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Introduction
A 57-year-old man proposed his idea to his son: I want to find a companion for myself. His son's answer was this: Yes, but you must agree to four conditions. What are the conditions for a son? Can the old man agree? Let’s take a look.
成aunt/57 years old
It has been ten years since my wife passed away, and my son has already started a family. I have a pension of 5,000 yuan and live in a three-bedroom house. My financial situation is acceptable, but I am not happy because I feel that living alone is too lonely, and I want to find a companion for myself.
When I was young, I had to get my parents’ permission to find a partner. Now that people are old, they need their son’s permission to find a wife. I told my son that I wanted to find a wife. My son has always been filial to me and respected me. I thought he would agree, but unexpectedly he made four requests.
I asked my son to tell me his four requests, and he listed them seriously. Only if I agreed would he allow me to find a wife.
The first requirement: I can find a wife, but I can’t get a certificate just to live together.
My son said that he supports me finding a wife, but the premise is that two people are together to accompany each other and take care of each other, and cannot have other thoughts. If two old people have such simple and clear minds, then living together is a good way for both of them. Remarriage will involve two families and property issues, so his idea is to make it as simple as possible, just partner up without getting a certificate.
The second requirement: When I want to find a wife, I must find someone who has the same conditions in all aspects.
My son said that if two people have the same conditions in all aspects, their life will be more harmonious and stable. If one party is stronger and the other is weaker, there will always be some disputes. This includes age, personality, hobbies, and economic conditions. Since you are looking for a wife, you must look for a good one, someone who suits you. You cannot look for a wife just for the sake of finding a wife. This will easily fall into the trap of some people with ulterior motives.
The third requirement: My pension, deposits, real estate certificates and other important things must be handed over to my son for safekeeping.
My son made it clear that he is my biological son and he has absolutely no interest in my money or house. However, this is not necessarily the case for those who approach me under the guise of looking for a wife. To be on the safe side, my son helped me keep these important things so that I would not be deceived intentionally. Of course, when I need money, my son will give it to me. The prerequisite is that he knows where the money is. If there is no problem, he will give it to me with confidence.
The fourth requirement: When I find a wife, we can share the housework and help each other. I can’t be a free nanny for others.
My son is afraid that I will be emotional and soft-hearted and easily deceived. He's a nice guy, and he's eager to do all the housework. My son said that I am getting older and need someone to take care of me. Only those who are willing to treat me sincerely and take care of me can hand me over with confidence.
The above are the four conditions proposed by my son. If I can agree, he will agree to my finding a wife. If I cannot agree, he will object. I chatted with my son for a long time, and I knew that he was doing it for my own good. I thought his request was reasonable, so I agreed to it. As long as I agree to these requests from my son, will anyone be willing to be my wife?
Conclusion
The elderly are afraid of loneliness, and it is human nature to want to find a wife. As children who cannot accompany their parents all the time, they must support the elderly's choices. Of course, the elderly are easily deceived, and their children should be clear-headed. Parents should be reminded of what they should pay attention to in a timely manner, and they must be on guard against others. They cannot let the elderly act as they please.
