Introduction: Being a nanny is indeed a good choice, because now being a nanny is very profitable, and the remuneration is also very good, and the nanny profession is also very popular now, so many people choose to do it, because after doing it, not only can they earn Money can s

Introduction

Being a nanny is indeed a good choice, because it is very profitable to be a nanny now, and the remuneration is also very good, and the nanny profession is also very popular now, so many people choose to do it, because after doing it, not only It can make money to support the family, and it can also allow the family to live a life without worries about food and clothing.

Also, if the employer treats the nanny well, then many nannies will work hard and take good care of the employer. Therefore, as long as the employer knows how to respect the nanny, the nanny will give sincerely.

A 61-year-old female nanny has taken care of her 85-year-old employer for 25 years. When the nanny was leaving, she was stopped by the employer's son: "My father made an explanation during his lifetime."

What is going on? Lets come look.

61-year-old Sister Chen

I am 61 years old this year. My surname is Chen. I chose to divorce my ex-husband 26 years ago. The divorce was because my ex-husband betrayed me. I was very angry when I found out because I didn’t expect that. The man who promised to love me forever changed his mind after he got money, and I heard he had a son outside.

In order to prevent myself from being hurt again, I directly chose to divorce. Since I found no evidence that he had betrayed the marriage at that time, he did not give me any property, but asked me to leave the house.

Although I was very unhappy at the time, I was willing to leave this scumbag and leave the house. After the divorce, I thought he would raise me and his two children, but he didn’t want any of them and let me take them all away. , because he already has a son outside, so he doesn't want to raise so many more and wants to put more pressure on himself.

Faced with such a cruel man, I was very speechless and regretted my choice to marry him. When he had nothing, I married him despite my parents’ objection. At that time, he was also very moved and said that I is a very good woman.

But he doesn’t know how to be grateful at all. After he got rich, he abandoned me, a poor wife. I am really disappointed with him.

After I got divorced, in order to support my two children, I had no choice but to go back to work. Unfortunately, I was uneducated. I couldn’t find a good job at all. I could only wash dishes for others in a restaurant every day. Later, I became a After working for a year, I really couldn't stand such a low salary, because it was simply not enough to support my two children, so I decided to change to a job with a higher salary.

Later, I also chose to be a nanny. At that time, I was working for a 60-year-old employer. He hired a nanny because his wife passed away, so there was no one to take care of him, and there was no one to wash and cook for him. If I can spend my old age with peace of mind, I choose to spend 4,000 yuan to hire a nanny.

At that time, he also went to the housekeeping company many times to choose a nanny, but he was not satisfied every time. Until he met me later, he decisively asked me to stay as his nanny because he thought I was very simple and looked special. He is so virtuous, if he can ask me to go back and serve him, then he will definitely be able to spend his old age with peace of mind.

When he asked me to be his nanny, I immediately agreed. Since then, I have also been a live-in nanny. When I was a nanny, I was very careful every day and served my employer very well. The employer was also very special. He is satisfied with me and respects me, so I am very happy.

Later, I did this for 25 years. At that time, everyone around me admired me. I didn’t expect that I would do this for so many years without changing employers. At that time, some people also suspected that I was You are your employer's lover, or your wife, otherwise how could you last so long?

In fact, it is not the case. I have had an employment relationship with my employer for so many years. I have been able to persist for so long because my employer has always respected me and treated me as a relative. Also, my salary has been increased every year. His salary continued to increase to more than 10,000. He is a very wealthy old man, so he never had to worry about not being able to pay him. Moreover, even if he could not afford it, his children would help because of his The child is very capable, so he lives a good life.

Taking care of my employer Over the years, my employer has never treated me as an outsider. He has always treated me like a family member. He will let me eat at the table together when he eats, and he will take me with him to any gatherings. He did this not because he liked me, but because he felt it was too boring to do these things alone, so he wanted to have someone to accompany him, so that he would feel safer.

During the Chinese New Year and holidays, he would also buy me some gifts for me to take back to my children. If I had to take leave for something, he would approve it for me and would not deduct my salary after approval, so This employer is really good.

If he wasn't so much older than me, maybe I would want to be with him, but even if we are similar in age, I don't have the courage to be with him, because I am not worthy of him, and we will be together. Being criticized by others, so in order to avoid these unnecessary troubles, I will not confess to him. I will always stay with him as a nanny and take care of him until he grows old. Although there is no need to take care of him in his old age, he treats me so well and pays me such a high salary, so I really can't bear to resign.

Because my employer is easy to talk to and easy to get along with, I will always take care of him when he is sick. Moreover, he does not ask for a salary increase, but takes care of him voluntarily. I feel that he has already given me a lot of salary. So I am not qualified to ask him for a salary increase, and serving him is what I should do.

Later, as time went by, my employer became older and older and became paralyzed. After my employer became paralyzed, I did not choose to resign, but continued to serve him. Although it is hard to serve a paralyzed old man, I There will be no complaints and you will pay silently.

Because I am so attentive to this employer, the employer is also very grateful to me and often praises me, saying that I am the best nanny in the world.

Later, my employer who served me also passed away. After my employer passed away, I was very sad because I had long treated him as my father, so we also had a relationship with each other. I was in the hospital when he passed away. Tears were shed silently in the corner.

When my employer’s son saw how sad I was, he kept comforting me and telling me not to be so sad. After all, life is a cycle of old age, illness and death, and there is no use being sad. After the employer’s son comforted me, I didn’t feel so sad anymore. .

Later, after I took care of my employer's funeral affairs, I packed up my things and prepared to leave my employer's house. After all, I had completed my tasks and was getting older, so it was time to leave.

As a result, at this moment, my employer's son stopped me: "Aunt Chen, wait a moment. I'm going to tell you something. My father told you something during his lifetime."

I was very curious at the time, and then I asked what it was. ?

The employer’s son said: “You can continue to live in this house because my father has secretly transferred this house to you. He made an agreement with us before his death. If he dies one day, you will inherit it. There are 300,000 yuan in his property and this bank card. This 300,000 yuan is used as a thank you for your service for so many years. I know that I may not accept these things, but you deserve it, so you Don’t refuse me.”

I was so moved that I burst into tears because I didn’t expect my employer to do this. I didn’t want it because I’m not the kind of person who loves money, but he forced it on me because of my son. , and finally I had to accept it.

After I accepted it, the employer's son said: "In the future, if you need support in your old age, come to me. I am willing to provide for you in your old age. Although you are not my mother, I have long regarded you as my mother. If it weren't for you After taking care of my dad all these years, maybe my dad will not live that long, let alone live so happily. It is you who made him smile again, so no matter what happens to you in the future, I will help you. "

Later, we became a family and I lived a good life from then on.

Conclusion

People are all caring. As long as you give your sincerity, others will treat you sincerely, so sincerity is the most important thing between people.