People's Daily said: "When you are with people with big patterns, you will not have only garlic in your eyes."
In life, I believe everyone likes to communicate and get along with people with big patterns, because girls with big patterns are really attractive.
There is a saying: "Details determine success or failure, and the pattern determines the way out."
If we do not have the ability and wealth at present, then we cannot even lose the pattern.
So, what are the characteristics of girls who really have a pattern?
1. Don’t complain about anything
Bill Gates once said: "We must learn to accept the inevitable reality, learn to deal with the problems caused by defects, and not complain about it.
People who can not complain when encountering problems will definitely be able to accept imperfections and accept shortcomings. Such people do not choose to complain but choose to solve problems when encountering problems.
2. Don’t get angry when encountering problems
There is a saying: "Only those who can control their emotions can control their lives. "
It is normal to encounter problems in life. Whether you can control your emotions and not get angry depends on our ability.
If a person, no matter what troubles you encounter, no matter how many times you send it, it will only amplify your emotions infinitely, but the problem will not be solved.
People who do not get angry when encountering things are the greatest ability.
3. Keep an optimistic attitude
There is a saying: "Happiness does not depend on how much you have, but on how much you take it lightly. "
We should know that there are almost 10 things that are not satisfactory in life. What determines our quality of life is often the mentality.
4. Stay kind
Kind people must be very beautiful and sweet in their hearts. They will lend a helping hand to help those in need within their abilities.
Then, while helping others, you will also be very happy and happy in your heart.
Don’t be stingy with your love, but you should also pay attention to kindness with a ruler.
5. There is no limit, don’t go to the well to watch the sky
Here I will tell you something that our boss always makes fun of himself. Some time ago, he went to Guangzhou to discuss cooperation with a listed company. When he arrived downstairs, the boss called the other party and asked what floor and number it was. The other party said, “Just come up directly. "
" You have to tell me which floor to what number, otherwise how can I know. "Our boss still must know.
Who knew that the other party said: "This whole building belongs to mine, you can just come up. ”
At an employee meeting, the boss told us about this and he joked: “It’s because I’m a little bit too little haha. "
So, we should not set limits for ourselves, believe that we have infinite possibilities, and do not limit our vision. We should expand our vision a little further.
6. If you have your own opinions, don't follow the crowd
There is a noun in psychology called " herd effect ", which means that in the flock, there will be a flock of sheep following the leader blindly." The same is true for
people. If you don't have your own judgment and your own thinking ability, it is easy to follow others and follow others.
People with big patterns will not blindly follow the trend when doing anything, they will think and judge the best results.
7. Whether you can take up and put down what you missed in
or do something wrong, we can look back, but don’t go back, because you have to be fully responsible for going against the trend.
Be a girl who can hold on and put it down, and don't cry for the overturned milk.
8. Invest in yourself and focus on your own development
In the wealth book, there is a book that talks about the reason for the difference in wealth: only a few people in the world spend money to make money, that is to invest in themselves, and most people are in a simple logic, making money is to spend money and spend money to buy things.
is the two different patterns that have caused two types of people: poor and rich.
People with a pattern will look at things further. They will focus on their own development and invest in themselves, because they know how to invest in themselves, and will have a better life in the second half of their lives.
9. The courage to be hated
People with a pattern will calmly accept the voices from the outside world and will not be depressed because of others' annoyance.
Each of us is unique and cannot be loved by everyone. If we over-pursuing external recognition and use the eyes of others as the yardstick of life, then it will be difficult for us to gain a sense of happiness.
10. Dare to refuse, and also accept being rejected
For things that others ask for help, if you are outside your ability or don’t like, you must have the courage to refuse.
At the same time, when facing other people’s rejection, you should also say it doesn’t matter, and it doesn’t matter if you refuse.
is written at the end:
The characteristics of the big picture are actually different.
No matter what, we all hope that we can do it in the better direction.
