In life, do we really have to follow the secular perspective?
01 We live in this world. Sometimes we live for ourselves, and sometimes we seem to live for others. I often feel that there are problems with my thoughts and psychology. Now I am 29 years old, but I am still unmarried, and it is inevitable for my family and relatives to do so. Will urge, as myself, I have become accustomed to being alone in the past few years. I am used to shopping alone, staying at home alone, going to eat alone, going to the hospital, etc... Occasionally, I will walk on the street and envy others holding hands. I envy others who have a spiritual support around them and can share their joys, sorrows and joys.
02. Having seen too many unhappy marriages and seeing through them, are you gradually afraid of marriage?
My friends around me are all married, and I often hear gossip from them about cheating after marriage. They all live a life of deceiving themselves and others, so I slowly see through it and feel that marriage is It's a meaningless thing, so sometimes it feels like it's better to be alone for the rest of your life, without having to live a life of deceiving each other.
Sometimes I even feel that I can’t find a good partner, so I have no interest and despair in getting married. This is also one of the aspects that makes me feel lonely forever. I can’t meet the right person. There is a saying , It’s better to be short-term than wasteful. For me, getting married is not a matter of completing a task, but a matter of being responsible for my life for a lifetime.
So is there anyone who has had the same feeling as me? You can communicate with each other.
