Author: Five-layer
For a family, economic conditions determine the standard of living. And the standard of living determines a person's happiness to a large extent. Maybe, I live a superficial life, but I really think that there is no happiness when there is no money.
Colleague Xiao Liu is 30 years old this year, but despite his age, he still chooses to be single. In fact, it is not a choice, but a necessity.
Some time ago, Xiao Liu’s mother urged him, why aren’t you in a hurry? Your neighbor's son is a few years younger than you, and he is already in kindergarten. If you don't find someone, who will take a fancy to you? Are you planning to stay single for the rest of your life and not get married? No matter what you think, I won't agree. You have to let us see you have children so that we can rest assured.
But after hearing these words, Xiao Liu felt no flutter in his heart. He unconsciously wanted to refute: Get married? Why don't you consider the reality? I have nothing, neither a house nor a car. I can only take care of my own life in this city. How can I get married?
But what can he say? He has always believed that his parents have done their best to raise him and provide him with education. Moreover, his parents didn't have the conditions to buy a house or a car, so how could he force them to do so. You can only rely on yourself for everything. However, the salary cannot keep up with the housing prices, so there is no hope at all.
Xiao Liu can only deal with her mother. He knows too few girls, so there is no chance of falling in love.
Unexpectedly, a few days later, his mother called again and told him that someone had introduced a girl to him. Others hear that you work in the provincial capital and are willing to get to know each other. You can talk to her about goodbye and come back to see her if you have the opportunity.
Xiao Liu passively accepted it and added the woman’s WeChat account. The two had a good chat at the beginning, but after getting to know each other more deeply, Xiao Liu realized that the woman didn't know his specific situation at all. People thought that since he graduated from college and had worked in a big city for more than 6 years, he must be in good condition. Who would have thought that not only did Xiao Liu not buy a house in the provincial capital, he didn't even have a small house in their hometown county.
After the girl learned about it, she immediately said goodbye to Xiao Liu. Xiao Liu was full of hope, but was suddenly knocked to the ground. He felt that the other party must have thought that he was incompetent, his family was poor, and he had no future, so he ran away so fast!
Moreover, this was already the number one girl. As soon as everyone found out that he had no house or money, they ran away soon.
Yes! He is already 30 and still has nothing, unlike those boys who already have houses and cars thanks to their parents’ help. Every fool knows who to choose!
Only then did Xiao Liu realize that the reason for such a huge difference between him and others was not that his parents did not create a foundation for him. Those who own houses and cars may not necessarily have a higher salary than him, and their education may not be better than him, but it is not always the case that girls like them.
Although it is a bit unfilial to say this, parents really have to bear the main responsibility. However, they never thought about the reality at all and just blamed themselves for being stupid and dull for not being able to find a girlfriend.
Hey! If I were in Xiao Liu's situation, of course I would be disappointed and sad. In today's era, there are too many young people in the city who own houses and cars. I can only say that people are more infuriating than others, and the more you think about it, the more disappointed you will be. The only thing you can do is to accept the current situation and work hard!
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