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What kind of woman do men love? Everyone will have a different answer to this question. As the saying goes, "Everyone has their own preferences." Men tend not to fall in love with the same women. Everyone has different preferences and will fall in love with different personalities and types. woman.
But you can also extract some commonalities among these different types of women, and these commonalities are often the reason why a man firmly loves a woman.
Love is not a very difficult thing, just like a whale will always swim into the sea, a rainbow will always meet the clouds, the world goes around and is full of fate, whether it is love at first sight, or... A long-lasting love.
However, what is needed to make a man fall in love with her wholeheartedly and turn a short-lived fate into a long-lasting love is a woman's personal charm and a precious soul.
In fact, women who men love with all their hearts often have these characteristics in common.
A confident and independent woman with her own personality
In " I'm Fortunate to Meet You ", the heroine played by Wang Likun is a very confident and independent woman. She never relies on the male protagonist. When the other person is in trouble, he will stand up to protect him, calmly and calmly help him avoid danger, and finally succeed in touching the man's heart.
There are a lot of popular chicken soups on the market now, and they all say that "women who act like a spoiled child are the best." In these views, if a girl is good at acting like a spoiled child and learns to rely on men, she will be more likely to be favored by men, because men are inherently weak. On the other hand, they don't need the women around them to be overly strong. The weaker they are, the more protective they will be inspired.
But if a woman is completely dependent on a man, and this dependence relationship never changes, then the relationship between the two will only become more and more unequal, and the balance of love will be completely tilted.
Blindly relying on others can easily make girls lose themselves completely and lose their ability to live independently. But what about men? Because they see this side, they will become more confident, and women will become more humble, worried about gains and losses, for fear that their lover will leave. At this time, the relationship between the two people will be completely unbalanced.
The more humble a woman is, the less men will pay attention to her. The more entangled a woman is, the faster a man will leave. Only when a woman becomes independent and confident can she avoid the imbalance of love, be looked down upon by men, and be unwilling to leave.
When a woman is confident, her whole body will be filled with a kind of light, and she will exude a powerful personality charm, which can always attract people. This kind of relationship is more equal and more lasting.
A considerate woman understands what he thinks and needs.
People are emotional. Being confident and independent does not mean being cold and ruthless. In fact, if a woman can be confident and have a kind heart at the same time, If she has understanding feelings, then she will be more likely to be loved wholeheartedly.
Every man hopes that the women around him can understand and consider him. They are shy to express and talk, and often hope that women can take the initiative to notice and send kind care and advice.
If a man comes home tired every day, but his lover turns a blind eye to his hard work, there is often only a deep sense of loss and sadness left in their hearts.
If a man cannot find anyone to talk to when he is in pain and depression, he can only pour his sorrow into tears late at night, which makes people sigh.
Love is often the result of two people communicating and relying on each other. When a woman can keenly understand a man's inner world and understand his pain and happiness, worries and joys, she can rely on this strong ability to empathize, Communicating better with men makes a man happy to discover: It seems that there are still people in this world who understand me, and I am never alone.
When he is moved by a woman's empathy, he will be deeply attracted to the woman and want to love her wholeheartedly for the rest of his life.
"Understanding" and "understanding" are the demands that everyone has in love. A considerate woman can become a man's interpreter and successfully capture his heart, which is difficult to erase.
A self-disciplined woman, ambitious and pursuing, working hand in hand
A self-disciplined woman is often more favored by men. This is not an accident, because good love must be equal to each other, treat each other well, and make progress together, and It's not about tilting the balance of love in one direction.
A man cannot hope that his woman will depend on him. If a woman has no income, no independent life, and tries to rely on a man no matter what she does, then such a relationship will often not last long, no matter how long it is. A strong man will also become bored by endless clinging.
If a woman is willing to accompany a man and work together, then the man will often love the woman even more wholeheartedly.
Just as Shu Ting said in " To the Oak ": "If I love you, I will never be like a climbing Lingxiaohua, using your high branches to show off myself."
Good love has always been a combination of strong forces. What men need is definitely not a woman who is content with the status quo and does nothing. Such a woman is destined to be abandoned. A self-disciplined and progressive woman will have a strong charm that attracts men, and she can't help but get close to her, making it difficult to leave.
Between lovers, whether it is a positive attitude towards life or a vibrant life atmosphere, they will be contagious to each other. Men definitely also hope to have a positive partner by their side who can accompany them, supervise themselves, and make them happy. I feel more awake.
Some roads are too difficult for one person to walk. If two people support each other and go hand in hand, they can bloom a brilliant flower of love and meet a better each other.
Love is never generalized. There are often various reasons for two people to be together, but no matter how many reasons there are, they will all ultimately come down to the charm of each other's personalities.
Women, never try to use your appearance to keep a man's heart for a long time. Of course, it will only be temporary, and sooner or later you will be rejected by the man.
Of course, a woman's life should not just be to keep a man's heart, but also to live her life. When a woman can possess the above characteristics, she will meet a better version of herself and be able to get love at the same time.
Therefore, if a woman feels that she has not received love yet, and has no chance of being favored or liked by others, she might as well cultivate herself first, otherwise she will meet you unexpectedly in the end.
