Life is not a journey in vain, every step you take counts.
When it comes to marriage, many parents don’t want to see their children make the same mistakes they did, so they will try their best to pass on their own experiences to their children. They hope that after having these experiences, children will be able to take fewer detours.
But everyone is an independent individual, the future is their own future, and life is their own life. For many things, only by truly trying them can we determine whether they are right or wrong. Therefore, when it comes to marriage, more and more young people are beginning to be firm in their choices. Even if their parents are not optimistic and do not bless them, they still give it a go with full expectations.
Perhaps, this is the bravery and fearlessness of young people. Never lose the courage to start over again, even if you choose the wrong path, you will still find your way back when you are wrong.
Qin Shuang is a girl living in a third-tier town. She comes from a privileged family and her parents run a small business. But the quiet and leisurely life once made her yearn for the busy traffic of big cities. If her parents were not in poor health, she would really go to the city of her dreams to work hard with her loneliness and courage. Even if there is no achievement in the end, it doesn't matter if you go home disgraced.
Later, because she wanted to stay with her parents, she could only choose to stay in this small place. Sometimes she can only comfort herself by having a stable job, two or three close friends, and being able to stay with her parents. In such a life, what else is there to be picky about?
But every time at a class reunion, when she heard her colleagues who were working hard outside describe the outside world vividly, it would be a lie to say that she was not envious. Just when she was at her wits' end, such a person came into her life.
His name is Xu Zhenhua, a middle-level manager who was transferred from the head office. Suddenly, many young girls in the company were furious, wanting to get in touch with this so-called outstanding man. Through subsequent contacts at work, many colleagues had a relatively average evaluation of this man.
By chance, on the way back from get off work, Qin Shuang saw the person at the bus stop on the roadside who seemed familiar. So, I drove to the side of the road and lowered my car window to say hello. After saying hello, the enthusiastic Qin Shuang asked Xu Zhenhua, "Where are you going? If you're on the way, I'll follow you."
Just like that, because of the ride, the relationship between the two gradually became familiar. I don't know whether it's because he saw Qin Shuang's yearning for his past life, or for other reasons. Whenever the two of them were alone together, Xu Zhenhua would always mention his past, intentionally or unintentionally, and the hard-earned achievements he had made until now.
Listening to Xu Zhenhua's past, Qin Shuang felt like listening to a fantasy story, with a little more admiration in his eyes. Later, the distance between the two people gradually became closer and closer than that of ordinary colleagues. Six months later, they fell in love. In just a few months, Qin Shuang fell deeply into it and was even ready to get married. After
’s parents learned about this incident, they obviously strongly opposed it, but in the end they did not persuade their daughter. Not long after, the Qin family's parents nodded and agreed to the marriage. They know that although their daughter is getting married and there is a great possibility that she will live an unhappy life, they have no other choice. The only thing that can be done is to provide a solid backing and retreat for her daughter.
When their daughter is hurt, they can stand up to protect and help her as soon as possible.
In order to get enough attention for their daughter and to protect her pre-marital property, Qin’s father and Qin’s mother bought a small apartment for their daughter as quickly as possible after careful consideration. Although the area is not large, it has a good location and there is a lot of room for appreciation in the future. Therefore, if my daughter lives well, this house can be rented out to supplement the family income. Live well and at least have a place to go.
These considerations can be said to be the parents’ good intentions. And Qin Shuang, who was trapped in love and couldn't extricate herself, finally understood her parents. Therefore, she did not disclose her dowry house to her husband.
After getting married, the two of them lived quite happily at first.No matter how busy Xu Zhenhua is at work, he is still very considerate to Qin Shuang when he comes home from get off work. But unfortunately, this situation did not last long.
About half a year later, Xu Zhenhua’s true face began to be revealed. He began to frequently bring his unhappiness at work home, often complaining that the company was unfair and that his leaders were blind and did not appreciate him. At first, faced with these negative energies, Qin Shuang still tried every means to comfort him, make him happy, and encourage him.
Gradually, Qin Shuang found that all her efforts were in vain. Because, she gradually learned that Xu Zhenhua had a resentful character from the bottom of his heart. They will only complain about unfair fate, and they will not be able to make a fortune without good luck. Therefore, she slowly stopped spending her energy. More often than not, she would rather spend time on herself, at least to improve.
After more than half a year, the illness of her mother-in-law made the relationship between the two people, which was already close to freezing point, become out of control.
The mother-in-law is sick, which means that he, the son, has to take full responsibility. Although Xu Zhenhua is a man who likes to complain when things happen, he seems to be a different person when it comes to treating his parents. Originally, Qin Shuang mistakenly thought that this was a good opportunity for Xu Zhenhua to grow. But something she never expected was yet to come.
Facing his mother lying on the hospital bed, Xu Zhenhua acted like a good son and comforted her, "Mom, don't worry about the treatment. I will take care of all the money matters."
After returning home, Xu Zhenhua had a big argument with his wife, hoping that she would return to her parents' home. Borrow some money, even if it means selling the dowry house. Looking at the anxious man in front of her, Qin Shuang didn't mean to blame him. She explained, "Husband, when I married you, I had a falling out with my family. You also know this. Now, how can I ask for help from them?" I’m embarrassed about the money.”
“As for the dowry house, it was left to me by my parents and was not purchased by me. Therefore, it was definitely not appropriate for me to sell it without consulting them. Besides, during this period of time when we were struggling, it was precisely because of the rent of this house that we could not sell it. "
" I understand that you want to see a doctor for your mother. , But don’t worry about the house. You can work another part-time job, and I can find some friends to make some money. It’s not a problem to raise money for treatment.”
It’s okay not to say this, Xu Zhenhua started as soon as he said it. Throwing things in a rage. Qin Shuang was frightened when she saw the person next to her for the first time. To be safe, she knew her best course of action at the moment was to shut up and wait for him to calm down.
Who knows, after losing his temper, Xu Zhenhua not only did not realize his fault, but even accused Qin Shuang, "I didn't expect you to be such an unfilial woman. If I had known this, I would not have married you." . "
These words were like a slap in the face, hitting Qin Shuang fiercely. At that moment, she finally realized what her parents said: "Children are not our physical material, but just such a man. You will really not be happy if you marry him." Later, she filed for divorce without any hesitation.
Xu Zhenhua, who was certain that Qin Shuang would not take the initiative to propose a divorce, panicked for a moment. He knelt on the ground and begged Qin Shuang to forgive him, saying that he was too impatient and anxious, so he spoke indiscriminately. But Qin Shuang, who has made a firm choice, is no longer willing to take this road back because this person is not worth it.
Finally, I would like to ask everyone: Do you think that if you don’t follow your parents’ arrangements, the marriage you choose will really not be happy? Why? Welcome to leave a message and comment
