Introduction
Will there really be true love between old and young lovers? In fact, it is difficult for young people to be sincere, especially when they are young. It is impossible to treat older people sincerely. They choose older men to be with just for money.
61-year-old aunt remarried at the age of 40 Young man, two months later, the aunt directly filed for divorce and scolded the young man for being shameless. As a result, the young man responded: "This is your responsibility, you have no right to scold me."
What is going on? Let’s take a look at this story.
61-year-old Aunt Zhang
I am 66 years old this year, my surname is Zhang. I never thought that after I remarried, I would marry a Phoenix man. I thought I would meet a man who loves me, but I didn’t expect that the other person was a man. Phoenix Man, two months after I remarried him, I directly chose to divorce. After this experience, I also understood that a woman should not marry a Phoenix Man or a man younger than herself, otherwise she will really regret it.
I never thought about being with him at first, because he is much younger than me and we can be mother and daughter, but he kept pursuing me and said that as long as I was willing to be with him, He will pamper me like a princess.
I gradually became attracted to him, and then I agreed to be with him. But when we were about to get the certificate, my children were particularly opposed to it because they felt that this man was about the same age as them, so they chose to be with him. I definitely wasn't serious about being together.
I also said here that if I weren’t rich, he probably wouldn’t like me. When I heard my children say this, I was immediately curious about why this man insisted on being with me, and then I asked him , is it because of my money that he is with me? In the end, he directly swore: "If I am with you because of your money, then I will be shocked. Don't listen to your children. I really want to be with you." You are together. Although we are very different in age, I don't dislike you at all. If I dislike you, I will not pursue you all the time, let alone pester you. If you don't believe it, you can recall that I was "How did he treat you?"
Hearing what he said, I recalled that he was indeed very good to me before, and he didn't show any bad things. He has always been very caring and caring to me, and I can also see in his eyes that he really loves me, otherwise he wouldn’t be stalking me. If those men who don’t love me, as long as I reject them a few times, they won’t be able to do it. He pesters me, so I also believe that he really loves me.
At that time, I also explained to my children that he really loved me, but my children didn’t believe it no matter what, and refused to let us be together, regardless of their objections, and chose to remarry him despite their objections.
Just like that, the two of us became husband and wife. After we became husband and wife, I found out that he had two sons, two younger brothers, one younger sister, and a pair of elderly parents. But at that time, I didn’t dislike him. I have to contribute money to support their family. After all, their family is poor, and it is my duty as my wife to help them.
What I didn’t expect was that after helping him once, it became what I should do. Not only do I have to serve his parents every day, I also have to provide it to his younger brother and sister, and he also treats me in a special way. Stingy, unwilling to pay, unwilling to give me money to use, even if I am sick, he will not help me buy medicine, unless I give money, otherwise he will not use his own money to buy it for me.
And since marrying him, he has become more and more disgusted with me. I always say that I am an old woman. If I complain a little, he will say that I am not a qualified wife, so I really am I am speechless and hate his behavior.
After being together for two months, I discovered that he was a Phoenix man, because he would only be nice to his family members, and would always be very indifferent to me. If I didn’t use money to support our family, He would scold me, so in his eyes I was just an outsider and a cash machine.
And once I heard him telling others that he was only with me for my money, and that he would dump me as long as he defrauded me of all my money. When I learned his true purpose, I I filed for divorce immediately because I simply couldn't stand such a man and I didn't want to be with a young Phoenix man, otherwise my life would be miserable.
So before I fall too deep, I must immediately choose to stop the loss in time, so as to avoid being wronged and suffering a loss. After
filed for divorce, he also asked me to divide the property. At that time, I scolded me directly: "You are usually so shameless and treat me like a cash machine. Why do you have the nerve to ask me for money now? Who gave you the courage?" Asking for money is not life-threatening. This is my property before marriage. You have no right to ask me to share it with you."
He responded directly at that time: "How can you call me shameless? This is what a wife should do. Why? Isn’t it right for my family to spend money? Why do you say that to me? It’s your honor for me, a young man, to marry you. Why are you so ignorant?”
I said, “I was blind and saw the wrong person.” "If I knew you were such a person, I would never be with you. Don't bother me from now on, and don't let me see you again, because I'm afraid I will feel sick."
finished. He left directly, and we haven't met since then. I heard that he also went to look for his next target, but I don't know whether he succeeded or not. It's none of my business anyway, as long as he doesn't come to hurt me again. That's it.
After this experience, I hope that all older women who want to find a wife will find someone of the same age as themselves, and never find someone younger than themselves, because younger people have their own purposes.
You must also keep your eyes open when looking for a partner. Don't marry everyone like this, so as not to regret it.
Conclusion
Everyone has the right to choose love, but before choosing love, you must keep your eyes open and see clearly the person and character of the other person. Don't do something that you regret, and don't let yourself suffer.
