Fate is beautiful and has a shelf life. If two people lack a business mentality and treat fate with a casual attitude. Then, each other's love can easily expire with the passage of time. Once that day comes, everyone will realize that the bread of love is hard to swallow. It's ta

Fate is beautiful, and it also has a shelf life.

If two people lack a business mentality, they treat fate with a casual attitude.

Then, each other's love can easily expire with the passage of time. Once that day comes, everyone will realize that the bread of love is difficult to swallow.

It is tasteless to chew, and it is a pity to throw it away.

A relationship has become like useless.

Under such circumstances, how many couples will be able to keep their original intention of fate?

Of course, even if we cherish the attitude of cherishing fate and work hard to manage love, there will be situations where love cannot be achieved. If a person doesn't treat you sincerely, the more you give, the more disappointment you will receive.

01

Love itself has the nature of "trial and error".

Just think about it, why do you need to go through the process of falling in love before getting married?

In fact, we all have this consciousness, that is, to find someone who is like-minded and spend the rest of our lives together. But many people of the opposite sex lack a process of understanding each other after they meet.

This means that after both parties develop a good impression, they must continue to become familiar and understand each other.

Only through a process of getting to know each other, and the fate of two people, can we have the opportunity to further sublimate. People who have the same views will realize that they have many topics in common, which will make the two people determined to get together.

There are also some couples who may face the end of breaking up.

Because after a short period of getting along, they found that their personalities were incompatible with each other, and it was difficult to find empathy, etc. After a combination of various reasons, both parties found that they were really not suitable for each other.

In this case, breaking up is the best ending.

However, for many girls, once they accept a boy, they will easily become emotional , and from then on they will regard the other person as the destination of their emotions.

As everyone knows, there are still too many variables in love.

02

There is an old saying that goes like this:

Any love that is not for the purpose of marriage is just a hooligan.

Of course, two people meet by fate. If they want to continue their fate, they need to be honest. Only in this way can both parties open their hearts to communicate and achieve the purpose of getting to know and understand each other.

But it is undeniable that there are many love at first sight.

had the opportunity to meet each other, and the look in their eyes created a feeling that lasted forever.

Although love is beautiful, it deserves to be treated with a grateful attitude. But are the two people suitable? Only after getting along can we find the real answer.

As a girl, if you meet a man who has a playful attitude, you will easily become disappointed.

Such a man may make you happy for a while with love words, but he will not spend the rest of his life trying to please you. Maybe, at a certain turning point, this person will betray love and choose to leave without looking back.

If love comes to this point, how should girls deal with it?

When a man changes his mind? Please be "harder" on yourself.

03

Your humbleness cannot keep a man who has changed his mind.

In love, there is no absolute fairness.

At the starting point of fate, men take the initiative and work hard to squeeze into your world. Facing such a man, girls can easily have the illusion that he is a sincere person.

In fact, in the world of emotions, there can be sincerity but also hypocrisy.

If a man is just to satisfy his personal needs, not to protect you.People like

may please you and bring you a moment of joy. However, once a man's needs disappear, his attitude will change.

When it turns out that a man doesn’t love you.

Girls must not try to please the other person, let alone use a humble attitude to keep him.

Because the more humble you are, it will only make a man feel that your choice is right, and it will also make him look down on you more. Instead of asking for trouble and losing face, it is better to be cruel and give up a love that does not belong to you.

Letting go is the only way to respect yourself and respect love.

04

is determined to cut off contact with each other.

I have loved you, how can I let it go?

Especially for girls, everyone accepts someone carefully with a sincere attitude.

Faced with many men, girls thought that they had found their emotional destination, and that the other person was a person worthy of trusting them for the rest of their lives. However, the relationship between the two people still failed to pass the test of time.

When a man’s enthusiasm disappears, he takes the initiative to withdraw it.

Various signs indicate that he is indifferent to you and has even betrayed love.

From this point on, women will wake up. The fate between two people has actually been exhausted. The result of continuing to struggle will only consume your energy and time, and will also make you scarred.

Being entangled with a man who doesn't love you will only make you lose more.

If it is determined that the man has changed his mind, the best way to deal with it is to stop the loss in time.

A woman can only get out faster by being cruel, deleting the other person's contact information, no longer seeing the other person, and maintaining a state of disconnection from now on.

05

Be ruthless and learn to manage yourself.

It is actually a common phenomenon for people to get together and disperse.

We all hope that when the destined people meet, they will not only have the feeling of regretting meeting each other, but also hope that after joining hands, they will go from black hair to white hair.

It seems that only in this way can love be complete.

But love is never the result of one person's management, but the result of two people working together.

If a man is really not suitable for you, just let him go.

Before true love comes, you might as well be cruel to yourself, calm down, find your personal strengths and direction, and work hard to manage your life well.

When your life becomes fulfilling. What else would make you worried?

You must know that when you are busy, you really have no time to take care of those unimportant things. When you become good enough, you will be worthy of any love.

If I love you, a man will take the initiative to protect you.

If one day, a man changes his heart, his love will be withdrawn.

In fact, it is easy for girls to detect it based on their intuition. Faced with a man's betrayal, girls will inevitably become angry and distressed, and they will also worry about gains and losses.

When facts prove that a fate does not belong to you, if you continue to struggle with it, you are just asking for trouble.

No matter when, women should not complain.

A truly smart girl will keep a confident smile and manage her emotional life well with an elegant posture. And such a woman will also use her wisdom to become a lover in a man's mind who is worth guarding for a lifetime.

Author: Zhou Qiaofu, an emotional cultivator with attitude. Write about the warmth of the world, read heart-warming stories, and thank you for accompanying me all the way. I hope that the years will be peaceful and the clouds will be calm and the wind will be gentle. When you and I meet in a text, we can express our true feelings.