The so-called relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is originally a by-product of marriage. How is it possible for two mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, who have only interests but no direct relationship, to coexist peacefully in the same home for a long time an

The so-called relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is originally a by-product of marriage. How is it possible for two mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, who have only interests but no direct relationship, to coexist peacefully in the same home for a long time and achieve a harmonious relationship?

Since the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law cannot reach the point of perfect harmony, then one must exchange sincerity for sincerity, otherwise the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will always be at war with each other, and no one can be as close as mother and daughter.

In the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the mother-in-law has nothing to pursue and the daughter-in-law has nothing to ask for. Only then can the two people coexist peacefully and live in peace. Once the mother-in-law has something to do and the daughter-in-law wants something, the balance between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be completely broken.

01. The difference between daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law buying a house is 100,000.

Because Zhongya insisted on marrying a husband who was not from the right family, her parents were furious and took back her dowry house and kept the dowry, leaving Zhongya to marry alone. Husband.

Although Zhong Ya was a little angry, she could understand her parents' good intentions. It's just that she is obsessed with love at the moment, and she is not willing to give in to her parents, let alone compromise for the sake of the house and materials, and deny her original choice.

Therefore, even though Zhong Ya and her husband have been married for three years, they still rent a house. Zhong Ya is unwilling to compromise with her parents, nor is she willing to ask them for help. Her husband's family's conditions are very average, and it is difficult for them to come up with a down payment for a house.

Fortunately, the couple worked hard, lived frugally, and saved money to buy a house. In the fifth year of marriage, Zhong Ya and her husband had saved a large amount of money, but there was still a gap of 100,000 yuan before the down payment.

My mother-in-law, who had always stood by and watched, learned the news and directly sent 50,000 yuan. She also said that the money was given, not borrowed, and did not need to be paid back. For a moment, Zhong Ya felt very flattered by her mother-in-law's kindness.

02. The mother-in-law’s gift of 50,000 yuan was rejected.

Just before the mother-in-law handed over the bank card, she made a request, that is, when the brother-in-law gets married, a room must be reserved for him in this house. 50,000 yuan, in exchange for a room, is a really good calculation.

Seeing that Zhong Ya was silent, her mother-in-law spoke again: "You have high education, high salary, and good conditions. In addition, Zhong Ya is the only daughter in the family, and her parents have several apartments in their names. As long as Zhong Ya is willing to bow down to her parents and recognize her, Wrong, are you still short of housing?

What her mother-in-law said was probably what she was thinking, and she had wanted to say it out for a long time, but she never found the chance. What's the point of doing it? You might as well lower your attitude, admit your mistake and apologize, your parents will definitely forgive you.

Zhong Ya didn't say anything, but looked directly at her husband, who nodded, obviously recognizing his mother. Watching this scene, Zhong Ya felt it was ridiculous. Wasn't it because of this man that she refused to admit her mistake? But now this man is forcing you to admit her mistake.

Zhong Ya didn't want to ask for help. Parents, let them see the real qualities of their husband, instead of just talking about it. But now it seems that Zhong Ya's concerns are not wrong at all, even if she is short of money again. , Daughter-in-law: I don’t want to get free money in vain.

Zhong Ya refused to accept 50,000 yuan, which was beyond everyone’s expectation. After all, with 50,000 yuan, buying a house is one step closer, and there is no need to squeeze into a small rental. Living in the house.

Zhong Ya ignored her mother-in-law’s surprise and told them directly: I don’t want to buy a house by myself and get my brother-in-law’s advantage in vain. In the name of giving us 50,000 yuan, her mother-in-law thought of occupying the house. There is no door.

Zhong Ya not only confiscated the money, but also threw 50,000 yuan on the ground to tell her mother-in-law to stop dreaming about getting two daughters-in-law back.

Zhong Ya’s parents were really embarrassed. After learning about her daughter's predicament, she also came to her door and offered to help, but the strong-willed Zhong Ya refused.The reason why she didn't want to ask her parents for help was simply due to her vanity. At first, her parents looked down upon their marriage, but she insisted on making a career through her own efforts.

But now it seems that without the help of her parents, Zhong Ya can be stumped by even a penny. Zhong Ya is still too confident in herself. But she didn't compromise, and she didn't let her parents laugh. I would rather borrow money from a friend to buy a house than accept 50,000 yuan from my mother-in-law. Who knows if there are any other traps and calculations for this 50,000 yuan?

Today’s topic:

Do you support Zhong Ya dying to save face and suffer the consequences?