Although it is said that brothers and sisters should help each other. But sometimes you can't go too far, just like the man in the article. Have you thought about the consequences of doing this? It's not that your wife doesn't love you anymore, it's that you don't have this famil

Although it is said that brothers and sisters should help each other. But sometimes you can't go too far, just like the man in the article. Have you thought about the consequences of doing this? It's not that your wife doesn't love you anymore, it's that you don't have this family without your wife in your heart. The only thing you have in your heart is your brother. Otherwise, your wife will not divorce you.

hopes that through this case, all men will pay attention. You can help your brother, but you must be beautiful, and if I love you, you must know how to measure it, do you understand? Don't let such a tragedy happen again. Let's take a look at this matter together. The husband wants to give the house to his brother for marriage. Husband: one family, I: the house belongs to me, divorce.

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34-year-old Ms. Li:

Many people say that I should not choose divorce. Everyone said I was impulsive and they said I was wrong, especially my mother. Others can say whatever they like, after all, they are outsiders, but my mother also said that I was wrong, and I couldn’t figure it out. Am I really wrong?

My mother told me, it’s not your fault, is it my fault? You must be wrong. The first is already 34 years old. To put it bluntly, can you still marry again at your age? If you can't get married in the future, do you have to live alone? It will be very miserable if you live alone, not to mention that you will have to live for decades in the future.

So you absolutely cannot get divorced. Secondly, even if a man wants you, you will not live well. Because you can't give birth to children for others. If you don’t have children in common. Aren't the couple just strangers? Or maybe we are strangers under the same roof.

It is difficult to be happy without common children, so divorce is not possible at this time. third. If you divorce your husband. What to do with the children? Can you not have children? And even if your husband gives you the child, the child will become a burden to you. Even if you don’t give your child to you, you won’t be able to let it go. Doesn’t this make you very embarrassed? From now on, you can live with everyone.

Then why can’t you live with your husband? You and your husband have been together for so many years, and you have feelings for each other. For the sake of this family, and more importantly for your happiness, don’t get divorced. What I say makes sense. I hope you can understand these words.

I told my mother, I know it makes sense, but if I don’t get divorced, how can I be responsible for you in the future? You are my mother and I must be responsible for you in the future. This matter has been settled, so don’t talk about it. My mother saw that I had made up my mind and didn't say anything else.

I think I am not wrong. Today I will talk about this matter and let you help me comment. If you encounter such a thing, what would you do? Shouldn't we choose divorce? I have been married to my husband for 5 years. The house was bought two years ago, but my husband did not contribute a dime. All the money was given by my parents.

My father died in a car accident two years ago and received a compensation of 1.2 million yuan. My father was a driver for a company, and something happened during the company's work schedule. So we paid 1.2 million yuan in compensation. My mother gave me 1.1 million of the 1.2 million. My mother told me, you can use this money to buy a house and live. It's useless for me to have so much money. 100,000 is enough for me.

I told my mother that my father had paid for this money with his life, and I could never take it. Just take it and live a good life. This is my father. When I said this, my mother cried. My mother said, so what? If you had a choice between your father and 1.2 million, I would definitely choose your father.

I don't need the money at all. If your father is here, I will suffer no matter how much pain you have. Now that your father is gone, what do I need so much money for? It’s better to give you the money to do something meaningful, don’t you think? I think if your father was here, your father would agree to do this. After all, you are his only daughter, and he also wants you to live well.

I cried when my mother said this, and then I cried and told my mother, I know you love me very much, but sometimes there are things I really can’t do. This money has to be paid. I really can't take it.

You should keep this money for your retirement. Only with this money can you live a good life in the future. My mother said, "Just take it. The child will grow up slowly. There will be no house to live in in the future. You won't make much money relying on your husband's earnings. You are all moonlighting. It's already pretty good to be able to support this family." If you have to buy a house, you can only rely on this money. So you can take this money back.

Just when I didn’t know what to do, my husband called me. My husband told me that in the future you will provide for your mother in old age. If we don’t have a house, how can we provide for your mother in old age? Since your mother said so, take the money back and buy a house. I have already set my sights on a house.

After you have this money, you can buy a house. After you have a house, you can tell your mother. If you don't have a house, it will be difficult to be responsible for your mother. So you have to get the money back. Since your mother said so, why do you still refuse? And your mother said this not for your own good, nor for the sake of this family?

Please be more considerate of your mother. It is not easy for your mother. Now that your father is gone, you will definitely be responsible for your mother. So you have to take the money whether you want it or not. If you don’t have money, how can you be responsible for your mother? If you don’t have money, you won’t have a house. If you don’t have a house, where will your mother live in the future?

can't live outside with us, and the children are growing up and they need a room. Just like your mother said, if we were to rely on the two of us to buy a house, it would probably take many, many years. We don’t know when. Now that we have the opportunity, why can’t we buy a house and live a happy life? Your mother said so, just take it back.

I don’t know what to do, and I still don’t really want to get the money back. My mother told me, I would have known if you didn’t tell me, so just take the money back and buy a house. You can only be responsible for me after you have a house. If you don’t have a house, how can you be responsible for me in the future? And the children have to grow up.

wants a house to live in. That's it, take it quickly. I don't want to see this money. When I see this money, I think about your father. Later I used the money to buy a house. Although this house does not have my mother's name on it, it was bought with all the money from my mother. My name is written on the property.

Then I will have a house to live in. I promised that I will be responsible for my mother. The exam has only passed and my husband will occupy the house. I went back to my parents' house that day. My husband asked me to go back. My husband told me that your mother's birthday is coming soon. Why don't you go back and spend some time with her? Your father used to spend birthdays with your mother, but this year is different.

I never thought that my husband would remember my mother's birthday. Then I told my husband, I know, I wanted to tell you about this, but I didn’t expect you to tell me. My husband told me, I must be very proud, your mother is the benefactor of our family. You go back quickly. After the delivery, my husband dropped me off at the station.

At that time I thought my husband was that good. Later I found out that he wanted to use me to go home and then give the house to his brother-in-law to get married. Because my husband knows that the house belongs to me, I would definitely not agree if I were here. After all, this house was bought with my father’s money. And now that I'm back, he can do whatever he wants.

After I came back from my parents' home, I found that the house was no longer mine, and my key could no longer open the door. I was very angry and asked my husband, what on earth is going on? Why can’t I open the door? Then my husband told me, I forgot to tell you something. My brother is getting married soon and he needs a house. So I gave the house to my brother.

You also know that I am only a younger brother. If I don't help him, he will never get married in this life. My older brother is already married, so it is impossible for him to ignore his younger brother. So I helped my brother, and I was not the only one who agreed to this matter.

My parents also agreed... I interrupted my husband, and I said to my husband, what does your parents agree with me? Does this house belong to your parents? And what does your brother have to do with me? If I hadn't married you, I wouldn't have a dime to do with you yourself.

This house is everything to our family. If you give the house to your brother, where will we live? My husband told me that we are all family. There is no need to worry so much. We can just rent a house and live outside as we did before.

As for the house, I will give it to my brother for marriage, and I said myself that when he has money to buy a house, he will return the house. I believe that my brother has this ability. It won’t be long before I can make money myself. When my brother makes money, I will return the house. Or maybe my brother will give us a sum of money by then.

Just like this, don't make a fuss about this, it's useless. I have already given the house to my brother, and my brother has changed the lock, and you can't get in now. This matter has been settled, so don't talk about it anymore. If you say it again, it will make this matter bigger. If it makes the matter bigger, it will be bad when my parents know about it.

My parents thought you agreed to it, so I told them that you agreed to it. Then my parents agreed. That’s it for now. He is my younger brother, so I can’t help him. Considering the crisis, if your brother needs help, you will help him. Although you don't have a brother, you should be able to understand this feeling.

I told my husband that it is your business and has nothing to do with me. I don’t agree with this matter. This house was bought with my father's life money. I can only be responsible for my mother after building a house. If I don't build a house, how will I be responsible to Wang Wujun in the future? At first I thought, I don't understand why you insist on me getting the money back. It turns out that this is what happened. Taking my father's money...

I don't agree with this. If you insist on doing this, then don't blame me for not treating you as a family member. My husband was also very angry when he heard what I said. My husband angrily said to me, "You don't want to treat me as a family member yet. What do you think?"

I am your husband, why am I not part of your family? I am your husband, he is my brother, and we are a family. If you insist on saying that, then don’t blame me for not treating you as a family member. It's you who didn't regard us as a generation first. Do you want to divorce me? If so, let's get divorced. It's not that I don't love you and don't regard us as a family.

I wanted to laugh when my husband said that. I told my husband, the house is mine, let’s get divorced... That’s how things are. Faced with this matter, what else can I do except divorce? This house is not mine, it was bought with money from my father's life.

Conclusion:

is really helpless in the face of this matter. If it were me, I would also choose divorce. To put it bluntly, your husband doesn't love you at all. If your husband loved you, he wouldn't threaten you with this matter and would destroy your marriage in order to help his brother.

If this is the case, then get divorced. There is nothing to say. If you don't get divorced, you won't be able to live your life at all. Because there is no such thing as you in your husband's heart. If there is, he is his younger brother. Otherwise, he would not treat you like this. As long as your husband doesn't want to live with you, then divorce him. So there is nothing wrong with your choice of divorce.

Although what your mother said makes sense, you must choose divorce when faced with this matter. A reminder to all men here.You can help your family, but you must do things in a measured way. Don’t forget that if you have a wife and children, it is your wife and children who live with you.

When you help your family, you must do what you can. You can do as much work as you have the ability to do. There is no need to wear such a big hat with such a big head, just like the man in the article. In the end, all hope will be lost. Don't let such a tragedy happen again.