What should I do if I meet a better person after falling in love?
In fact, only emotionally naive people will think about this issue.
Because you are naive, you will think that no matter how good this person is, the next person will be better, with better appearance, better figure, better economic conditions, better background, etc.
But after changing a few partners, you will find that the comparison is endless. You will always meet "better" people, and your heart will always be floating.
What you love is not anyone, you just love yourself, you are always thinking about your own gains and losses, and you are always weighing the pros and cons in love.
It is obviously because you are naive and selfish, but you use "met a better person" as an excuse to hurt the person who loves you deeply and choose a "new love".
However, you have to know that the novelty will expire, and the relationship will become dull due to time and the triviality of life.
The two people can reach the end not by freshness, but by mutual understanding, mutual respect, responsibility and responsibility.
You know, there is no such thing as better, it just loses the freshness.
Maybe your partner also encountered this problem and met a better person, but he chose you without hesitation.
There will always be someone better, and the best is right now. Heartbeat is not the answer, but concentration is.
Why would people be interested in better people?
Maybe it's because you and your partner have been together for a long time, and the two of you are becoming more and more familiar with each other. When two people are together, they can understand each other's meaning with just a look, without speaking.
Maybe you feel that living like this makes you feel that life has lost its passion, and that your life has become dull.
But true love starts from returning to ordinary.
You stay together 24 hours a day, and there is no reservation between the two of you. The two of you become more and more familiar and understand each other better and better.
It’s because you have participated in each other’s daily life and planned your future life together; and the so-called “better person” in your mouth has just been met, and you only know the side he shows you.
In fact, the so-called single-mindedness does not mean that you have to resist the temptation and suppress the raging desires before making a difficult choice.
Just before the temptation and desire come, I have already habitually said "no".
A dedicated person will say that he is lazy, too lazy to start from scratch, to get to know a stranger, too lazy to adapt to a new way of getting along, and too lazy to spend time with the other person. Go through a long grind again.
But I think it’s not laziness, it’s just knowing that there is no comparative degree in relationships. There will always be only better strangers, but no better partner.
Because only your other half is visible to you 24 hours a day. In your real life, only your other half needs to discuss with you who will wash the clothes tonight and who will cook tomorrow’s meal. Furthermore, only your other half needs to be responsible for you, even in the middle of the night. Take care of you when you are sick.
And the person you think is better may just not touch the most trivial, embarrassing and abject parts of life with you.
Therefore, such a comparison is neither fair nor meaningful.
Falling in love, actually choosing who to be with is like going to the beach to pick up shells. I know that there will definitely be a more beautiful and beautiful one on this vast seaside.
But human life is so short, I have already picked up the unique one that belongs to me.
I have already picked up my favorite shell on the beach, so I will not go to the beach again.
Then, leave the rest to others.
There are many better people in the world, but the talent in front of you is the best.
In relationships, don’t be too greedy, don’t want everything, be content with what you have.
As long as we are together, we must be wholehearted. This is the most basic thing that both parties must do. It is the principle and the bottom line.
Feelings cannot be compared, otherwise they will deteriorate.
Most of those partners who join hands for life are not because they have found a perfect partner, but because they have gone through time and tempered the initial passion into a solid love bit by bit!
Please cherish the people in front of you!
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