Text/Xia Mo 01. Preface: In this life, people will interact with many people. Some people accompany us for a long time, while others only stay for a short time and then never see us again. The fairy tale picture book "Ali: Forever Station" writes: "In this life, a person will mee

Text/Xia Mo

01, Preface

In this life, people will interact with many people. Some people accompany us for a long time, while others only stay for a short time and then never see us again.

The fairy tale picture book " Ali·Forever Station " writes: "In this life, a person will meet 8263563 people, 39778 people will be able to say hello, 3619 people will be familiar with, and 275 people will be close, but in the end, they will all Lost in the sea of ​​people. "

When people get along with each other, they have different feelings because of their different positions and values.

Some people resonate with your soul, and at that moment there is a feeling of regret for meeting you too late; some people have different views from you, and no matter what they say, they are like chickens and ducks talking, constantly causing conflicts and contradictions. .

Those who appreciate you will always bring you warmth and encouragement; while those who look down on you will always bring you blow and pain. In fact, none of us can become friends with everyone we meet on the road of life.

When you encounter someone who looks down on you, you can actually make a break and stay away as early as possible.

You can tell whether a person thinks highly of you. Because if someone looks down on you, there will definitely be several hints in his words and deeds.

02. People who look down on you speak with disdain.

Whether a person looks down on you or not can be seen from his words.

When a person looks down on you from the bottom of his heart, he will always speak with disdain and thorns in his words.

He Shen in "Prime Minister Liu Luoguo" is a popular figure in front of the emperor. Even though Liu Yong has learned a lot and has real abilities, He Shen looks down on him and always likes to laugh at him.

He Shen deliberately removed stirrups when Liu Yong was mounting, to embarrass him. He just wanted everyone to laugh at him and feel happy.

Above the court, he even encouraged the emperor to make a fuss about his appearance, hoping to make him more embarrassed.

When a person looks down on others, he will be in trouble everywhere. When getting along with him, there is no sincerity, and his words are always sarcastic and negative, which makes him uncomfortable.

Regardless of whether the other person is outstanding in other areas, he always clings to his shortcomings and laughs at him in every possible way.

People who look down on you will always express contempt and ridicule towards you when talking to you. They like to say negative things about you and often trample on your dignity without caring about your feelings.

People who look down on you are accustomed to holding on to other people's shortcomings, attacking them, and seeking pleasure in doing so, basing their own happiness on their pain.

03. People who look down on you will always deny you.

If a person looks down on you, then he will not take you to heart. Whatever you do is wrong. No matter how hard you try, he will not be satisfied.

When you get along with someone who looks down on you, he is not afraid of your embarrassment and sadness. In fact, he often feels that you are inferior to him and not worthy of standing side by side with him.

Therefore, when getting along with you, I often don't take you seriously, let alone acknowledge your importance in the team.

People who look down on you will marginalize you and make you feel inferior and feel that your status will always be much lower than him. It seems that everything is right for him, and you must implement it according to his ideas.

Even when getting along with you, people who look down on you will always habitually deny your suggestions and ideas. No matter right or wrong, it will always create difficulties for you and make your life full of more ups and downs and sufferings.

When getting along with others, if you find a person who always looks down on you and always negates you, there is no need to have a close relationship with him.

If there are people around you who look down on you, don’t take it too seriously. It’s best to stay away from them. Don't be influenced by people who look down on you, just do your own thing for a long time.

04. People who look down on you ignore your achievements.

People who look down on you do not want you to live well from the bottom of their hearts.

Even if you succeed, others will only say that you are lucky.

The Law of Jealousy: "A person will often not be jealous of a stranger's success, but he will be envious and jealous of the familiar people around him who are better off than himself."

Human nature often has many weaknesses. If he looks down on you, no matter how great you are, Achievements became a very small thing in his mouth, nothing to show off.

People who look down on you will often attribute your success to luck, environment and opportunities, but they will not face up to your excellent qualities or acknowledge your shining points.

People who look down on you do not accept you from the bottom of their hearts and do not want you to live better than him.

Therefore, anyone who sees you living a better life than him and who looks down on you will say something sarcastic, sarcastic, or even offensive to you.

On the road of life, those who look down on you will never be able to sincerely bless you, appreciate you, and accept you.

05. Summary

On the road of life, you don’t have to be friends with everyone in the world. If you encounter people who look down on you, please stay away as soon as possible.

Liu Yu wrote in " Give You a Bullet": "Some people are destined to be cancer in your life, while some people are just a sneeze."

People live a lifetime, and everyone is precious . You don’t have to please everyone around you, and don’t be disturbed by the malicious words and looks expressed by those who look down on you.

For the rest of my life, it is enough to stick to yourself and work hard to live your own life.

Not everyone in this world stands in the sunshine, there are still many people with dark hearts. If you meet someone who looks down on you, don't pay attention to them and stay away from such people.

strives to improve itself and manage itself well. As your abilities become stronger, you will have the opportunity to meet more people with great ambitions and excellent character.

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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional mentor, a psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer with over 1 billion people on the Internet, and a manager of happy women. He has focused on emotions, gender, and answering questions about mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.