How many scars do you have on your body? Can you count them? Is it because the old pain has not healed and new injuries have been added? This was told to me by an old friend who I have known for a long time. He turned out to be a particularly kind and optimistic person. A few day

How many scars do you have on your body? Can you count them? Is it because the old pain has not healed and new injuries have been added? This was told to me by an old friend who I have known for a long time. He turned out to be a particularly kind and optimistic person.

A few days ago, a netizen told me that she hated a nagging woman around her who would just dump her anger and worries regardless of how others felt. If anyone makes a comment, she will attack him in attack mode.

netizens were full of complaints and were embarrassed to object because of their colleagues, so they could only endure it all silently. She asked me uncomfortably if she also hated this kind of person?

I thought about it and told netizens that I don’t hate such a person, but I feel pity for her, because that person only lives in her own uneasy emotions and can no longer find herself.

At this moment, we ignore her, dislike her, and treat her with cold violence. In fact, it is not only her sorrow, but also our sorrow. It is also the sorrow of this social atmosphere.

I say, the more we keep nagging like this, the more sad we are. A person who doesn't pay attention to the audience and the occasion is a person without scheming, a person who has lost confidence in his own life, a person who is so numb with scars that he doesn't know the pain. When it comes down to it, he is a pitiful person. Netizen

did not accept my point of view and repeatedly emphasized that I did not understand this person. She is a very scheming person. He even cited a few things about her scheming.

netizen’s words are so conclusive that I must accept that she is the scheming woman. I don’t know whether I should just label that person like this, but I am thinking about such a person, why should we treat her so unfairly? How can you remember it so clearly?

There are many such carefree and bold-faced women around us. You can identify such people in your life just by talking about them. You and I both know that such people are definitely not happy people.

People who truly live a happy life are quiet, smiling, optimistic, generous, and tolerant. The person who can obtain the greatest material and spiritual benefits the fastest is not only a smart mind, but also an open-minded person.

How can we accumulate wealth if we can't tolerate things or people in our hearts? How can a person be a strong person when his mind is still confused about the cost of making trouble over nothing.

That nagging woman, why is everyone unwilling to dissuade her? Everyone knows at this moment, whoever touches her, who she bites, people who live a happy life will calculate the cost of arguing with her is uneconomical, so they give up.

That nagging woman gradually lost her connections and aura, so she was no longer scheming, but an emotional person. So why did she become like this?

I told netizens that I can conquer such a person. You only need to affirm her and her views, lead her out of the dark zone in her heart, and let her see her achievements and beauty, and she will become very good.

Many of us may seem calm on the surface, but in fact, we are turbulent deep inside. I feel that it is better to vent it out happily if we suppress ourselves for a long time. Everyone has countless scars in their hearts, it’s just that we have learned to endure and hide them.

We often encourage ourselves not to give up on ourselves at any time and to see our own differences. Why don't we give others a chance? Learning to be tolerant is not easy for everyone, just like we don’t know how many scars we have on our bodies, and we don’t know when it will erupt like a volcano.

My very kind and optimistic old friend once told me that when I saw his eyes red and angry, please don’t stay away or get angry. It was not his intention at that moment, but I really couldn’t hold back the pain in my body. .