[Text] Recalling the Years 20
My friend Zisu, her husband and wife live in separate places, and there is not much communication. Zisu's emotional intelligence is not very high. Whenever the two of them disagree on something, they talk about divorce. I tried to persuade her countless times but she didn't listen.
Two years ago, she filed for divorce again, and her ex-husband couldn't bear it anymore, so they went through the formalities. Now she regrets it a bit and often calls her ex-husband on the pretext of her children. He is always indifferent and she has complained to me several times.
I said: "Then don't contact him for the time being. If he cares about you, he will call you."
Zisu said: "But he called me, and I don't know what to say to him? "
I said: "Tell him that it is not convenient to answer the phone and ask him to send a WeChat message. I will help you figure out how to reply to him. "
Zisu told me today that her ex-husband called her and said he wanted to know her whereabouts. . Zisu replied: "I am your livestock, and you still want to know my whereabouts." Then hung up the phone.
I think her ex-husband wanted to know her whereabouts and still cared about her, but Zisu said that since he cared, her ex-husband shouldn't have agreed when she filed for divorce. Now it's all hypocrisy. I said that even if you are being hypocritical, you should not confront him. If you want to repair the relationship between you, you can try to say, thank you for thinking about me. I am very touched. How nice to say this.
But she said that her ex-husband wanted to know her whereabouts, which made her feel uncomfortable. I was really speechless. I want to repair the relationship with my ex-husband, but I don't listen to others' advice. She and I can't figure it out. I think her ex-husband still cares about her, friends, what do you think?