead to the right intersection.
People often lose themselves in self-choice. When you are studying, when the postgraduate entrance examination and work come to you at the same time, it is undoubtedly a major choice for you. By working, you can reduce the financial pressure on your family, earn the first pot of gold in your life, make your parents less worried, and even start to be able to support yourself. The shortcoming is that you are not exposed to a broader space of knowledge. If you work hard to take the postgraduate entrance examination and enter a university, you can get to know more outstanding people. After graduation, you can have a higher salary and even have your own research direction and research results. When you were a student, did you think you made the right choice? I feel regret after working, why not take the postgraduate entrance examination? Graduate students are regretting why they didn’t go to work. People are always torn between choices. I appreciate some people who are frank and ask them why don’t you go to the postgraduate entrance examination? He said I was not ready to enter society. It seems cowardly, but in fact, aren't we following our own conscience? After all, everyone has a choice, and we cannot judge other people's choices. When you are in his environment, think about how you would choose if you were him. There are many people who can stand and talk without back pain. I think you should do this. Be yourself first and make sure of your choice.
Life is about making choices again and again. There are no warnings or strategies. Everyone is special. Don’t think about regretting what you didn’t do, just look forward! Giving up is not an option. Sometimes it is more cost-effective to stop losses in time than to go bankrupt. Don't think that this means you are afraid to face it. You just made your own choice. If others accuse you from the moral high ground, that is their business. The key is that you think you are right, or do you make the right choice? Don't regret it, there is no regret medicine in the world. We don’t have many viewers, so we might as well follow our hearts, make our own choices, and live boldly!
