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When it comes to love, most people think that love itself is a sentimental existence, but does an overly sentimental relationship really make it easy for both parties to get along?
It turns out that my boyfriend is a sentimental boy with a slightly low self-esteem. He is so sentimental that he can sense anything I do. an emotion.
Sometimes just chatting online can accurately guess the deep feelings in the heart. This is something that I, who am not good at expressing feelings, feel relieved about. However, as we get along with each other for a long time, I find all kinds of inconveniences caused by this emotional :
I don’t have my own private space. , I have to report all my whereabouts to him to feel at ease, otherwise they will speculate whether I am chatting with other boys and ignore him; I will get emotional regardless of time and place, even when eating out.
A message alert came on his phone. If he refused to read it, he would be in a weird mood all the way.
At first, it was his emotional truth that brought us together, but in the end it was his lack of maturity and reason that caused us to part ways.
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A mature and rational male partner can not only be a calming agent for girls when they are panicked, but also one of the sources of security for girls.
As the saying goes, "A man is a boy until he dies", it can be seen that boys have some kind of impulsive passion in their work. This is one of the characteristics that makes girls of the same age feel that they are naive.
Maturity and rationality not only make men stand out among their peers, but also allow them to properly handle the broken parts of emotional relationships.
The combination of strength and softness between sensitive and tender natured women and mature and rational men is also the key to a perfect marriage.
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A mature and rational female partner is the driving force behind a man’s career, the capital he is proud of in the wine shop, and the man’s comfort and calmness in front of his friends.
The role of girls after marriage can be said to be a measure of family harmony. Mature and sensible women can handle the marital relationship with their husbands well.
can also accommodate the man's family with a generous mind. At the same time, he always leaves a place for himself in his heart. He can be neither arrogant nor impetuous when he is brilliant, and he can end his life beautifully when he is down.
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If the personality characteristics of men and women are broken down in the marriage relationship, the most perfect thing is that men are rational and women are mature.
Reason enables men to maintain their original intentions in the face of the world of feasting and entertainment. They are not easily influenced by body hormones, but the sense of responsibility in their hearts prompts them to do what they should do.
Maturity enables women to still believe in each other when they feel left out, and try their best to do their best for the man's work, acting as a protective umbrella for his failure and a booster for his success.
The combination of the two is the best example of a perfect marriage.
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Of course, real life lacks the "silly sweetness" in TV dramas, and it also lacks rational and mature characters in love.
All we ordinary people can do is to keep ourselves awake in a chaotic world and understand the meaning of love to ourselves.
allows our partners to feel the love and at the same time give them the motivation to work hard, and try our best to make the people around us feel the beauty of life and the motivation to move forward because of our existence.
In this way, love can also leave a light for you in the dim light of to illuminate the world of both parties.
