Introduction In her later years, Aunt Liang smiled from ear to ear. People of the same age are more envious of Aunt Liang's old life, envied her big house, envied her high pension, envied her having filial children, envied her having real estate. Anyway, Aunt Liang's life has bec

Introduction

In her later years, Aunt Liang smiled from ear to ear. People of the same age are more envious of Aunt Liang's old life, envied her big house, envied her high pension, envied her having filial children, envied her having real estate.

Anyway, Aunt Liang’s life has become the envy of everyone. In fact, none of this fell from the sky. It was through Aunt Liang's own efforts that she achieved her happy life in her later years.

Let’s take a look at what Aunt Liang’s life was like in her later years? She can be so happy, what is her secret? In order to make it easier for everyone to understand, I write in the first person.

Narrator: 63-year-old Aunt Liang

I am Aunt Liang. I am 63 years old this year. I have been retired for eight years. My wife and I live in a large house of more than 130 square meters. The house is bright and spacious. We have two other houses. There is also a car worth tens of thousands.

My husband’s and my pensions add up to about 15,000 yuan per month. Including the rental fees of the house and our investment income, we can earn about 30,000 yuan per month. The two people earn more than 30,000 yuan a month, which is considered a very high income in our local area. Most families cannot achieve this kind of income.

Actually, don’t look at our high income. It really doesn’t fall from the sky, it’s all earned through our hard work. My wife and I are both retired teachers.

When we were on the job, we worked very hard on topics and taught seriously. Anyway, we were all working hard to learn things that were useful to us.

So my husband and I became senior teachers early on. In the teaching industry, if you retire as a senior teacher, your monthly pension will be more than that of an ordinary teacher.

My parents-in-law also lived frugally. We didn’t skimp on things we should use, but we definitely didn’t use things we shouldn’t. So we used all the money we saved to buy a house. At that time, housing prices were not that high. We bought two houses at once, but we paid a down payment and paid off the loan slowly.

After buying a house for a while, our funds were no longer so tight. My wife and I also learned how to invest and manage money. Of course, when we invest, we choose the ones with higher security. If the risk is too high, we Impossible to invest in.

Although both my parents-in-law work hard, we do not ignore the growth of our children. We also spend a lot of time with our son.

Because the happiness of a family depends to a certain extent on whether the children are successful and filial? So we dare not ignore children’s learning.

No matter how busy and tired we are, we must take time to accompany our son to study and grow up, and teach him to be a good person and do things seriously.

And our son has lived up to the expectations of our two parents-in-law. He has achieved excellent results since childhood and has a good character. He ranked third in our city in the college entrance examination and entered a key university. After graduation, my son successfully entered a large company with an annual salary of hundreds of thousands.

When my son got married later, he already had money to buy a house by himself, and he paid for the bride price himself, so we didn’t have to worry about these things at all.

Including later when my grandson was born, he spent his own money to hire a nanny. When my daughter-in-law was in confinement, I went to take care of her for a month. I don’t have to help with the grandkids. So I have a lot less trouble than the average old person, and I don’t have to worry about this or that.

In fact, whether the elderly are happy in their old age really depends on the following two conditions

A certain material foundation

To be honest, for the elderly, the material foundation is too important. As people get older, their bodies are going downhill. Sometimes If you are in poor health, you will have to pay to go to the hospital. If the elderly have money, that is no problem.

If the elderly have no money, they have to ask their children for it, and the children's lives are also under great pressure. They have their own families, have to pay off the mortgage and car loan, and pay for their children's extracurricular tutoring.Every living thing costs money. This is enough to overwhelm a young man.

So it’s not that children don’t want to take care of the elderly, but that their abilities are really limited. Their income is far less than their expenses. In such an environment, your children cannot afford to pay for you to go to the hospital. Really It’s difficult. In fact, if you ask your children for money, they will be even more sad than you if they don’t have any money to give you.

Because his parents worked hard to raise him, but when his parents encountered difficulties and fell ill, he was unable to send his parents to the hospital for treatment. Watching my parents suffer.

Therefore, the elderly must have a certain material foundation and have a house. Only with a house can they have a stable residence and feel at ease.

Otherwise, if you don’t have a house and you rent a house all day, the landlord will be unhappy one day and won’t rent you a house. You will have to find a house again, which will be quite troublesome to move around.

The qualified elderly must save a sum of money, because this money is emergency money. When you encounter difficulties or emergencies, you can use it for emergencies. Otherwise, you really don’t know who to ask for it. , no one you ask is as reliable as his own money.

However, there are some old people who do not have this sense of worry. They spend as much as they have and never consider their children. Some of them eat and drink all day long and even ask their children for money when they have no money. .

Some elderly people even ask their children for money to buy health care products. They have never thought about their children. It is really inappropriate for these elderly people to do this. They invisibly increase the burden on their children.

Whether children are filial

Another important condition for whether the elderly are happy is whether children are filial. Whether children are filial or not is also related to the way you raised your children when you were young.

Some parents never care about their children and turn a blind eye to them. They are only responsible for giving birth to children, but they have no intention of taking care of them or nurturing them.

Some parents are even more rude and will go home and take it out on their children if something doesn't go their way. Think about it, if children grow up in this kind of family environment, how can they have a good relationship with their parents? They all want to grow up quickly and stay away from their original family.

When the elderly are in trouble or have a sudden illness, don’t think that your children will be good to you, don’t think that your children will be around to take care of you, let alone think that your children will give you a certain amount of living expenses. That is really difficult. To put it bluntly, if you are not good to your children, they will wish you to leave this world as soon as possible so as not to annoy them.

On the other hand, if parents are responsible for their children and educate them carefully since childhood, many of their children will become outstanding when they become adults, and they can also make achievements in their respective fields.

Of course, they will not forget their parents' kindness. No matter where they are, they will be filial to their parents. Even if they can't stay with their parents, if they have the conditions, they will hire nannies for their parents and serve them well, and they will often I buy things for my parents in the evening and often call my parents to say hello.

If you are an elderly person and have such children, it is really a happy thing. Of course, this is all thanks to the money these parents invested when they were young, so now they are getting rewards. This is what they deserve.

Conclusion

As people get older, their bodies will go downhill and they will encounter various problems. Therefore, the elderly must have a certain material foundation, and they must firmly hold these material foundations in their hands, waiting for something to happen to them. If there is an accident, you can take it out for emergencies.

And regardless of our cultural level, we must treat our children well, educate them well, and raise them well. If you are good to your children, most children will know how to be grateful. When they grow up, they will treat you well and support you.

Only in this way will you be happy in your later years. Otherwise, if your children ignore you, then you will have to live alone, and life will be really difficult. I feel very pitiful just thinking about it.

Therefore, as parents, no matter what, you must be good to your children. Of course, you must maintain a certain level and not be too doting on your children.

The happy life of the elderly in their later years depends on these two conditions. One is having a certain material foundation, and the second is whether their children are filial. Do you have both?

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