There is a popular word on the Internet now, that is Voldemort. Voldemort was originally "Voldemort", a character in the anime, and later evolved into Voldemort through homophonic memes.
As the name suggests, Fu Di Mo refers to a sister who unprincipledly subsidizes her younger brother for the sake of the so-called sibling relationship, regardless of her own family relationship.
In reality, the existence of Fu Di Mo has caused headaches to many families, and they cannot be stopped. , which has seriously affected the harmony of the family. What we are going to talk about today is such a case of supporting a younger brother.
The wife secretly sold off the only property in the family just to pay off her brother's gambling debt of 700,000. In the end, the husband couldn't bear it anymore and broke down and filed for divorce. What exactly happened?
Brainlessly helping younger brothers
Jin’s wife Hai is a typical devil of helping younger brothers. Hai’s natal family has a total of four children, including three daughters and one son. The younger brother is the youngest in the family and has been doted on by his parents since he was a child. , Hai Mou’s parents had the idea of valuing boys over girls. When he was a child, everything in the family was closely related to his younger brothers. After the younger brothers were used up, he could only get the turn of his three older sisters.
The thoughts that the parents instilled in the three daughters were to support their younger brothers, and when they grow up, they have to help their younger brothers. The three daughters were brainwashed by their parents. They did not feel that what their parents said was wrong at all. They have been doing this since they were young. He willingly supports his younger brother.
Even after getting married, he had to use his husband's money to support his younger brother. Even though his younger brother has grown up, he is still asking for money from his older sister. He idles around all day and has no income at all from work. He is either in an Internet cafe or sleeping at home all day long. I feel like a complete social worm.
The three Hai sisters have also been helping their younger brother. They put every last bit of money into his brother's pocket. Even half of his own salary was subsidized to his younger brother, leaving nothing for his own family. Jin was very dissatisfied with this. He had to bear the family mortgage and his daughter's tuition fees himself, so forget it. But who knew that his wife actually used the 20,000 yuan she had saved so hard to subsidize her natal brother.
This made the life of Kim’s family even more difficult. He was working hard outside, but his wife turned around and gave the money to her brother-in-law as a subsidy. This has been the case for so many years. Kim was already complaining in his heart, and My wife said many times that she didn't listen. Instead, she blamed herself for completely ignoring family relationships.
Considering that he and his wife had a well-behaved and lovely daughter, Kim swallowed his breath and managed to survive for so many years. He didn't know how his two brothers-in-law could endure it.
Pay off 700,000 gambling debts for his brother
But what really made Kim couldn't stand it was what his wife did next, which really violated his bottom line. The cause of the matter was that his wife's brother owed 700,000 yuan for gambling outside. The idle brother had no ability to repay the gambling debt, and his parents were also worried. The brother directly called his three sisters for help.
However, the family situation of the three Hai sisters is also very ordinary. Every family has its own difficulties, but Hai is still obliged to pay off the gambling debts for her younger brother, even though her family has no ability at all.
In order to pay off her brother's gambling debt, she mortgaged the house she bought with a loan for 300,000 yuan, and did not inform her husband Jin Mousheng at all. Hai Mou, who spent 300,000 yuan on her brother, still felt that she had helped She didn't have enough, and she sold off all the large and small items in her home, leaving very little left.
When the husband Jin learned about the situation, he couldn't believe that his wife was so heartless. In order to subsidize her brother-in-law, she even ignored her own family. They couldn't even afford their daughter's school fees. The furious Kim couldn't stand such a wife anymore, so he filed for divorce directly with the court.
The wife only sees her younger brother, and has no place for herself and her daughter. If this continues, she and her daughter will probably be harmed by her in the future. Wife Hai feels aggrieved that her husband wants to sue for divorce, but she does not feel What did she do wrong? Helping her younger brother like this is what a sister should do. She also felt that what she did was not good enough because her two sisters even subsidized more.
And the husband wanted a divorce just because he helped his younger brother. It was simply too impersonal. He had taken care of her husband and daughter for so many years, and it was simply too cold to divorce her at the drop of a hat.
Editor's opinion
Hai's thoughts cannot be changed for a while, because she is also poisoned by the thought of favoring boys over girls. There is no problem with relatives helping each other, but the key is that Hai did not grasp the right balance and was unclear about priorities, which hurt his family and children. In the end, he suffered the consequences and divorced his husband.
