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"The Story of Hulan River": "You say my life is a pity, but I don't care. You look very dangerous, but I feel proud of myself."
Just like when a person drinks water, he knows whether it is warm or cold. Many things cannot be seen by others. is different from what we feel.
Even if something seems dangerous to others, for me, it may be a very simple thing. The story of
reader Xiao Luo (pseudonym) illustrates all this very well.
01
In order to buy a house for her younger brother, her family borrowed 150,000 from her husband.
Regarding marriage, Ronaldinho has always followed her heart. She just listened to what others said and didn't pay too much attention.
When people around her said to her: "That man is richer than you, are you sure that after you marry, you will not be inferior to others because of money."
Ronaldinho smiled and said cheerfully: "I'm sure ! I believe he is not that kind of person. "
Two years later, the result was just as she expected. Her husband took good care of her and did not let her suffer any injustice.
Especially when it came to buying a house for her younger brother, when her mother found her, she was actually quite helpless because she didn't have much money on hand.
Unexpectedly, the husband took out a bank card with 150,000 yuan in it without saying anything and handed it to Ronaldinho's mother.
Ronaldinho's parents did not favor boys over girls, and she was not a Voldemort. She was just related by blood, so she helped as much as possible.
However, she was quite shocked that her husband was willing to spend 150,000. Normally, her husband was not a person willing to spend money.
But this incident soon reached the ears of my mother-in-law, causing a commotion.
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"Let your mother-in-law pay back the money, otherwise I will let my son divorce you."
That day, the mother-in-law came to Ronaldinho's house with chicken soup and a smile on her face. Seeing her bottomless smile, Ronaldinho understood: Mother-in-law The person who delivered the chicken soup was obviously here to settle a score with her!
However, the mother-in-law was quite tolerant. After lunch and her husband went to work, the mother-in-law put on airs. First, she asked Xiao Luo to bring tea and water, and then after Xiao Luo had cleaned up the house, she treated her like this. A bunch of curses.
After scolding him, he finally got to the point. His mother-in-law said: "Let your mother pay back the money, otherwise I will let my son divorce you!"
Ronaldinho has long thought that sooner or later, this matter will be spread to his mother-in-law. , so she answered without thinking: "Just leave, who is afraid of whom!"
In fact, the matter of 150,000 yuan is not a big deal or a small matter, but no matter what, the marriage between Ronaldinho and her husband has never been a matter of concern to her mother-in-law. Neither agreed.
It was just that Ronaldinho and her husband later made a trick, so that the mother-in-law had to admit that Ronaldinho was his daughter-in-law, so this also led to the mother-in-law always holding a grudge against Ronaldinho, thinking that she was a poisonous woman.
Whenever her mother-in-law catches something against her, her mother-in-law will use it to threaten her. But in the past, it was all small things, like a broken bowl, not being filial to her mother-in-law, etc. This time it is about money. I don’t know what to do. Can this be solved properly?
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The confidence that she is not afraid of divorce comes from the mutual trust between husband and wife
After hearing Ronaldinho's answer, the mother-in-law was still as stubborn as before, so she left. Previous experience told her that she would not quarrel with her daughter-in-law. What a good outcome.
But the mother-in-law couldn't swallow this breath after all, so she went to find her son and told him the whole thing. Unexpectedly, the son said:
"Mom, please stop meddling in our affairs. I lent the 150,000 yuan willingly, and it’s not like they won’t pay it back. My wife is the guarantor, so I’m afraid they might run away!”
When faced with her son’s words, the mother-in-law was speechless. From then on, The mother-in-law rarely cares about the young couple's affairs.
Someone later asked Ronaldinho: "Aren't you afraid that your husband will really divorce you? You talked to your mother-in-law so boldly."
Ronaldinho said with a smile: "Because he and I trust each other, these things are just It is a stepping stone in the growth process of me and him. It is not an obstacle and will never affect the relationship between the two of us."
Xiaonuo has something to say
Whether there is trust between husband and wife can be solved through some trivial daily issues. Can know clearly.
Trust is like a boat that can lead the other person to the other side of their ideals and gain the joy of life.
But if there is no trust between husband and wife, then when faced with borrowing money like this, there is no guarantee of the outcome.
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