When you are dining with a group of people who are higher than you, how do you behave and speak in a way that is very appropriate and likable? Learn these 3 points and you will be sure to be looked down upon by anyone who dines with a great person.
1. You must be discerning and be able to take the initiative to fill in the gaps.
When eating with high-level people, especially the meal arranged by your leader, we must first know that you are not here to eat. Don't be too heavy-handed and just sit down and cook. You have to understand that the point of a dinner party is not the meal, but the party. Since it is a game, we must learn to add drama to ourselves and play a comfortable role. Especially where the waiters can't keep up, we all have to be able to keep up.
For example, adding tea and wine, ordering food and cigarettes, paying the bill in advance, calling for a driver, etc. For all kinds of walk-in jobs, the more you can take the initiative to fill in, and the more you see the job in your eyes, the better you can leave a good impression on the leader. If something good happens next time, he will be willing to take you out. Do you agree?
2. You must learn to answer and assist, but not interrupt. When the
boss is speaking, the most taboo thing is to be interrupted, especially before his true meaning has been fully expressed. So here’s the problem. At dinner, there will inevitably be high-level people talking about areas that you happen to be familiar with and good at. Should we answer the call at this time?
3, it is necessary to know the right amount of bragging and complimenting each other.
At the dinner party, after three rounds of drinking, the drunkenness made all kinds of bragging and compliments inevitable. But if we want to leave a good impression on our leaders, we must know the right amount of bragging and complimenting each other. Otherwise, you will look fake.
Generally speaking, the lowest form of bragging is that once you say it, it will make others think that you are trying your best. The most arrogant bragging will make people feel that you are quite humble and that your background is quite strong, and they will have unlimited associations with you.
In addition, timing is also very important. The best thing is that when others talk about the areas we are good at, you can quickly talk about your own insights after lightly talking about awesome facts. At the same time, we can also provide some inspiration given by a certain big shot. This will make people look up to you by several levels. The same is bragging. A low-level person will only say that he is great; while a high-level person will associate all his greatness with others. This is the difference.
People at the bottom are looked down upon by others; people at the middle level are ignored by others; people at the top are praised by others.
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When dealing with big guys, if we want to turn talented people into noble people and turn them into our own social resources, we must understand more about the rules of human social interaction, especially young people who are working hard in society. I think It is necessary for everyone to learn how to understand people's true intentions, respond comprehensively, and quickly leave a good impression on others.
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