"Get divorced as soon as possible and go back to your hometown. My sister is really blind when she falls in love with you! You have no money, no ability, and a bad temper. What kind of child are you going to have? You are so good, you are a loser!" Sister-in-law Jiang Jie said to her brother-in-law Just a scolding.
's sister Jiang Dan also supported her sister and worked together to "besiege" her husband Xie Bin.
Her husband, Xie Bin, was not good at words. He just kept urging his mother to pack up his things and go back to his hometown and leave this place of right and wrong as soon as possible.
What happened to this family? Why did they become so "at war with each other"?
Xie Bin and his sister-in-law quarreled
Two years ago, Xie Bin and Jiang Dan met in Macau. At that time, although Xie Bin was a young man from the countryside, he was engaged in foreign exchange work, earning a lot of money, and he was also energetic. Although Jiang Dan is divorced, he is handsome, mature and considerate, and has a good family environment.
The two fell in love with each other and got a marriage certificate not long after their relationship. After the marriage, they moved to Changsha, Jiang Dan's hometown.
Because it was a flash marriage, both parties did not have enough understanding before the marriage, and many problems emerged after getting married.. Now the relationship between the two is becoming increasingly tense. Jiang Dan is clamoring for a divorce, and Xie Bin is somewhat reluctant to give up for the sake of the child.
Jiang Dan
The husband loves to eat and is too lazy to cook. He only eats and plays cards. He cheated on his wife during her pregnancy and even beat her.
According to Jiang Dan, her husband seemed to be a different person after getting married, and his temper became worse and worse. Without the foreign exchange job, people have become lazy. They stay at home and sleep every day. The only activity is to gather a group of friends and go out to play mahjong. After playing in the afternoon, they continue playing in the evening.
Xie Bin doesn't cook for himself, but often goes to his father-in-law's house to eat and drink, living a life of "clothes come to hand, food comes to open mouth".
What’s even more outrageous is that he secretly went to a hotel to book a room while his wife was pregnant and stayed away from home all night. Jiang Dan said: "I was in confinement at that time and lived in my parents' house. It was when I needed his care, but he was always not at home. Later I found out that he had booked a room in a hotel. I couldn't live in a good house. , Why did he spend money to get a room in the hotel? There must be a woman outside!"
Regarding his wife's accusation, Xie Bin retorted: "I don't have a woman outside, and my wife was making unreasonable guesses. I love playing mahjong, so when I book a hotel room, I play mahjong with others.”
How did Jiang Dan know that her husband had booked a hotel room outside? It turned out that she had installed location tracking on Xie Bin's mobile phone and car, so she knew her husband's whereabouts very well.
"One time I followed the location and came to the hotel, and I happened to bump into him. Although I didn't see the woman, I knew there was something wrong with him." Jiang Dan said angrily, obviously not believing that her husband went to the hotel to play mahjong.
Just the day before yesterday, Jiang Dan and her husband had a big argument. Her mother-in-law was also present at the time. During the pushing and shoving, her husband accidentally slapped her in the face. She thought her husband did it on purpose, and now he just disliked her. Her husband held his head and smiled bitterly, speechless.
And after the reporter arrived, she slapped her husband back in front of him...
Jiang Dan slapped her husband back in front of the reporter.
His wife has a strong personality, and her family looks down on her son-in-law, who is called a "local daughter-in-law and a foreigner."
Jiang Dan owns two houses in Changsha, and she paid the down payment for the house she lives in with her husband. The family environment is good, but she looks down on her husband, thinking that he comes from the countryside and is uneducated, so he should be content when he finds himself.
Xie Bin didn't think so. He was married for the first time, while his wife was married for the second time, and he had a girl with him. He was obviously at a disadvantage. Every time his wife made him angry, he would use this matter to fight back. As time went by, the two of them became incompetent and argued endlessly.
Where are the parents-in-law! I didn't agree with the marriage between the two at first, thinking that this man was unreliable and his family background was not good, but I couldn't win over my stubborn daughter and finally agreed.
Their daughter has already been injured once, and the couple is afraid that their daughter will meet someone unkind again.
Jiang Dan
My sister-in-law got involved and persuaded my sister and brother-in-law to divorce.
When my sister-in-law heard her brother-in-law telling his mother to pack her things and go home, she immediately ran back, yelled at him, told him to get out of her house, and instigated her sister to divorce him. .
It turns out that the name of the house where Xie Bin lives is written in the names of his wife and sister-in-law . At that time, the down payment was paid by the two sisters together.
"You have no money or ability, and you came from the countryside. Aren't you just after my sister's money? You can go back and go through the divorce procedures with my sister immediately." Sister-in-law Jiang Jie stared at Xie Bin and shouted at the door of the room. shouted.
Xie Bin, however, was full of grievances and couldn't finish the words. He just kept complaining: his wife's family never regarded him as one of their own, and their family conditions were good, so they didn't think highly of him. Now I feel worthless and want to kick myself away.
He also added that before he got married, his income was pretty good. He gave all the money he earned to Jiang Dan every month. He bought a car and let his wife drive it all the time.
He didn't calculate it carefully, but the money he spent on his wife over the years was at least more than 200,000 yuan, and the wife's parents never noticed it.
Xie Bin's sister-in-law
Mother-in-law received unanimous praise
Seeing that her sister's mother-in-law was about to leave, Jiang Jie suddenly said to her brother-in-law: "Your mother is gone, who will take care of your son?"
Xie Bin left a smooth sentence, "Hire a nanny. That's great, my mother can't stay any longer."
When the sister-in-law heard this, she couldn't suppress the anger in her heart and cursed at the top of her voice: "Do you know how much a nanny or confinement wife costs now? At 5,000 a month, how can you earn so much in a month? You really have no money and no ability. Go away quickly and get divorced from my sister before you leave."
Grandma Jiang Dan
Xie Bin's mother was cleaning up the bedroom nearby. Luggage didn't say a word, just shed tears silently.
Jiang Dan walked up to her mother-in-law with a hint of shame on her face. Her mother-in-law was very good to her and the children, and took good care of her and her children.
According to her mother-in-law, her son’s family had little savings when they got married. In order to collect the bride price, she borrowed money from relatives and friends, and gave 150,000 to 60,000 to her in-laws.
Even her sister-in-law, who is so picky, did not criticize her sister's mother-in-law at all. "My mother-in-law is still a good person, but her son is not a good person," Jiang Jie murmured.
Jiang Dan's mother-in-law
Regarding the divorce, Xie Bin was somewhat reluctant to give up. He and his mother found a mediator, hoping to mediate and save their marriage. The mediator
analyzed in detail the personality flaws of the two people and the problems existing in the relationship between the couple, and then took out three marriage manuals for the two people to read.
Finally, under the mediation of the mediator, Xie Bin and Jiang Dan planned to calm down for three months to give each other some time before deciding whether to divorce.
Three Treasures of Marriage
Conclusion: In fact, in Xie Bin’s marriage, both parties have more or less problems. Xie Bin is lazy and idle all day long, and does not know how to understand his wife's hard work; while Jiang Dan, relying on his family's superiority, looks down on this rural man from the bottom of his heart and behaves very strongly.
Only Xie Bin can get rid of his habit of being indolent and take the initiative to take on the responsibilities of the family; Jiang Dan can restrain his temper and know how to explore the bright spots in her husband. Their marriage can still be very happy.
In marriage, the most important thing for both husband and wife is to respect each other and understand each other . Only in this way can the relationship between husband and wife be smooth for a long time.
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