They all say that talking about money hurts feelings, but I think money is a good thing. It can reveal human nature and see through people's hearts. It allows you to see clearly which of the people around you is a "true friend" and which is a "foolish friend."
A person's attitude towards money can reveal his character, especially when borrowing money, it can let you know whether he is worth getting to know deeply.
1. Borrowing money makes people feel like they are
I have a high school classmate who always likes to borrow money and not repay it. Every time he mentioned paying back the money, he would always find all kinds of weird excuses. Either he has used up all his newly paid salary; or he is buying a gift for his girlfriendâs birthday, and the bottom line is that he has no money. If he doesnât ask, his circle of friends is all about eating, drinking, and traveling with his girlfriend, which is all romantic and sweet.
Although I donât borrow much money each time, I often borrow and fail to pay it back, which is a huge sum of money to me. I would rather hold even one yuan in my hand instead of putting it in other peopleâs pockets.
As a classmate, I feel that it is not worth it to break up for a few hundred dollars. It seems that I am too fussy and will be very embarrassed once I meet at a class reunion.
I wonder if you have a friend who often likes to borrow money but doesnât pay it back in time? But think about it from another angle, if he is not even willing to pay you back a few hundred dollars, will he still care about his relationship with you?
Since he doesn't care anymore, why do you waste energy and money on maintenance? TA will only take from you until you are drained dry! Even so, people will not thank you, and will even laugh at you behind your back for being stupid and naive, taking your kindness for granted, and when you ask for help, you may not get corresponding help.
You must know that everyone's money is hard-earned, and it is not anyone's cash machine. Those who borrow money and fail to repay it are wolves in sheep's clothing, good at playing emotional cards and seeking benefits for themselves. Faced with such people, I advise you to stay away as soon as possible. Please remember, help the urgent but not the poor!
2. When you are poor in the busy city, no one cares about you, but when you are rich in the mountains, you have distant relatives.
When I was a child, my family was financially difficult, and we were not welcome when we went to relatives' homes. Therefore, we consciously rarely went to other people's homes to play.
Especially at my grandmaâs house, I have to look at my uncle and auntâs faces every time I go there. I donât dare to pick up food when eating, so I can only eat plain rice. I also pick and choose the gifts we bring and find faults in all kinds of ways; however, they Never give anything to our family.
When our children grow up and the economy improves, our relatives will come to care about us. How much is our salary? Have you bought a house or a car? Do you have a partner? I even borrowed money from a niece who just graduated to buy a house. Isn't this just for money?
So for the warmth and warmth of the world, I first felt it from my relatives! It turns out that feelings are really different because you have money and you have no money. I never have any hope for so-called relatives.
Sometimes even if I have difficulties, I would rather ask my friends for help than open my mouth to relatives and friends, so as not to get in trouble and receive ridicule and education. Since relatives cannot be chosen, we must learn to classify relatives.
Communicate more with reliable relatives and less with unreliable relatives. Those who are kind to you must remember that even a drop of kindness must be repaid by a spring. You have to understand that throughout life, borrowing money is a matter of affection, and not borrowing is a duty.
3. Talking about money hurts your feelings, but not talking about money hurts your body.
When you are carried away by love, you think that "love is enough", but when you face the financial obsession in life, you know that "poor couples have everything." sorrow".
As the saying goes, where a manâs heart is, his money will be spent. A man who truly loves you must be willing to spend money for you, and a man who is not willing to spend money for you must not love you.
When you are in love, you need to talk about money, and the person who likes you will definitely be willing to spend money for you; when you get married, you need to talk about money, and the person who is willing to give you a gift is the one who cares about you the most; after marriage, couples should be honest with each other financially and put themselves in their shoes. Consider each other, manage income together, and manage finances appropriately.
Money is not everything, but money is absolutely impossible! Money can bring people the most precious thing in the world - the right to make their own decisions!
When a family member is sick, you can take out life-saving money; when you buy a house, you can make a one-time payment without having to suffer monthly loan repayments that affect your quality of life; you can take your family on a spontaneous trip.
Talking about money is vulgar, but it can give people the confidence to survive. If you donât want to be humble in the future, then be a common person who works hard for money and live the way you like.
