Hello everyone, I am Xiao Luer, a post-95s generation who focuses on personal growth and self-media writing. Click [Follow] above to make progress together.
We usually meet two kinds of people in our lives.
One is that they are optimistic and positive every day, full of energy, and you can hear their laughter all day long, which makes people think that these people have no worries at all and are happy every day. In fact, it is not that they have no worries, but that they have a positive heart to face life, and they live optimistically and freely.
The other kind of people are worried all day long, always showing a worried look. It is rare to see them happy, they have no confidence in anything, and they are always downcast. Such people live very negatively and have no hope for life.
Rao Xueman once said: Remember what should be remembered, forget what should be forgotten, change what can be changed, and accept what cannot be changed. With a correct mentality, we can become optimistic, and naturally our lives will be better.
Today Xiaoluer summarized 10 tips for a person to live a more positive life. If it can help everyone, remember to share it and collect it. Let us face life positively together.
01. Give yourself more positive hints
Give yourself more positive hints and maintain an optimistic attitude; encourage yourself more, such as "Come on, I can, I can do it, I can surpass" and other words.
Say a few words of positive energy to yourself every day, or write a few words of encouragement to yourself where you can see it at any time. Positive energy is everywhere and you can motivate yourself every day.
Psychologists have also suggested that in order to make ourselves happy, healthy and wealthy, we need to repeatedly say affirmative words and give ourselves positive and positive hints.
02. Open-mindedness and open-mindedness
What people fear most is that the longer they live, the smaller they become, the more they live, the more they complain, the more they live, the more unhappy they become, and they become careless; only when you are open-minded, will the world become bigger. Don’t twist things, don’t get entangled, open up the situation, don’t be a frog in the well.
03. Find a role model.
Find a role model that you admire more and can achieve through your own efforts. Ask them for advice and learn from them. Learn their positive attitude towards life, outlook on life, values and world view.
04. Record your changes every time you are positive.
Record your changes every time you are positive. You will continue to find that you are making progress, thereby gaining a sense of accomplishment, which can help improve your self-confidence.
05. Cultivate your own interests and hobbies
Cultivate your own interests and hobbies and experience life more. Happiness comes from life. If you do more things that interest you, you will gain more happiness.
06. Learn to dress yourself
Everyone likes to appreciate beautiful things, and when they see beautiful things, they want to take a second look. Learning to dress yourself up is also a way to please yourself. When you see your beautiful self through the mirror, you will feel happy.
07. Keep learning
Only by learning more can our vision and cognition be broadened. The more things we learn, the better our mentality will naturally be.
08. Stay curious about new things
Einstein once said: "I have no special genius, only a strong curiosity. Those who are always hungry are those who are always making progress." has a curious heart about everything. It can help us constantly explore our own unknown areas and feel the vastness of the world.
09. Stay close to optimistic and positive people and stay away from pessimists
A person’s emotions are contagious. In a pessimistic environment, we will only become more and more negative; but in an optimistic and positive environment, we will become more and more negative. It will only become more positive and more motivated.
10. Record the beautiful things in life
Discovering beauty and recording beauty will also make us feel better.When we see a beautiful flower or a beautiful scenery, we can all take a photo. Beautiful things are what everyone yearns for and pursues.
Looking forward, we can live more broadly, live more firmly, and look at the world from a positive perspective. The more we look at it, the more positive it becomes. We believe that the more positive we are, the luckier we will be. [Struggle]
Author introduction:
A post-95s generation who focuses on self-media writing and personal improvement is working hard to change himself through writing. In the future, he hopes to live a free life through writing. I hope to meet like-minded people like you on the way of writing.
