The loneliness of widowed elderly people is difficult for outsiders to understand. As the saying goes: A young couple keeps company when they are old. Wife, as the name suggests, is an elderly companion.
Without a wife, where does your happiness come from? A strange phenomenon was discovered. Older men have a stronger willingness to remarry, while older women generally refuse to remarry.
For example, Uncle Yao, who is 77 years old this year, lost his wife to illness three years ago. Uncle Yao's ability to take care of himself is poor. When he was young, his family was in a good family and he was cared for by his mother from childhood to adulthood.
After getting married at the age of 23, all the housework was done by his wife. At the age of 51, his first wife died of illness and he remarried at the age of 52. Now his second wife also died of illness. Uncle Yao was anxious to remarry again, so he asked relatives and friends to introduce him. There are ladies, but the ladies dislike Uncle Yao for being too old.
The most outrageous thing is that once, the son-in-law introduced a woman named Wang, who was 55 years old. After meeting, he learned that Uncle Yao was 77 years old, and immediately stood up and wanted to leave. But Uncle Yao was completely anxious, and he immediately got wise and I started a push-up show and finished 170 standard push-ups in one breath.
Aunt Wang watched Uncle Yao's performance and agreed to observe it before thinking about it. The main reason was that she thought Uncle Yao was too old. She said in public that if Uncle Yao was 60 years old, she would agree immediately, but 77 years old obviously does not meet her criteria for choosing a spouse. .
Aunt Wang’s criteria for choosing a spouse are:
1. Height 1.7 meters;
2. Age under 60 years old;
3. The man’s pension is more than 5,000 yuan. Of the three standards of
, only the second one does not meet the requirements of Uncle Yao.
Uncle Yao said that if Aunt Wang finally rejects him, he will continue to search until he finds the right one.
It is a good thing for the elderly to remarry, but you should not be impatient when looking for a wife. Everything can happen but cannot be sought. Marriage is about fate. As the saying goes: Thousands of miles are connected by fate, but there is no chance of meeting each other.
