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People often say that being young and beautiful is a woman’s greatest asset. Although this sentence is not entirely correct, beauty is indeed an indisputable advantage.
But in real life, young and beautiful ordinary women did not cross class because of their beauty. On the contrary, they all ended up marrying ordinary people.
As for the reason for this, a friend gave me the best answer.
He said: "People are divided into groups, and birds of a feather flock together. Ordinary women live in ordinary circles, and they have no way to meet high-quality men. What's more, women who are nothing but young and beautiful cannot catch the eyes of high-quality men, because in middle- and high-level circles The most indispensable thing in life is beautiful women. "
The reason why ordinary women cannot marry high-quality men is due to two reasons: on the one hand, they do not have access to high-quality men; on the other hand, their own conditions are too poor and they do not have the capital to be selected.
If the problem can be solved from the root, it will naturally not be difficult to marry a high-quality man.
Improve yourself
No one is born excellent, and a person's excellence must be indispensable for the hard work behind it.
Women don’t have to be particularly good, but they can’t be useless either, so it’s very necessary to improve themselves appropriately.
1. Improve the image
Women with good image tend to give people a better impression, and the first impression can usually determine the next story. Improving the image is equivalent to improving opportunities.
(1), Dressing
On the surface, it seems that all girls can dress well, but if you look closely, you will find that the gap between their clothing is quite large.
Some people dress like ladies, like goddesses, like intellectual women, but some people always give people the feeling of a nightclub.
This is the gap between people.
Put more effort into dressing up to make your image more sophisticated.
(2), Temperament
Men are easily attracted to beautiful women with temperament. This is the soul charm exuded by a woman.
A person's temperament comes from the inside out. You can improve your inner temperament to achieve the effect of improving your temperament.
2. Improvement of cultural literacy
If you want to match with high-quality men, your cultural literacy cannot be too low, otherwise you will not be able to understand what others say, and they will look down on you from the bottom of their hearts, so it is important to improve your cultural literacy.
(1). Improvement of academic qualifications
If you were born in a rural area and are currently attending college, please seize the opportunity and work hard to improve your academic qualifications. The school where
works usually works hard to take the postgraduate entrance exams to fundamentally improve their knowledge and talents.
Mid-level and high-level men attach great importance to women’s academic qualifications. Don’t be led astray by the words of some men on the Internet.
Only men at the bottom don’t care about women’s academic qualifications, because they themselves have no academic qualifications. They are even afraid that women’s academic qualifications are too high and they will look down on them.
(2), self-study
If you have already started working and your academic qualifications are a foregone conclusion, you can improve your cultural literacy through self-study.
Read more literature and history books, they will make you smarter and more eloquent.
And these are simply fatal attractions for high-quality men.
3. Improvement of economic ability
Never believe the story of the prince and Cinderella. This kind of thing will only happen in TV series. In real life, a man with superior conditions will consider the financial condition of the woman, unless he is a bad old man.
Improve your work ability, make progress in your career, and achieve a qualitative leap in income.
If conditions permit, you can buy yourself a small house.
A woman can achieve such financial capabilities, and coupled with the previous advantages, it is already very good.
Mastering the Ways
Once you have the capital to be favored by high-quality men, you must master the ways to get to know high-quality men. Only when you have contact will the next story come out.
One of the ways: Entrepreneurship field
If you like men with strong ambitions, you can join circles in major entrepreneurial fields.
Now is the Internet age, these types of men usually play video APPs, and you can find them as long as you search for relevant keywords in it.
must find a group with high fans and positive comments, and then join their entrepreneurial group to build themselves into a person similar to them. The men in
either want to start a business, or are already starting a business and looking for ways to transform. Most of these people are relatively motivated and have good economic conditions.
As for what kind of goal to choose, you have to make your own judgment. Remember, you must understand it clearly before you start, so as not to be deceived by fake rich and handsome people.
The second way: private gymnasium
If you like men who play sunny sports, you can search for more private gyms, such as private basketball gyms.
Then introduce your brothers inside and let them work as undercover agents. After they get familiar with the people inside, they will know who is more reliable and whose conditions are more suitable for you.
When you have brothers as foreign aid, it will be relatively easier for you to get to know them.
Path Three: Niche Sports
Many niche sports are enjoyed by wealthy people, such as skiing.
Without certain economic conditions, it is impossible to support such a hobby.
If you want to get to know this group, you must first join it.
Show Advantages
Ordinary women should not be too excited when seeing a high-quality man, let alone be too proactive.
Although men may not reject an active woman, they will feel that this kind of behavior is cheaper.
Men have a very strange psychology: they are more willing to cherish the women they pursue than the girls who come to their door.
Therefore, women must remain calm, abandon initiative, and turn to attraction.
Show off your strengths appropriately and use your charm to attract them instead of taking the initiative to strike up a conversation.
Beauty and temperament, talent and conversation, and independent ability are all attractive advantages of a woman.
When you have access to high-quality men and you have these advantages, most men will take the initiative to approach you.
is written at the end
There is no free lunch in the world, and there will never be pie in the sky. If a person wants to get something, he must make corresponding efforts.
For ordinary women who want to marry a high-quality man, it is not enough to be young and beautiful. In order to achieve the goal, you must make a lot of efforts.
These methods are for your reference only. Whether they can be successful depends on their own luck.
But there is one thing that everyone must be aware of. If you want to get into the circle of rich people, you will have to spend a lot of money. You can think of this as investment, but investment is risky.
For ordinary women, the risk of investment failure may be very high, because most high-quality men have a very good family of origin, and your family of origin is a weakness that you cannot change in your life.
Even if a man doesn't mind, his parents will. After all, marriage is all about being of the same family.
Therefore, don’t try it easily.
A beautiful marriage depends on the person you marry, not the conditions. As long as you can find a man who truly loves you, even if your life is dull, it will be a rare happiness.
I am Yinger, an original author focusing on the emotional field.
