Everything is empty since birth. It is said that life does not bring it, and death does not take it away. Therefore, human nature is only developed slowly in study and life after birth!
Since it is developed in study and life, then Isn't it unchangeable? It's just that for people in the world, human nature is deeply ingrained in their hearts, so it is relatively difficult to change.
The ancients said: The country is easy to change, but the nature is hard to change! The same is true for human nature. I believe that as long as it is not born, it can be changed! It depends on a person's self-cultivation, self-control ability, and whether he truly exists. He just wants to change his humanity! Be kind-hearted.
How to overcome it is your own business. If you don't have the determination to overcome it, you don't really want to defeat your weakness, so don't bring trouble to yourself.
If you cannot maintain a balance and are afraid of paying the price, then there is no need to talk about it. Also, if you treat doing something as a task and suffering, you will not get far; and if you treat it as a friend, there is no psychology. If you bear the burden, you will definitely be able to walk longer...
Human nature is all bad, always asking for trouble, not knowing how to cherish, unable to distinguish between good and bad, pitiful, ridiculous and sad, right?
Life is always full of mean people!
A man ignores a woman, and the woman sends hundreds of messages in a row, begging for just one word in reply, and finally the other party blocks her!
The woman ignored the man, and the man sent her a carefully prepared gift, just waiting for the woman to say thank you, but the woman threw his gift out the window with another man!
For most people, they will always be pursued several times in their lives, and they will always pursue others several times.
We often only feel the hard work and suffering when we pursue others, but rarely feel the hard work of others when pursuing ourselves.
This psychological characteristic directly leads to the cruelty and double-sided nature of human nature.
You may only feel that you are sorry for rejecting others, but you rarely feel that this rejection is a kind of cruelty that destroys the belief in life for a person who is willing to give everything for you.
You may feel extremely painful towards someone who ignores your sincere heart, and may even get angry and scold others for being heartless, but you rarely realize how despicable your behavior is!
Cruel people will get used to their own cruelty, and those who commit baselessness will also get used to their own baseness.
Cruel and mean people have their own theory of life. They use their own set of life theories to maintain the balance of their inner world, making them go further and further down the path of cruelty and meanness.
Cruelty and being mean are relative in the emotional world. If you don't be mean, others cannot be cruel to you.
The mean-spirited people look a little pitiful, but in fact they are essentially caused by the active greed in their human nature.
If you are willing to be mean in a relationship, it means that the person who makes you mean is very good in your opinion. Just like we strive to pursue an ideal life, if the ideal life is not as good as your real life, you don’t have to go through such pain. Fight hard.
People who are mean are actually very selfish. If they are truly selfless, they will gain happiness from their efforts.
This is like throwing a coin to a beggar on the street. The happiness we get does not come from the beggar saying thank you to us, but from the self-worth reflected in the process of helping others.
Those who are mean-spirited pay with requirements and purpose. In essence, it is an exchange.
If others cannot meet their requirements, it means that this exchange is unfair to some extent.
But they want to make this unfair transaction a reality, which will obviously harm the interests of others. Isn't this selfish?
People who commit base crimes are stubborn and stubborn. In Buddhism, they are called idiots. Stubbornness and stubbornness stem from low cognitive level, which is simply stupid.
In life, the behavior of people like this often shows three characteristics: no principles, no bottom line, and no understanding of stop loss. It is precisely because they have these three characteristics that they achieve their despicable behavior.
In life, each of us may make mistakes, but they vary in severity and length of time.
Because greed, selfishness and stubbornness are characteristics of human nature and are difficult to cure.
Therefore, introspection and self-cultivation are the most important things in everyone's life.
