"You will be half drunk after drinking wine, and 70% full after eating. Never be too kind to someone."
People may not always be mutual.
If you show your heart and soul to others at this time, you may not get reciprocal rewards, and you may also be regarded as an exploitable object.
In a relationship, the best love is evenly matched. If you try too hard, you will only get used to the other person, wrong yourself, and eventually lose your love. As the saying goes: "If you love too much, things will turn the other way." If you love someone to the right extent, it will last forever. You must know that not everyone knows how to cherish, and not everyone will remember your kindness. Those who don't know how to cherish will remain indifferent no matter how much you give to them.
is not working in the TV series "One Year" Yoko plays He Yu, who has been in love with her boyfriend for ten years. The two support each other and work together in the city of Shanghai to strive for the future!
However, just when everything was about to get on track and He Yu was already planning for the wedding, the relationship between the two people for ten years fell apart. The direct reason for the breakdown of their relationship was the intervention of Tang Rui, the mistress. She took a fancy to Song Zelin's potential and wanted to use this man to realize her wish to gain a foothold in the big city.
So don’t try to impress him with your kindness! That is a person who understands that whatever you do is worthwhile. If you don’t understand, he will be indifferent to anything you do and will make it worse and worse. When a "suitable" person appears around you, your goodness becomes worthless.
If you expect too much from one thing, you will lose;
If you pay too much for a love, you will be tired;
If a person treats you too well, you will feel pain.
Always remember:
You can’t keep those who want to leave,
You can’t wake up those who pretend to be asleep,
People who don’t like you can’t be moved.
“Kindness is a virtue, but to wrong your own kindness is to deceive yourself.
As the old saying goes: “It’s not good for people to be nice and it’s not good for dogs to be full. "
Everything has its limits, and too much is too much.
As the writer Wang Xiaobo said: "Kindness is never an easy thing, and wrong kindness will only drag you into hell. ”
Just the right amount of kindness is the best nourishment for each other.
Have you ever experienced being too nice to others?
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